Might be a difference in taste. I have friends who like more obedient wifes too. I don’t want a ”female simp”.
Like i said, you can have all the combative women in the world. Good riddance and good luck.
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It is best to avoid all confrontation as this condition heightens and persists
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Its not simping… its recognizing and embracing our inherent roles. Balance each other’s energy, essentially.
Feminine men and masculine women are off putting to the opposite sex. Breeds resentment
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Masculine energy in women is so annoying
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turns my dick into an “innie”
Did you know China is considering taxing single women
It’s a byproduct of the “one child policy” backfiring tremendously. That and modern dating + economic turmoil = women don’t want kids. From an economic standpoint I do not blame them… from the “I have a career therefore for a man to be a provider he needs to do better than me”… unforseen consequence of liberation.
But China is starting to deal with a super aged society… So they’ve sprung fourth with a few ideas, and taxing single women has come up as a top idea.
I don’t think it will work, but I can see the rationale. Hypergamy absolutely exists, we have study after study proving this. In more traditional times (minus the negatives that came with past societies) rules were put in place to keep women AND men in line!
People seem to forget sexually promiscuous individuals, serial daters and chronic “sitautionahips” were frowned upon by society back then
and “shaming” worked believe it or not! I used to be against the idea, but it does seem to work. Nowadays vapid individualism isn’t just accepted, but encouraged.
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Not sure what this means either. I’m not in to masculine women by how I see masculinity.
Anyway. I think we’re having profound differences how we view the world in this subject. Somehow our observations differ. And all the history and other studies I’ve read does not support the notion of rigid character traits for women.
But now the sleep.
Yeah. I remember the document I watched about the ”drone men of China”. You live in rural area with no education or money = it’s almost impossible to find woman to marry.
The only two options are submissive and combative ? Maybe I’m just not familiar with the way the terms are being used but I wouldn’t describe my current wife or former girlfriends as submissive, but I would never use the word combative for what they were
What is being meant by “submit” here? The man has the ultimate say in household and financial matters kind of thing ?
Or is submission like The women has to do whatever the man says when he says it ?
How much autonomy is a submissive woman giving up to her man?
For example my wife isn’t saying “yes dear, whatever you want dear, right away my love” but neither is she saying “go fuck yourself patriarchal pig, if you want something do it yourself”
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Not sure if there’s negative connotations in the word, but when not taken too far it’s not a bad trait in people. I reckon many world leaders are pretty combative.
Laughed at this.
Oh, maybe my wife is combative then
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Real men are assholes
Real women are bitches
Men that are not assholes are cucks
Women that are not bitches are cunts
it’s the way world turns
I know not directed at me and I have many other questions pending here, but I can speak to my mother as I have nearly identical views to @Andrewgen_Receptors.
We are extremely close and always have been. We still talk or text daily. I have the utmost respect for her and was raised to my entire life. She has always been my biggest fan. I am the oldest of 5. She holds a MD and a PHD in microbiology. She has been published all over the world for research on cell modulation and other things. She is about to be the recipient of the largest ever endowment in LSU’s history for research and the named chair.
She is wickedly smart - probably one of the smartest people I know on pure intellect and outside the box thinking.
If you asked her what her greatest achievement was, she would instantly answer with having and raising her 5 children. I say all of this because she hates the state of women working and missing out on raising their children. (She was a SAHM with a MD until the youngest was in high school after she started having kids).
So, you have this brilliant woman who could really care less about her career achievements when placed against motherhood. And the funny thing is, she doesn’t think women should vote either. She routinely states working with women is a nightmare and they are too emotional / can never get a long.
But, with a caveat of men owning their roles and doing what they should which is an entire separate discussion. I do not place all the blame on women. I actually place it on men. Men are supposed to hold the leader role and thus the brunt of responsibility for the state of things.
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I’m late to the party on this, but I think it’s important to talk about.
I see a lot of people putting off kids either because they don’t feel like they’ve had a chance to live life (that’s a whole other conversation,) or are waiting to feel secure in their professional life to make the jump.
My parents had a messy divorce, so I planned to never be married or have kids, and instead travel the world and die by setting my sailboat on fire as a Viking funeral in the middle of the pacific and leave a mystery behind.
Now I’m married with two kids, planning a third, and had a conversation with another person in my field about how life is going. We were in the exact same class in our school, and are now working in identical roles, but when I asked him about his/family or kids, he said “Negative. Had to give it up for the dream.” I have the “dream” but also kids. My wife is successful in her career. We had to make changes, but not sacrifices.
So I’ve been thinking about that. Before I had kids, I was worried. I have no idea how to be a dad - the total amount of time I spent with my dad in my teens and 20’s was less than the time I spent watching “Fight Club” on repeat. But my kids have never held me back. It forced me to be creative with my career, but also provided new motivation, and new joy that I didn’t understand the value of previously.
Having a kid is like discovering a new room in your house that was always there but you never knew existed. It’s worth it.
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Shrivels foreskins like nothing else
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I was going to, but then I got hungry.
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The thing is that it is generally true, but lacks a super important detail, that is almost always left out. Adult women generally want kind and altruistic men, that they are already attracted to.
The issue is that young men are told that being nice and respectful to women will make her interested in you. This messaging is strong and consistent from when we are young. Most of the time, if she isn’t attracted to you, being nice will result in her viewing you the same way as the nice elderly man next door.
Most people will choose attraction over damn near everything else.
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