To be clear, I’m in that “phase” you quoted not due to feelings, but due to my observations over the last 15 years and especially the last 5 years of observing how Maine Democrats operate on a local level when they have the house, senate, and governor’s house. When it comes to major policy, I’m completely against just about everything they stand for in 2025. I was quite liberal prior to Obama’s 2nd Term, but the party was distinctly different at that time.
As far as your marriage goes, I can sympathize. My mother was shunned by my brother and his family when she worked on Trump’s first campaign shortly after my father passed away. I thought it was great for her, especially since it got her out of the house and socializing, but they thought she was - you guessed it - campaigning for literally Hitler.
My brother and his wife are both well-educated people living in West Roxbury, MA, who are unable to explain anything about the Nazis, or fascists for that matter. They get ANGRY if you express any level of disagreement. They have gone in on every media narrative of the last 10 years, and continue to do so even after so many have proven to be complete fabrications. They shunned me and my stepson after he refused to get the COVID vaccine. Uninvited from all family functions, all over a shot that didn’t even work as Biden told us it would and I’m glad he didn’t get. I wish I hadn’t gotten it.
In my case, I’ve now officially lost the assumption of good faith in the entire Democratic Party. I mean, they are finally coming out as Democratic Socialists openly. They are telling you who they are now, after pretending to be the same party of Bill Clinton. I’ve been calling them Democratic Socialists for years on account of the policies they implement in Maine, along with how the Biden administration operated.
I would challenge you to try assuming good faith in MAGA, as well as considering the possibility that we’re all the victims of a psychological operation of propaganda from the mainstream media over the last 10 years, done at the behest of establishment interests. Dick Cheney’s endorsement of Harris was no coincidence. I would encourage you to reflect on all the media narratives you were really upset about in the past, then ask yourself, did it even turn out to be true?
I would encourage you to consider the possibility that everything I’ve documented in this thread about Lewiston is true, and that the shocking decline of this once peaceful, affordable, well-functioning working and middle-class town is nearly entirely due to one party political dominance and their policy implementations at local and state level.
If you agree with contemporary Democrat policies, I would encourage you to look up the Democratic Socialists of America’s policy platform for a glimpse of possible future policies. Mass migration, censorship, actual government propaganda coming from “private” media outlets, election rigging, race-based policies and spending priorities, defunding the police, decriminalizing crime, and using public funds to import a new voting bloc aren’t “right wing myths”. They are all fairly well documented and in the public record at this point.
In short, a lot of people are going to need to confront the possibility that they were unwillingly suckered into supporting a socialist coup, because that’s what appears to have played out since Obama took office, who I voted for first term. The evidence continues to mount, but you would never know it if you watched CNN, MSNBC, or read the daily 3 minutes hate of Heather Cox Richardson. Give Matt Taibbi a try, if you consider yourself a 1990’s moderate Democrat like I still do in many ways. He’s never shied away from calling bullshit on any side, and he’s calling MAJOR bullshit on the whole Biden administration and mainstream media right now, with actual documentation of said bullshit.
Finally, I would encourage you to look up some of HCR’s old posts that millions of people took as gospel when they were written, and see how wrong she was about all of her wild speculation. You could also do that with old threads here. Look at how spectacularly wrong so many of the anti-Trump narratives have turned out to be over the last decade.
Biden was not compos mentis, Harris was dumb as a brick, but the people running the party’s script were not at all. They are exceedingly cunning and ruthless in their pursuit of power. I watch it play out all the time in Maine, even to the point of harassing single moms who dare to speak out at a school board meeting to stick up for her brutally beaten daughter (which I documented in this thread). It’s not just “same stuff on both sides”, not here in Maine. They operate like a rainbow mafia.
Trump isn’t perfect by any means, but he’s getting us out of the danger. Don’t be surprised that men are sensing it when women are not, either.