What the hell is wrong with you?
Thats a trap. Or a Test. No good will come out of that in the long run.
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I fully agree with @newbvet here.
Personally, AAS makes me more alpha, and letting another man touch my missus is fully the opposite. Oh and testosterone in higher doses makes me possessive af, but hey some women like that shit. They like to be claimed, mine does anyway.
Never understood the open relationship thing, I mean I’d be fine smashing another female because I’m a guy, but the other way around? Not happening. @zeek1414 hit the nail on the head, when that mood and testosterone high/libido has left, you’ll think back and be like wtf did i agree to? @weightliftingwithoutlimits
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He simply pointed out the fact that you didnt answer the question. Which seems to be a theme with a lot of your posts.
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The worst part about the drenched sheets for me was waking up in the middle of the night for a piss, then having to get back into bed with those drenched covers. Feels fucking horrible.
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Its the worse especially sense I sleep with the house at 66 degrees. Now I keep a towel or two next to the bed to lay on after pissing.
only compound that ever made me feel “alpha” was nandrolone (used it very briefly). Drostanolone shot up my libido to ungodly levels, methandienone has be sleepy and happy, testosterone doesn’t do much aside from the fact that it appears to make me slightly more impulsive.
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Sometimes polyamorous relationships work, I know of multiple couples who swing (however the multiple partners aspect is present with both the man and the woman) and they’re very happy.
Sure, there’s a fine line between meaningless sex and emotional connection, and sometimes possession and/or jealousy can/will develop, especially if feelings of inadequacy or insecurity (performance compared to others, feeling as if partner is enjoying another more or developing feelings for another etc.) however if these parameters can be overcome the notion of multiple partners can be a very exciting, invigorating experience.
Personally I believe it takes a certain type of personality/set of traits in order to be able to overcome these potential flaws within the ideology of polyamory, however it most certainly can work. As an autism (autistic person, but if I call myself an autism it sounds funnier), there are certain emotions I have a lot of trouble expressing, not to say I don’t feel them, I merely don’t know how to distinguish or express them in person, thus many who come across me may think I’m “cold… Lack empathy or even display sociopathic traits”… The further couldn’t be the truth, I simply have less of a filter than most and thus tend to accidentally say things that may shock or make others uncomfortable (as I speak the truth, unless I can somehow sense my words will deleteriously effect another psyche/emotional status). That being said, I find writing, both on paper and on here/word documents etc is a very good way for me to accurately depict my thoughts and emotions and figure my shit out as my mind is always unfortunately churning at 10000 words per minute within relation to my thought process.
how does this relate? Well… swinging can induce subconscious and/or non-expressed emotion to arise involving jealousy, paranoia, inadequacy and insecurities. The best way to make sure such a relationship works (in my extremely inexperienced opinion) is to make sure communication with you’re partner is on point, that you and emotionally in tune with one-another (which tren can make difficult if you’re prone to apathy and mood swings from the drug), thus if you’re comfortable honestly communicating, complications are less likely too arise no?
Sure, there’s the notion of primitive human biology interfering (dominance, possession and whatnot, and hormones will amplify said primitive biological traits), but I’d argue there’s a certain subset of people who can work around it (no… it doesn’t make you a “beta” either, it’s each to their own)
I’d argue in certain situations I’m capable of feeling a lot more empathy than the average individual, particularly involving situations where an individual is isolated and/or outcast by a certain demographic, as I have the ability to put myself in said persons shoes and relate. What I find highly irritating however is that the majority of people (myself included at times) are out for themselves, humanity is inherently shitty and in it to help themselves. Unfortunately. kind deeds often go by un-noticed, people move on and don’t appreciate or care for the deeds/time others have provided for them, and from my observations, shitty people who screw others over for their own gain tend to be the ones who come out on top as they don’t have a conscience or simply don’t care… (statistics somewhat back this up, many high ranking officials have the clinical diagnostic criteria for sociopathy)… Why am I bringing THIS up?
Because it fucking irritates me 
Nice guys finish last… there’s a lot of truth to that haha. The best way to go about it is to simply be nice without expecting anything in return (it’s difficult however it’s a true characteristic of a noble, good hearted individual if you’re simply kind for the sake of being kind)… in my opinion that is… Not saying I’m a particularly good or kind person, it’d just my whimsical, eccentric observations put into words throughout my currently short lifespan
Apologise for terrible grammar (lot of commas), in a rush, no time to think about grammatical correctness, yeet, floop.
I did clarify with her, look, If I sleep with someone and tell you, I am not going to come home to packed suitcases. She said no, as long as you tell me when and where, no more details, I am cool.
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I hear what you are saying.
I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years and of course, we have a great relationship. We have sat down multiple times and I have been honest with her. I told her, I want to be with her for the rest of my life, but having sex with the same person is not something I think I am able to do without eventually ‘slipping’. It was a risk to tell her this, but I took it. I needed to get it off my chest. She actually understood this and said we could do this OPEN relationship thing as long as its purely about sex for me, and not about looking for another ‘special connection’. Honestly, I have met many hot girls during my 8 year relationship who I wanted to fuck, but never would I want a relationship with them.
We are both scientists and we both know that having sex with the same person is sort of fighting biology. Some can fight it, but most of us will eventually cave in and end up cheating. Why fight it? Why not find a way to work with it? Sex with another girl doesn’t change what I have or how I feel about my girl, it really is just a guy thing and the need to fuck another girl. Cant really put it much more bluntly than that. It sounds like a piss ass excuse, but that is what I have got.
I also said to my girl: look, if you have 10 guys lined up to fuck, go ahead, enjoy the experience. I am totally cool with it. Although she attaches a much more emotional connection to sex and so her need for an open relationship is not as big as mine, from my side, she totally gets where I am coming from, which is why we decided to open the relationship up.
Its new for both of us, but we are brought up in a world where people tell us its bad to have sex with multiple people but the one you are in a committed relationship with, and I really disagree with this from a biological perspective. I think it can work, but you will have many traditional people tell you its gonna fail because that is ‘not the lords way’. I am not religious by any means. I also don’t believe in Disney fairytales.
I think you can certainly share something special with ONE person for an entire lifetime. But from a sexual perspective. Not a chance. It will keep eating you up until one or both of you slip up.
Honestly, the night I came home to have this conversation, I thought my life would be over haha. I would be looking for another place, bunking over with a friend, but dam, did my heart race at that moment. I had to be sure I wanted this conversation.
Thats a brave move my friend. Good on you and im glad it went in your favour! Enjoy Haha. My partner’s certainly one who would not take so lightly to even the suggestion.
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Unfortunately I been out of the hookup game for 8 years so my skills are a little rusty lmao
yeh but you’re buff as fuck, being relatively young picking up girls won’t be too difficult (unless you’re like me and… ya know… can’t talk to girls very well)
Haha yeh man. Got to get my A game on haha
The idea of another man touching my girl fills me with rage.
Fair play to you.
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Who says you need to talk to girls? Just flex that bicep and shes practically yours lol!
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That’s not how it works though… Is it?
Ah my friend, to be entirely honest with you, from experience, having a muscular physique pretty much gives you a free pass to talk utter nonsense to most women and still pull. Obviously there will be some women who will see through it all and you will have to talk some sense, but its rare and quite refreshing.
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Thank you for a ideological bullshit about cheating by mutual agreement and pick up advices in pharmacological topic! You guys rock.
This happens, tangents are common, our minds race.
Mutual agreement to polyamory isn’t cheating, it’s progressive ideology I’ll give you that, but cheating?
I’m perfectly fine with the notion of multiple partners, that’s just my personal moral standpoint though, some are vehemently against the idea and inflict judgement upon those who they disagree with, I disagree with this perspective. Even if you denounce the ideology of polyamory, if two CONSENTING partners choose to engage in such a practice, it doesn’t harm anyone (provided adequate precautions are taken)