[quote]poplawsj wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
So then we’ll ban abortion and let women seek the back alleys to get them from a guy in Vermont with a stump hand.
Or better yet, we’ll outlaw women having periods, because the egg should really be considered alive. Women should never have periods, they should get pregnant straight away and not murder that poor egg.
And men should only have 1 sperm in their ejaculate and make damn sure that the 1 sperm they give up makes it to the egg.
The fact remains that the armchair critics of abortion DO use emotion, and yes it is entirely possible to be rid of emotion in this issue.
I also don’t get why MALES are legislating on something that is such a FEMALE issue. What right do you have to fucking legislate on a uterus? Things like this are best discussed on a case by case basis. Making blanket decisions on things like this is what creates such friction.[/quote]
Ok, so my girlfreind get’s pregnant and i do not want to have children. She does not want to have an abortion and has the child. Now I am legaly forced to pay child support.
On the other hand I have a girlfreind i’ve been with for many years (we’ll say 7) and i have a medical issue that makes it difficult for me to concieve children. but my girlfreind and i have been trying any way. It along with other issues (financial, family, whatever) have put a strain on our relationship. We broke up. Only she’s pregnant with my child and is getting an abortion. I have no say in the matter, even though i was told i had a 1% chance of ever having a child.
Having or not having children affects everyone, man and woman. and arguing that i shouldn’t have had sex with the girl if i didn’t want a child is the same argument that’s been shot down in women not having the choice of abortion.
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In both your situations, you made bad decisions. Use a rubber or some form of contraception if you don’t want kids, or find a female that wants kids. This kind of thing lies with BOTH parties, not just the one.
If your story was meant to tug at my heart, it really didn’t. It just makes you (the hypothetical you) sounds like a first class fuckwit.