Any mundane type of small talk is irritating really
I actually feel like answering, âI am not ELon Musk or Steve Jobs. I am not the job. What do you think changed about my job since you last asked me.â
Bahaha. Perfect.
I hear ya man ⊠itâs a banal question asked out of politeness or some aversion to silence, awkward or otherwise.
If Iâm feeling somewhat mischievous Iâll answer the question in excruciating detail; which I did this past Saturday night at a dinner party for my wife and her co-workers with whom I share little to no professional similarities. Regret is a beautiful thing to watch as it spreads across anotherâs face.
I usually answer it politely and say, âItâs good.â Sometimes when asked by people I see frequently, Iâve answered, âIt is a job. I complete obligatory tasks and leave. I donât have a job in which the creative juices flow.â
I know the people who ask are well meaning, but I have sometimes literally been annoyed. Iâve sometimes answered âhowâs work?â With âannoying,â âboringâ, ârepetitive,â etc. Surprisingly people appear shocked by such reasonable answers.
Iâve also been asked on an annual or bi-annual basis by some if Iâm âstill at the same place?â And/or âyou still doingâŠ?â, as if in oneâs thirties or forties he can simply and magically afford to change jobs and careers every six to twelve months.
Yea man. Like, âbro, I donât want to keep jumping from job to job - I want to actually build a career mang .. not just making lateral changesâŠâ
I like to have fun with that one. Itâs usually someone who is being polite but canât (probably shouldnât) remember.
Them âAre you still ahhâŠâ
Me âWelding?â
âYeah! That!â
âmmm, Nah. I quit that and went back to med school. Iâm taking my boards next monthâŠâ
âNo shitâŠâ
I like throwing people off at retail stores -
Wal-Mart Greeter âHey how are you todayâ
Me: âCrappy - had to come hereâ
Usually they just turn and walk away.
Literal lulz.
This reminds me of something earlier in this thread. The âyou look tired/annoyedâ and âis something wrong?â lines. I think I got this a dozen times from Saturday to Sunday. My wifeâs relatives came from out of state for my daughters baptism on Sunday. Enormous social fatigue set in. Eating, talking, drinking, take pictures⊠repeat⊠repeat! On Sunday at the party several people asked whatâs wrong. Well, nothing was wrong. But I was freaking tired. I felt like answering, âit is 3 PM. I have been speaking to people for all waking hours since yesterday and I foresee this stopping at 12 or 1 AM in addition to bringing all sorts of shit home! Yes, this is fun, but Iâm getting tired.â
Iâm an omnivert but I feel mentally wrecked after such enormous togetherness. And itâs only Thanksgiving time. The party just started.
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This is the time of year in which a new Amazon Prime shipment is on my doorsteps everyday.
I canât remember the exact figure, but something like 80% of ocean plastic pollution comes from 4(?) rivers. All in China.
Plastic bags et al are ugly but rapidly degrade in the Sun. Theyâre unsightly, not a danger to the environment.
They ainât no plastic straws, thatâs for sure. All those poor sea turtles man
China and India. Funny you never hear the sjw psychotics take them to task. Itâs just âwhite man badâ
As a Chinese person- I completely agree.
The government is âtrying hardâ, but honestly, with literally billions of people, even if the government went pure dictatorship, it probably couldnât get full control over perverse market forces and just random individual actions
Also the last thing China needs is more authoritarianism
Definitely not a knock on all Chinese people. I just despise litter and lack of respect for out environment
I feel the same way around the holidays.
I have about 2 hours tops of being social before I am ready to call it quits. Itâs exhausting.
Chinese people definitely litter, and with 1 billion of them, every piece adds up. Fortunately, government propaganda has actually seemed to help, particularly in the countryside
It comes from lack of private property ownership. People take care of their own stuff and sue the crap out of people who screw their stuff up.
It has zero to do with Chinese society; itâs the government.
Absolutely. But isnât the govt made up of Chinese people?![]()