The Only Time You Fail is When You Quit

I feel like I have been MIA for too long and have lots of catching up to do.

Last Saturday I went to predjuding at a local NPC show here in town. It was entertaining, and again frightening to say the least. I just HATE that women think because they do some cardio and lift a few dumbbells that they can get on stage. Its insulting to all the hard work real women put into building muscle. One girl was so friggen skinny when she turned sideways you couldn’t see her; like the cartoon - “where did she go”. She was too thin to even do bikini. I don’t know. It was gross; I would rather be thick. Ick! Eat something! I know it sounds bitchy, who am I, only a girl that busts her tail to put on hard muscle, and grunts when she lifts. I guess I just felt insulted. Not that someoen is not entilted to be thin, or whatever shape they want, but I don’t want to be on stage with Barbie. …OK, rant over…On the flip side, there was a 70 year old guy in the show - flexing and showing off his stuff, it was great! Really inspiring. They also had a wheelchair division - only one competitor but that was very inspiring as well.

My back and shoulder workout Saturday afternoon was lacking; I was certainly worn out. I had ZERO push to give and I knew it. I hate it, but I know when my body says “give me rest and I will come back stronger”. So I did triceps on Sunday and then took the day off Monday. I got 9 hours of sleep and rocked the Tuesday morning back workouts. Even though its never easy, I felt like I had some fuel in me; being depleted SUCKS!

So, talked to my trainer about the shoulder; he suspects it was being overworked because we were doing back and shoulders same day and then chest two days later. So what that meant was, the anterior delt was getting hit 3 times per week. Twice per week with back/shoulder workout and then one other time during chest. So now the plan is to split up the shoudler workout better and give the shoulder more rest. When I train back, I will only will train posterior delt and train rest of shoulders with chest. Here is what my new back and 1/2 shoulder workout looks like:

Underhand WG Seated Rows:
60x12 warmup
75x12
82.5x10
87.5x8
90x8

WG Pulldowns:
82.5x12
87.5x12
90x8
95x8

DB Rows - perfect form, no twisting,all back!
40x12 (each arm) x 3

DB Pullover
45x12
45x11
50x10

Rear Delt Fly
15x12x3 (the last workout I had to drop to 12lb dumbbells, so this is good sign)

I did arms and abs too, but they are boring…so I won’t even bother to post.

Legs were today. We are back to the Kaiser Power Rack (next time I will video it)

Deadlift
75x12 warmup
135x10 warmup
165x12
175x10
185x8
175x10

Walking Lunge SS with Nordic Hamstring Curls
No rest between sets, just enough time to put down weight and tuck my feet under the bench and go. PUKE! I was panting like a dog!
70 x 12 → 12
70 x 10 → 10
70 x 8 → 8

Sumo Squat SS with Lying Leg Curls
75x12 —> 85x12
80x12 —> 90x12
85x10 —> 95x10

Hip Adduction ss with calf raises.

Well I have lots of catching up to do! back soon!

At least there’s a lot of admirable physiques out there who AREN’t too skinny. I really like Nicole Wilkins Lee…

shoot, I might actually do a comp like that if it wasn’t so girly. I’ve never even worn high heels before, if you can believe it!

Which is why I would do bb’ing…no heels!!

MiM: yeah, i would agree with you, she looks super. I don’t know what my deal is but I covet big softball looking shoulders. Mine have so far to go!

another one of my faves - amber littlejohn - 5’10"

^ ya that’s nice…

I love the shoulders too. I want some!!

In figure don’t you have to be careful as to not get too big. How do you know when to stop? lol

[quote]mom-in-MD wrote:
^ ya that’s nice…

I love the shoulders too. I want some!!

In figure don’t you have to be careful as to not get too big. How do you know when to stop? lol[/quote]

Um, yeah, you don’t know when to stop. Judging is so subjective from show to show. Honestly, I would rather loose or place lower because I was too big, than be skinny and icky. Overall they want symmetry. I am a big girl, but I think when I diet down I won’t be that big. Its so hard to tell right now.

looks at your avatar

If your big, then I’m HUGE!

lol, no you are not. (shaking head, looking at your avatar) Hellooooo?

OK, so todays workout included cardio - the kind where I am jumping up and down because of my stupid shoulder. (aka temper tantrum) I am so discouraged, I hate when I have to abandon something. CRAP!

So we started today with a flat bench BB press; keeping my elbow tucked more (as CBear said) and it helped in the lighter rep ranges, I am feeling very confident at my set of 85. Then on we go to 95 and there goes my left shoulder and I have to abandon at 3 reps. (I am still pissed and this was four hours ago) We shall see what happens tonight when I try and sleep; this is usually wehre I get the pain down my arm. If I have to go to the doctor again I will be really mad. My poor trainer, he has to put up with my pitty-patty-party.

BB Bench:
45x12 warm up
65x12 easy
85x10
95x3 (this should have been to 8, and then I should ahve had another set to 10)

Incline DB Press
40x12
45x10
45x8

Chest Flys
70x12
80x12
80x12

DB Shoulder Press
25x12
30x10
35x8
30x10

DB Lateral Raise
12x12x3 (shoulda been 15’s I think)

Tricep Pressdown/rope
55x12
60x12
60x12

Skull Crusher
40x12x3

then abs…

my negative attitude and I are going to take a break now…booo friggen hoo!

uhhhh, thats not me in my avatar, LOL!!! wouldn’t mind though, hehe…

I finally got around to trying your way of assisting chins, and it’s awesome! Just what I was looking for.

Spirited, so sorry to hear about your shoulder issues. I would definitely listen to your body, and avoid doing anything that aggravates it. Maybe now’s the time to put BB benching on the back burner for a while and switch to DBs. Also, you could maybe try floor pressing with a neutral grip - way easier on the shoulders, but still works your chest and tris hard.

Even with your shoulder probs, your DB OHP is crazy strong, though. 12 reps with a 30 lb DB? Awesome.

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