I knew of one ftm that worked at the local pharmacy. She was somewhat understated and really didn’t make a point of herself.
Another was an mtf who worked with my wife at two different places (call center/bpoc). That one was just very strange and awkward in general, cuz when Tony transitions to Tonya the five o’clock shadow doesn’t care about your pronouns.
And it wasn’t a problem for anyone because that person just acted like any other human. I know of two mtf that I work with that are great people.
It appears to me that many in this group are doing it mainly for attention/to get a rise out of people (standard young person behavior) not out of any real desire to be the opposite gender. I would think every trans person (if truly trans) would want to do whatever they could to present as their new gender because the whole point is to live as a man/woman when biologically they aren’t one.
So in the end it comes down to be a good human no matter what gender you indenture as. Hint: the story ain’t about any one person.
I should have been more clear. I was talking about those who seem to exist solely on social media. The ones whose bios include activist, as if that is an actual career.
I know! Crazy, right? I used to have a hard time with their argument though.
This argument comes from the same people who would say stuff like, “What are you going to do, just ban everyone with a physical advantage of some sort?”
So they equate being male – and all the physical advantages that come with it – to something like having long legs or growing up with better coaches as a kid.
And the Twitter thread from Kim Shasby Jones finally clarified what I was unable to put into words.
That’s a fascinating story! Check out who got first place on that one.
I remember hearing about Castor Semenya who has DSD (a new term that replaces “intersex”), which is kind of a tough situation since a person can be born with male and female organs or visible body parts. My understanding is Semenya has female body parts but XY chromosomes. I could be wrong about that though.
What should do sporting organizations do about rare genetic conditions like that? Should they just go by chromosomes?
Though I have never heard it said of Castor Semenya, I had thought that she had Klinefelter syndrome, which is also known as XXY syndrome. When taking genetics in college there were also those with XXXY, or more X’s but only a single Y.
The World Athletics organization is requiring “intersex” persons to keep their blood tested Total Testosterone below 2.5ng/dL.
This is a reasonable compromise that most everyone should feel is fair.
Personally, I wouldn’t allow them to compete, but I take “woman” literally as biology defines it. In my thought, they just don’t meet the qualifications. I know it comes across as harsh, and maybe not “fair”, but I am more interested in fairness to all women (XX chromosomes). A person born woman should never be at a disadvantage in a woman’s sports event to anyone. PERIOD.