The Dating Thread

Yes, considering the following about modern women.

  1. Because of an unregulated sexual market, hypergamy is unrestrained. Therefore some or many women seek high status, alpha, or thrilling men—who are becoming fewer in number—and in some cases, when they cannot obtain such men or get them to commit, they will not “settle” and rather be alone indefinitely than be with an ordinary man.

  2. For some of those that have huge social-media followings, there is plenty of money to be made, and the sheer amount of attention and validation shown from a gorillion likes, donations, comments, and DM’s take the place of companionship and attention from men IRL.

  3. Some big-city careerist women have social lives that are jam packed with events, traveling, and various surrogate activities with their friends. Men do not fit into this.

  4. Some, perhaps many, aim to pile on the accolades and career ascension before they find a man. For that time being, men aren’t in the equation. That time is also when they’re the most fertile and attractive. And because of the aforementioned decreasing pool of high status men, and college-educated men, some cannot find a man equal to or above them in status.

  5. There is now an appreciable amount of single moms. Many men do not prefer this situation.

  6. Some men have been no-fault divorced by their wives, and because of a gynocentric court system, have been fleeced of their money and assets, making them a poor prospect for other women.

  7. I’ll go out on a limb and say many women, because of the unregulated market coupled with no male authority in some homes, start racking up a list of sexual partners and “relationships” starting in the early teenage years. By the time they are through with these thrilling and tumultuous years (from my real-life experience the ones who start this early have a penchant for “bad boys”, actually bad in some cases), their pair-bonding ability is shot!

  8. Some women do not need men, period, including for child raising, because they have plenty of their own money, or if not, welfare or donations from the state and family.

  9. Infantilization, arrested development, mental illness, I immaturity, and/or feminization of many men (this includes my former self).

There’s the long winded answer for why I’m certain there is a record amount of womanless men. If you don’t believe it, that’s fine. However, none of which I’ve written is outrageous—none of it.

Inb4: “Are you mad at women? What’s wrong with all this?” “Do you think every man is owed a woman?

Answers: 1) No, I’m not mad. 2) I didn’t say anything here is wrong or right. 3) I’m answering a question about womanless men in the appropriate dating thread to avoid a derail in another. 4) For another go around, I’ve never mentioned being owed!