P-Dog, you have done great. My advice to you is try not to think of the daddy issue so much when seeing her as this may confuse her. Your daughter is old enough to understand that man and women are companions… Just try listening to what she has to say instead of trying to make her understand something so difficult for her age. Despite of what her mother and husband might have told her just, being her best friend is best for the now and everything else will fall into play. Since you are a new face in her life im sure she looks foward to seeing you every wednesday. After all children need one thing(especially at that age)alot of loving attention. So focus on showing that you can be there for her. No matter what.
Be good man, be good.
thanks for all the kind words everyone. just to update again, i talked to her on the phone yesterday and she asked me if i could go pick her up and she could come over to my house on wednesday. (the day me and her family usually meet in a public place) so obviously she felt real comfortable and had some fun over here on haloween. this will be the first time im with her alone, so im pretty stoked.
Who the hell can offer advice on something like that! Can’t change the past gotta make the future the best it can be. Though questions will be sure to come. Keep up the good work. I am happy for both of you. Fathers and daughters have a special bond and it is fantastic.