I don’t know what he was hitting with and I don’t know how hard he was really hitting.
The only thing I really disagree with is the manner he does it in. If you are going to spank, the kid assumes the position (or is forced into position), takes the punishment and then it’s ended. The hap-hazard whacking her while she is cowering and randomly laying on hits after he’d pretty much stopped is what makes it wrong.
My dad would use his belt on us growing up. My mom took away privileges. I preferred punishment from my dad.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
No one else ever got whooped?
I don’t know what he was hitting with and I don’t know how hard he was really hitting.
The only thing I really disagree with is the manner he does it in. If you are going to spank, the kid assumes the position (or is forced into position), takes the punishment and then it’s ended. The hap-hazard whacking her while she is cowering and randomly laying on hits after he’d pretty much stopped is what makes it wrong.
My dad would use his belt on us growing up. My mom took away privileges. I preferred punishment from my dad.[/quote]
A whoopin’ I don’t have a problem with. An ass whoppin’ I do. This was an ass whoppin’ and it was over nothing.
I not really for using weapons either.
I got some whippin’s before. And then I had handful like the one in the video… Those did me no good at all. I avoided my parents like the plague and I didn’t tell them shit. They didn’t know a fucking thing about me. The less they knew, the better it was for me.
This shit is damaging mentally period, end of stories.
Your not straitening out the kids you turn them in to monsters of society.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
No one else ever got whooped?
I don’t know what he was hitting with and I don’t know how hard he was really hitting.
The only thing I really disagree with is the manner he does it in. If you are going to spank, the kid assumes the position (or is forced into position), takes the punishment and then it’s ended. The hap-hazard whacking her while she is cowering and randomly laying on hits after he’d pretty much stopped is what makes it wrong.
My dad would use his belt on us growing up. My mom took away privileges. I preferred punishment from my dad.[/quote]
A whoopin’ I don’t have a problem with. An ass whoppin’ I do. This was an ass whoppin’ and it was over nothing.
I not really for using weapons either.
I got some whippin’s before. And then I had handful like the one in the video… Those did me no good at all. I avoided my parents like the plague and I didn’t tell them shit. They didn’t know a fucking thing about me. The less they knew, the better it was for me.
This shit is damaging mentally period, end of stories.
Your not straitening out the kids you turn them in to monsters of society. [/quote]
You are taking the daughter’s word on what it was about? That might be a bit biased.
I find the debate around the age of the girl and the punishment interesting. I would wager there would be even more outcry if it were a 5 year old, but am confident in stating this wasn’t a one time thing with this individual and in all likelihood this kind of thing was done throughout the age of his children.
I grew up in a house where Dad kicked our asses when we were out of line. I have broken that cycle with my own kids and they are respectful, above average performing individuals. I have a teen aged daughter and would never even think of treating her like that. In fact, my son who is younger than her knows that if anyone ever lays hands on her, in any fashion, it is his obligation to beat the shit out of them in what ever way necessary.
To me it is sickening and completely inappropriate. I don’t think you can justify it. It was the wrong thing to do. Had he confronted her and she mouthed off, I could see maybe a slap or something like that, if that’s your primary methodology of parenting your kids, but the duration and escalation of the situation is pretty pathetic, IMO. It represents a complete lack of self-control to me and someone who is used to getting away with shit like that. He has positioned himself above accountability in his own household which is a terrible example.
To me it’s kind of like the guy at work who tries to act intimidating and yells alot. The only reason he is acting that way is because he can get away with it in the environment he is in. Act like that outside of work and eventually somebody will set you on your ass.
It’s kind of the same thing here. He could get away with it because what the hell was the girl going to do?
One thing I will state is the corporal style of punishment ended abruptly when my brothers and I were old enough to fight back. There comes a point in most kid’s lives where laying hands on them becomes a risky proposition.
I see this guy as a huge coward who behaved this way because he knew he could get away with it.
[quote]apwsearch wrote:
I find the debate around the age of the girl and the punishment interesting. I would wager there would be even more outcry if it were a 5 year old, but am confident in stating this wasn’t a one time thing with this individual and in all likelihood this kind of thing was done throughout the age of his children.
I grew up in a house where Dad kicked our asses when we were out of line. I have broken that cycle with my own kids and they are respectful, above average performing individuals. I have a teen aged daughter and would never even think of treating her like that. In fact, my son who is younger than her knows that if anyone ever lays hands on her, in any fashion, it is his obligation to beat the shit out of them in what ever way necessary.
To me it is sickening and completely inappropriate. I don’t think you can justify it. It was the wrong thing to do. Had he confronted her and she mouthed off, I could see maybe a slap or something like that, if that’s your primary methodology of parenting your kids, but the duration and escalation of the situation is pretty pathetic, IMO. It represents a complete lack of self-control to me and someone who is used to getting away with shit like that. He has positioned himself above accountability in his own household which is a terrible example.
To me it’s kind of like the guy at work who tries to act intimidating and yells alot. The only reason he is acting that way is because he can get away with it in the environment he is in. Act like that outside of work and eventually somebody will set you on your ass.
It’s kind of the same thing here. He could get away with it because what the hell was the girl going to do?
One thing I will state is the corporal style of punishment ended abruptly when my brothers and I were old enough to fight back. There comes a point in most kid’s lives where laying hands on them becomes a risky proposition.
I see this guy as a huge coward who behaved this way because he knew he could get away with it.[/quote]
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
No one else ever got whooped?
I don’t know what he was hitting with and I don’t know how hard he was really hitting.
The only thing I really disagree with is the manner he does it in. If you are going to spank, the kid assumes the position (or is forced into position), takes the punishment and then it’s ended. The hap-hazard whacking her while she is cowering and randomly laying on hits after he’d pretty much stopped is what makes it wrong.
My dad would use his belt on us growing up. My mom took away privileges. I preferred punishment from my dad.[/quote]
A whoopin’ I don’t have a problem with. An ass whoppin’ I do. This was an ass whoppin’ and it was over nothing.
I not really for using weapons either.
I got some whippin’s before. And then I had handful like the one in the video… Those did me no good at all. I avoided my parents like the plague and I didn’t tell them shit. They didn’t know a fucking thing about me. The less they knew, the better it was for me.
This shit is damaging mentally period, end of stories.
Your not straitening out the kids you turn them in to monsters of society. [/quote]
You are taking the daughter’s word on what it was about? That might be a bit biased.[/quote]
I saw the video, nothing else needed to be said. Abuse plain and simple. If that’s the way you parent you’re a piece of shit. If I beat my kid like that, they were involved in a felony and somebody ended up dead.
have to be some serious effed behaviour to justify a beating like that
something like you walked in on her injecting her baby sister with heroin
or she got a speeding ticket doing 130 mph with no seatbelts and your baby in the car or something
not ‘my friends will think wrong things about me if i have pirated video games in my house’
if it was so important he could have just taken the computer out of the room
and talked about it the next day with everyone wearing clothes in the kitchen in broad daylight
not the dead of night in bare feet and pajamas on a bed with her mother yelling to get her ass up in the air and take it like a woman
that’s like decade-worth-of- therapy level of twisted fucked-up parenting
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad[/quote]
For a kid that was not allowed to have much “TECH” she had a nice computer on the desk and “SOMEHOW” had a nice camera way back in 2004 that could pick up a clear azz picture and even come thru in with a nice pic in the dark. Funny how that camera was facing the right way and turned on. I’m blaming Obama for this one.
he acted like her pimp
she wanted to play video games with her friends
he picked out another game for them to play
she didn’t have a choice what game she was playing
she won
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad[/quote]
For a kid that was not allowed to have much “TECH” she had a nice computer on the desk and “SOMEHOW” had a nice camera way back in 2004 that could pick up a clear azz picture and even come thru in with a nice pic in the dark. Funny how that camera was facing the right way and turned on. I’m blaming Obama for this one.[/quote]
2004 isn’t exactly the dark ages in technology.
She knew where to place the camera because this was not the first time she had been beaten and knew that another beating was about to take place.
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
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he acted like her pimp
she wanted to play video games with her friends
he picked out another game for them to play
she didn’t have a choice what game she was playing
she won[/quote]
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If you beat your children, you’re a piece of shit.
This isn’t the typical “spanking of a child” - this is physical abuse on the part of grown man against a teenage girl.
The fact that this scumsucking gutter trash is a judge who presides over any kind of child abuse case is even more sickening than the sounds of him thrashing his daughter.
Once again, I want to make my position on this abundantly clear - if I’d have seen this myself, I’d have killed that man, and served every day in prison being happy I did it.
And just because you got hit when you were a kid, doesn’t mean that it’s right, or that this beating was justified.
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad[/quote]
For a kid that was not allowed to have much “TECH” she had a nice computer on the desk and “SOMEHOW” had a nice camera way back in 2004 that could pick up a clear azz picture and even come thru in with a nice pic in the dark. Funny how that camera was facing the right way and turned on. I’m blaming Obama for this one.[/quote]
2004 isn’t exactly the dark ages in technology.
She knew where to place the camera because this was not the first time she had been beaten and knew that another beating was about to take place.
I’m blaming dubya.[/quote]
Now that does make sense? She set his azz up. I was wondering this just feels strange to its like 8mm without Nick Cage screaming.
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad[/quote]
For a kid that was not allowed to have much “TECH” she had a nice computer on the desk and “SOMEHOW” had a nice camera way back in 2004 that could pick up a clear azz picture and even come thru in with a nice pic in the dark. Funny how that camera was facing the right way and turned on. I’m blaming Obama for this one.[/quote]
Are you of the opinion that this is not abuse or that this was staged?
[quote]overstand wrote:
Cerebral palsy has absolutely nothing to do with a passion for technology[/quote]
Singling this out because I don’t care to discuss the rest of your rant.
You don’t think a degenerative disease that leaves people physically disabled may lead to a passion for technology? There is most certainly a correlation between cerebral palsy and pursuing non physically demanding activities.[/quote]
That wasn’t my point. She is being punished for breaking the rules, not for pursuing her “passion for technology”. She is trying to justify lying/stealing/disobeying her parents (apparently after she’d already been caught stealing music at least once before) by playing the “I have a shitty disease” card. [/quote]
what she is trying to get a cross to you is that ‘file-sharing’ pirated music and video games was the state-of-the-art on-line activity for computer nerds in her peer group at that time and if she didn’t stay up-to-date she would be left behind in the only field of endeavour she had any chance of being one of the cool kids in and excelling despite having cerebral palsy
it didn’t matter how goody two-shoes she played, she was never going to be the leader of the cheerleading squad[/quote]
For a kid that was not allowed to have much “TECH” she had a nice computer on the desk and “SOMEHOW” had a nice camera way back in 2004 that could pick up a clear azz picture and even come thru in with a nice pic in the dark. Funny how that camera was facing the right way and turned on. I’m blaming Obama for this one.[/quote]
2004 isn’t exactly the dark ages in technology.
She knew where to place the camera because this was not the first time she had been beaten and knew that another beating was about to take place.
I’m blaming dubya.[/quote]
Now that does make sense? She set his azz up. I was wondering this just feels strange to its like 8mm without Nick Cage screaming.[/quote]
Yes, exactly she set his ass up. And he deserves everything he gets…
Let me borrow that belt and see how much he likes it.
I hate macho tough guys beatin’ up on kids. He won’t go to jail but I wished he would so he can experience a proper ass-raping.