[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]florelius wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]florelius wrote:
I agree on much of what you wrote, but in the class room its important that the teacher strives to be as objective as possible and if she or he absolutly must share theire wiew point on a subject, they should tell there students that this is not a fact, but there own
subjective opinion. [/quote]
But, I do think it is a fact that homosexual unions are not equal to heterosexual unions. [/quote]
Haha, I would say that both positions( anti and pro gay marriage ) are opinion based. Its a issue of values. Its not a issue that can be settled trough collecting empiric data to prove the other camp wrong or to prove your own position right etc. Lets take my stance on the issue: I dont have a problem with homosexuals being allowed to marry and my reason for this is that I cant see how on earth this has anyhting to do with me, what does it to me that two guys or two girls gets married. This argument I am showing here is not scientific based, but rather based on my common sense and value system aka meening that it is extremely subjective.
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No society, culture, or religion has viewed homosexual unions as equal to or greater than heterosexual unions. This is because we understand it intuitively. Fact.
Further we can see that they not only seen as arbitrarily unequal, but realistically unequal, as well.
The quality or integrity of the strength of a culture is viewed from the smallest unit. This unit can be seen in the microcosms of society (as the Medieval philosophers had a tendency to call it) as society is the macrocosm. A society is considered strong if it forwards in surplus and not in a deficit.
So, if the macrocosm is maintaining or gaining a surplus, the microcosm needs to first do so. This microcosm, the smallest unit in society, is the family. Whether it is a nuclear family or extended family is not the point at this time (though I side with the extended family model over the former).
For the family to maintain or have surplus there is only one basic model or formula that can keep the integrity of the microcosm: one man and one woman in a monogamous and permanent union. Homosexual union does not allow for this integrity to even be had.[/quote]
Your argument is not a fact, but a thesis based on some facts. We are discussing a matter thats within the field of social science, wich in turn makes it harder to make a black and with claim. First we cant be shure how the paleolitich man organised the family, it could have been one man and one woman, but it is also possible that family and tribe where the same thing, but we cant know for shure because the paleolitich man did not write and therefor we can only speculate. The reason that I bring up the paleolitich man is because the modern human being have lived as one for the longest. The paleolitich era lasted perhaps as long as 100 000 years, while others historical eras where much more short lived.
Also if its one culture or way of living that are the most natural to us it most be the paleolitich era for two reasons: It has the longest livespan( the era of the state is only a blip in comparison ), second because we probable invented or evolved into what we are to today in this era. The problem offcourse is that we can not know for shure have theire entire culture where and if it where many more different forms of paleolitich cultures.
Based on my rant above I would say that marriage beetwen man and woman is not the basis or the micro-cell of our society, its just one form of micro-institution within the society.
I for example grew up with a mother and a father who wherent married, It where no difference to speak of beetwen my upbringing and those of my friends with married parents.
This meening that marriage isnt necessary for upbringing of chrildren or to have a family.
Third we must take into account the different definitions or understandings of the term marriage. It can be understood as a institution beetwen man and woman with the purpose of raising children. Or it can be understood as an economical union. Third: It can also be understood as a union of love. The laws of nature and physichs doesnt prohibit homosexuals
from making any of this unions, even the first are possible for them if they adopt.
end rant.