[quote]Leafblighter wrote:
Plisskin wrote:
Kailash wrote:
A better one (read this on a road sign somewhere):
“Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.”
You see, though we must feel pain, we wouldn’t have an opinion on good if we didn’t have an opinion on bad. Suffering is optional.
You know, my life and my on and off research of religion and philosophy up to this point makes me think that the quote should actually be stated as “Suffering is inevitable, pain is optional.” Personal opinion of course, but it seems to make more sense that to live life and deal with the ever shifting balance of things, means that you will always be suffering to some degree or another, but you have a choice as to how much pain you must endure while suffering life’s trials. I see examples of this on a daily basis.
Those who make the best of it may still suffer, but they rarely experience serious pain. Those who find flaw with everything in their life suffer more, through unnecessary self-inflicted pain. The same could apply to how much someone attaches themselves to someone else’s suffering.
Of course, from what I understand (and correct me if I’m wrong), this is part of the Buddhist philosophy. To release attachments to end life’s suffering and find enlightenment and happiness. Which makes total sense, except for the fact that its hard to live in normal society without attachments. In fact, desiring enlightenment and happiness is something you are attached to…so, the path gets even more confusing. ![]()
You basically have the gist of Kailash’s quote, which is Buddhist in origins. The meaning gets slightly distorted in translation. The English word ‘suffering’ is the most common translation of the Pali word ‘dukkha,’ but doesn’t fully capture the meaning of ‘dukkha.’ Dukkha also conveys a deeper sense of wrongness, that things are out of whack, something is jammed in the gears of existence and that it is something that we do to ourselves. The most common analogy is if I’m shot by an arrow (pain). Suffering is my twisting and tugging on the arrow - unnecessary self-inflicted pain. But like I said, you knew exactly what this quote was about; I just wanted to explain the choice of terms.
As far as attachments go… yes, it is basically impossible to live in society without attachments which is why Buddhism places such a heavy emphasis on monasticism. However, it’s not an all or nothing situation. Buddhist practice will benefit your everyday life in ways you can see in the here and now, no need to wait for after death. No need for faith because the results are obvious and measurable.
So I guess my point is this: even if you’re not in a situation where you can take it to the extreme, you will still reap rewards from the practice. It is entirely possible for a householder (the term used to describe Buddhist non-monks) to destroy the first three fetters (false views of the self, skeptical doubt of what the Buddha taught, clinging to rituals and rites) and to weaken sensuous craving and feelings of ill-will towards others. This will ease our suffering even if it does not eradicate it.
Delving into some of the more faith-based aspects of Buddhism here… if you believe in the cycle of rebirth literally, then by eliminating the first three fetters and weakening the other two I mentioned, you will have attained the point of ‘once-returner.’ You will only be reborn one more time and you will achieve final release in that lifetime. So all your efforts will eventually bear fruition even if you’re not able to drop everything tomorrow and run off to become a monk.
Sorry for the long lecture. I don’t really get to talk about this stuff much in ‘real life’ so I get a bit long-winded sometimes. [/quote]
Was going through some old posts and found this. This sounds like it may be coming from a Theravada persepective of things. There is also the so called yogi style of the Vajrayana practioner. Where one uses all of life as opportunities to see the nature of mind. Allowing one to become fully enlightened in this very life. That’s why aversion to meat and alcohol aren’t relevant with Vajrayana.
If one always has a pure view, than one’s actions are always working for the benefit of others. Milarepa and Drukpa Kunley are great examples of one becoming enlightened and not being tied to a monastic lifestyle. Also, many of the siddhas in India are good examples of this.
Have to say that all the flavors of working with the mind can really be fun!