Hey All,
Here’s what happens (I know from experience) The longer it takes someone to date, have sex,etc, the harder it is to start. If your 18 when you start dating, the girls that you date are around the same maturity level as you.
But what if you’re 25, or 30. Or older.
The girls that you can date are well on their way on the maturity scale, but the guy still feels like he’s a teenager, making compatability harder and harder the older you get.
Also, the longer it takes, the more of a barrier you put up. You develop a bad attitude eventually, because your bitter because you didn’t do anything except exist,just like everyone else, but you don’t get to participate.
Another thing that happens is that you begin to ignore the thought that a girl may like you, because every one of the numerous times you were sure a girl liked you, you find out over and over again that you had no chance.
The human brain is wired to find a mate, and I think one of the most painful things is realizing you might never fulfill your genetically driven purpose.
[quote]wufwugy wrote:
not all of us virgins are nerds. i happen to be a member of the Ridiculously Good Looking People’s Club and that doesn’t stop me from seeking intimacy that can only be found through love.[/quote]
Thats a fine choice and one that I applaud you for making. Nephorn is complaining about those unfortunate bastards that really want to get laid but cannot pull the puss no matter what they try. I had my share of one nighters when I was in school and none of it compares to what I have now with my wife. Sex is best when its with someone that you love deeply. Or a group of naughty nurses!
[quote]Snoop wrote:
wufwugy wrote:
not all of us virgins are nerds. i happen to be a member of the Ridiculously Good Looking People’s Club and that doesn’t stop me from seeking intimacy that can only be found through love.
Thats a fine choice and one that I applaud you for making. Nephorn is complaining about those unfortunate bastards that really want to get laid but cannot pull the puss no matter what they try. I had my share of one nighters when I was in school and none of it compares to what I have now with my wife. Sex is best when its with someone that you love deeply. Or a group of naughty nurses! [/quote]
oftentimes i find going against the grain very frustrating. i seriously appreciate any compliments i get about my decision. thank you!