[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ironcross wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ironcross wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ironcross wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kamui wrote:
We made romantic love a prerequisite for marriage.
Now our marriages last three years.
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We made marriage a shitty deal for men.
Now they dont marry anymore. [/quote]
Marriage has never been a bowl of roses. For over 98% of humanities history, you have been forced to live the rest of your life with someone you barely knew before marriage and many times didn’t particularly adore. Marriage was only about creating a new family unit; it wasn’t about love, having the perfect relationship, or happiness. Those are ideals you grew up reading in stories.
On the flip-side, society isn’t falling apart because the family unit is changing.
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No, the family unit is changing because society is falling apart.
One of those pesky little unintended consequences.
Or the result of those unintended consequences, a third or fourth order consequence of you will. [/quote]
Society isn’t falling apart; it’s just changing to fit new circumstances where one person can support a family of four on their salary and kids don’t starve/freeze to death because they’re left home alone at an early age. Don’t forget that there have ALWAYS been problems of some kind, and no society has retained the exact same marriage/family traditions for any extended period of time. [/quote]
Our culture commits suicide right now.
We seem to have created a culture people do not want to bring children into.
Either we will simply die out, or we will be replaced by people who out reproduce us.
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There isn’t a culture which is more advanced than us in terms of below-replacement-level population growth which is even close to dying off of the face the planet. When you show me one, I’ll believe this. Life is no longer about who has the most kids. If it was, Africa would be kicking Holland’s ass.[/quote]
Well, if you have one group of people who have 1.5 children on average and another that has around 5 or so, it takes 2-3 generations and then culture has changed drastically if the reason for them having more children is a different set of values.
Granted, buildings will still be there, and the geography will not disappear, but the people living there will have been replaced.
People like the Mormons from Utah or Anatolian goat herders spill over their banks eventually, that is the basic nature of exponential growth.
And, they take their culture with them, good or bad. [/quote]
I agree that the theory is pretty commonsense, but it doesn’t appear to be happening. What seems to really happen is there is a short period where one culture booms, but doesn’t come close to replacing the dominant culture with the lower-than-replacement fertility levels, and then advances, joins the dominant culture, and their own fertility levels fall. In the mean time, as I said, we have yet to see any of these lower-than-replacement fertility-level cultures disappear. What’s happening is that more of them are cropping up.
Given technological development, we could experience several generations of world-wide below-replacement-level birth rates without it bringing us close to extinction. Then, all it would take would be one generation where people had one more child than normal to sustain it.