[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
No debt except for home. Just refinanced to a 15 year at 3.75%. And the loan is small (comparatively). Could pay it off now were I so inclined.
No car loan.
No credit cards.
No desire for designer crap.
Rarely eat out.
Unamerican way to live. [/quote]
While I applaud this, everyone isn’t so lucky. I am pretty sure the average guy coming out of dental, medical, or even law school is in significant debt.
I had my car paid off…and then it got mangled in a car accident soon afterwards…so back to more car payments.[/quote]
I am lucky. I was taught frugality and how to handle money from a young age.
When I was a teenager I lamented to my dad that everyone else has nicer clothes and nicer cars and such. His response was something to the effect that we could see what they owned, but have no idea what they owe.[/quote]
Very true. Of course after an amount of time of successful money management and investing, it is possible to cruise around in a brand new Range Rover traded in for each new model, designer clothes, eat at all the fancy restaruants and take bitches home to highrise with out worry because the money you have invested is paying returns above what you are spending (You still have to live within your means though).
It just depends on which side of the interest line you are on. Is it working for you or stealing from you?
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I totally understand where you are coming from, but I really don’t want a lot of stuff. (although I do have a bit of a shoe addiction) The green eye monster doesn’t emerge when I see someone with expensive items. (save shoes, of course)
If I fell into a vat of millions, I’d probably end up giving most of it away to charities. [/quote]
It’s all perspective.
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It is and I am not knocking anyone who wants a bunch of material items. Sure, money can make life easier, but while I have no desire to be poor, I also have no desire to be rich.[/quote] That’s cool. I think the happiest people are those who can be in the moment and love it.
There will always be a carrot dangling in front of people chasing material things no doubt. Some would call the chase drive, others vanity I suppose.
I personally like some expensive things and could care less about others. My personal theory is to give myself as many options as I can.
I want to have the money to buy everything, even if I don’t want anything, in case I change my mind.
I guess the phrase “It’s better to have too much than not enough” is more efficient.