OP, you need to hire Matt Foley, motivational speaker. He will help you get back on the right track.
Maybe you need to find some place you fit in. Maybe you’d be quite happy as one of those university physics people. You know playing with lasers all day. And hey if you want to be alpha you can boss the other guys around. Maybe even find an IT chick and show the others how it is done…
[quote]E901 wrote:
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
In forbes defense…I believe starting a thread about killing oneself to people he doesn’t know makes the whole situation questionable.
Thoughts of suicide voiced to loved ones and friends is a different story. [/quote]
While I agree this thread is questionable, on the other hand, in OP’s defense, lots of people go to the internet when they feel like they have no where else to go and don’t want to talk to those they are close to. In fact, I’ve made a thread about depression and suicide in which you posted in and gave me some good, serious responses lol.
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Well first I hope you are doing well…
I am sure I responded in a serious manner because it seemed genuine, and it was genuine. Nothing here seems genuine at all which is why I posted what I did. I see your point though, while I did seek professional help for my issues and not loved ones or friends, I can see how technology changes how we try to reach out to one another. So I stand corrected.
Once upon a time confused people just joined the navy or something
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
In forbes defense…I believe starting a thread about killing oneself to people he doesn’t know makes the whole situation questionable.
Thoughts of suicide voiced to loved ones and friends is a different story. [/quote]
Calling someone ‘a little bitch’ when they suggest that they are legitimately considering suicide is indefensible.
I was a drug addict and considered suicide very seriously years ago. The last people I wanted to talk to were loved ones. I told strangers I met on the street that I had problems, but I couldn’t tell my parents. Something to think about.[/quote]
Didnt tell my parents either, I sought help from other places I certainly see as I said before technology changes how we connect to one another, but I still find this whole thing BS and I hope I am right. There is so many other forums to get help that deal specifically with Suicide, why you would post this on a BB site is odd, but again this isnt the first time it happened BUT it is the first time I am calling BS and am offended by it.
Wait, I don’t understand, some of you are still posting advice to the OP but he hasn’t responded in quite a while. I’ll just say it, what if he’s already done the deed?
From my perspective, the OP is/has experienced suicidal inclinations or is just trolling. I don’t mind the opinions of people who say he’s a bitch for attempting to take his own life, or what not. I look at comments like that as falling under vein of tough. I don’t think anyone on here is purposely trying to downplay the magnitude of the topic or trivialise the OP’s explained situation. It’s the internet and genuineness is a virtue sometimes hard to access over fiber optic cables.
[quote]E901 wrote:
[quote]harrypotter wrote:
haha suicide because your life sucks?
Go to Africa, I hear rape squads dont kill you because theres more coming behind them to do worse, then they’ll kill you.
Oh, those are just the children.
Then you have those people who dont even know what a clean glass of water looks like, we shit in clean water do we not?
By all means kill yourself but make sure you do it in a forrest or jungle where nobody will see, hear or take notice. Where your body will be used as food and the rest as compost.
Enjoy.[/quote]
Just because someone in Africa has it worse doesn’t mean that another’s problems aren’t real. Its about whats real to them. Anyways I’m not sure if this thread or your post was even serious. *shrugs
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My post is serious and its about context.
We live in a world where you should know your problems are related to something in your past or present and that there is something YOU can do about it but because its “hard” its perceived as an impossible goal.
An impossible goal is to survive Africas harsh environment when you’re in the middle of a war, famine or conflict. The term which can be used here is “First world problems”.
I haven’t been responding because I’m dead, it’s official.
"If you “thrive” off of anger and negativity, and don’t want help from anyone…WHY THE HELL MAKE A POST ASKING FOR HELP?
You’re just a little bitch."
this made me laugh so hard + supersaiyan’s gifs
thanks for all the responses this has helped out a lot and I realize that my problems are nothing and I just need to get over it, I need no further assistance from a councilor or anyone else IRL this has been enough assistance, as I have said before the internet is my best friend and it always gives the best advice.
[quote]harrypotter wrote:
[quote]E901 wrote:
[quote]harrypotter wrote:
haha suicide because your life sucks?
Go to Africa, I hear rape squads dont kill you because theres more coming behind them to do worse, then they’ll kill you.
Oh, those are just the children.
Then you have those people who dont even know what a clean glass of water looks like, we shit in clean water do we not?
By all means kill yourself but make sure you do it in a forrest or jungle where nobody will see, hear or take notice. Where your body will be used as food and the rest as compost.
Enjoy.[/quote]
Just because someone in Africa has it worse doesn’t mean that another’s problems aren’t real. Its about whats real to them. Anyways I’m not sure if this thread or your post was even serious. *shrugs
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My post is serious and its about context.
We live in a world where you should know your problems are related to something in your past or present and that there is something YOU can do about it but because its “hard” its perceived as an impossible goal.
An impossible goal is to survive Africas harsh environment when you’re in the middle of a war, famine or conflict. The term which can be used here is “First world problems”.[/quote]
Well considering the OP said hes completely fine now, I think its safe to say that “first world problems” may be fitting for this instance. Your idea works and may be able to give people perspective on reality, but it absolutely has nothing to do with true mental illness. For someone who is truly suicidal it doesn’t matter who has it worse. Thats completely irrelevant. Maybe the starving children in Africa should shut up because they aren’t terminally ill. Maybe the terminally ill should shut up because someone has it worse…and the cycle never ends. its about not being able to see another way out. Plenty of people in Africa aren’t depressed or suicidal because thats what they grew up with and all they know.
[quote]forbes wrote:
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
In forbes defense…I believe starting a thread about killing oneself to people he doesn’t know makes the whole situation questionable.
Thoughts of suicide voiced to loved ones and friends is a different story. [/quote]
You hit the nail on the head.[/quote]
For truly suicidal people, loved ones are usually the last to know.
Yeah no one in the first world ever had problems.
Why are people sometimes so horrible
[quote]watermelon29 wrote:
"If you “thrive” off of anger and negativity, and don’t want help from anyone…WHY THE HELL MAKE A POST ASKING FOR HELP?
You’re just a little bitch."
this made me laugh so hard + supersaiyan’s gifs
thanks for all the responses this has helped out a lot and I realize that my problems are nothing and I just need to get over it, I need no further assistance from a councilor or anyone else IRL this has been enough assistance, as I have said before the internet is my best friend and it always gives the best advice.[/quote]
It’s not that simple. You’re problems may be nothing, but you are considering suicide. That’s actually a pretty big problem.
As for getting over it, yeah maybe, but this anger problem is something that needs to be dealt with because that may kill you, if you don’t take care of it yourself first.
Anger unchecked is a very dangerous emotion that causes a lot of irreparable damage to a lot of people, but the biggest victim is you. Most people can just walk away from an angry person, but you cannot walk away from yourself. It will consume your soul.
More over, it’s just a flat stupid way of dealing with things. It’s dishonest to boot. You’re not going to read a few forum posts and be healed.
I do not take people talking suicide lightly at all.
I absolutely hate it when DB says that shit over stupid sports. It’s not a joke or good hyperbole to me. I have known of to many people make that “joke”, but in the end they weren’t kidding. Usually people who utter those words aren’t kidding.
Even if you were to claim that this whole thread was a bad joke on us, I do not regret trying to help.
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]forbes wrote:
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
In forbes defense…I believe starting a thread about killing oneself to people he doesn’t know makes the whole situation questionable.
Thoughts of suicide voiced to loved ones and friends is a different story. [/quote]
You hit the nail on the head.[/quote]
For truly suicidal people, loved ones are usually the last to know.[/quote]
Every case is different, I have read and have known people who voiced Suicidal thoughts to close friends and family, unfortunately it wasn’t taken seriously enough…so using the term “usually” is not true, it really just depends.
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]watermelon29 wrote:
"If you “thrive” off of anger and negativity, and don’t want help from anyone…WHY THE HELL MAKE A POST ASKING FOR HELP?
You’re just a little bitch."
this made me laugh so hard + supersaiyan’s gifs
thanks for all the responses this has helped out a lot and I realize that my problems are nothing and I just need to get over it, I need no further assistance from a councilor or anyone else IRL this has been enough assistance, as I have said before the internet is my best friend and it always gives the best advice.[/quote]
It’s not that simple. You’re problems may be nothing, but you are considering suicide. That’s actually a pretty big problem.
As for getting over it, yeah maybe, but this anger problem is something that needs to be dealt with because that may kill you, if you don’t take care of it yourself first.
Anger unchecked is a very dangerous emotion that causes a lot of irreparable damage to a lot of people, but the biggest victim is you. Most people can just walk away from an angry person, but you cannot walk away from yourself. It will consume your soul.
More over, it’s just a flat stupid way of dealing with things. It’s dishonest to boot. You’re not going to read a few forum posts and be healed.
I do not take people talking suicide lightly at all.
I absolutely hate it when DB says that shit over stupid sports. It’s not a joke or good hyperbole to me. I have known of to many people make that “joke”, but in the end they weren’t kidding. Usually people who utter those words aren’t kidding.
Even if you were to claim that this whole thread was a bad joke on us, I do not regret trying to help. [/quote]
Agreed…
Hmmmmmmmmm, something about you rings familiar…meh anyway use Pork, it may take awhile but it’s the best way