I even ask my wife if she wants me to send her a dick pick. IDK, she might have others around her when she opens it. I just feel a warning text is still a good idea.
I don’t see the issue with asking before sending. I don’t think by sending your glorious dong picture to a woman, that she sees it and goes, “well if he had asked, I would have said no, but now that I see it, I am really glad he sent it”.
However, as a man, when I was single, I would have taken / probably liked all the unsolicited nudes from women. (for some reason this never happened?) Probably a part of the reason men think it is a good idea to send.
Do you also believe your generation invented the erection?
Back in my day we had to craft hand-written love letters, take a Polaroid of our wang, put both inside a Hallmark card and send it in the mail. Then we would wait weeks wondering if she would even write us back, let alone send us naked Polaroids of herself.
Catfishing was a lot harder without filters and photoshop. In fact, those grainy Polaroids would typically under-sell the goods on display.
Just draw a picture if you are going to write the letter. A little easier to embellish a bit with had drawn. I bet this actually happened quite often before people had access to photos.
I still have yet to send a dick pic to any woman, even my wife.
I did comment “Wow!” on a woman I used to know a lot betters Facebook story pic though, and she immediately hit me back on messenger. That escalated way faster than I thought.
Nothing on you, but she must be desperate, or had a crush on you. If a woman wants sex, it is available at all times (even for the not so attractive ones it seems). Not as easy as a man, unless you are into other men.
Haha, no, but I think that’s around when it became more common than not to have a smart phone with a decent-to-high quality camera, and when the social media app Snapchat really took off, which makes the already easy act of sending pics/videos even easier. I also think their audience expanded, since I’m sure high schoolers/college kids were doing their own versions of this stuff back in the day, but it’s now quite common for middle schoolers to be doing it. (I recall from my youth and from friends’ younger siblings…I tend to avoid texting 13 year olds. EDIT: Now I’m paranoid that this will someday come back to haunt me. I DON’T text 13 year olds.)
Far from my generation inventing the erection, I think mine is the generation that, in their prime, is the least likely to maintain an erection. I blame the ease of getting pornographic material, and what said material contains these days.
Lotta young dudes doing this. Honestly probably a lotta old dudes too, but I don’t know them. I don’t know what makes people think this is a good idea. A guy from high school sent a picture of a puddle of a certain bodily fluid in his hand to a girl once…no warning, no prior conversations that would make someone think she wanted to see that, just did it. Most guys thought it was funny, but also weird, most girls thought he was creepy.
This is an interesting question. Nice transition into a more “friendly” thread (except for the dick pic issues though).
My interpretation on this is opposite the expected. Think about it - How impressive isn’t it if someone genuinely states that he/she has had few partners through life - but great ones? If true, I would say that is truly impressive! Real love - Better love?
Me, I just wish I was less afraid of love when I was young. Too many opportunities lost…
If I had understood cues when younger, things would have been a bit different. Had a few ask later on why I never asked them out. Because I had no clue is why.
I finally asked a girl out I had been crushing on since my sophomore year right after I graduated high school. Her response was “Finally, what took you so long”…legitimately had no clue she was into me.
Pretty sure in high school the chick I was very into was not into me. However, many of the others were. The sunk cost fallacy did not occur to me at the time.
