[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]Gambit_Lost wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Here in Japan, bi-racial kids are considered “half.” :-([/quote]
My son is “half,” and Japanese are fascinated by this. They honestly have no clue how offensive it is. I take every single opportunity to inform them of this, and let them know that he is one whole human being. Indeed, being that he is both American and Japanese, we’re all “half,” compared to him.
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I do this too. It’s one of those things that just gets to me. I try to be nice, but I know I’m too direct sometimes. One good thing about my language capacities increasing is that I almost never get the “you just don’t understand the language” response anymore. Might I ask how you deal with it specifically? [/quote]
I specifically say that I don’t like that word, he is a whole human being, not half of one. I am very polite but also very direct and immediate about it which is my benefit as an American with good command of Japanese. It annoys me that he’s going to be called that as he gets older but I’ll be doing plenty of talking with him, too, and luckily, even at two years old, he is clearly very adaptable and resilient and I’m not too worried about him.
After more than 9 years here, I am still dumbfounded by the ignorance at certain things Japanese people believe and then actually even say about people who are “outsiders.” It is a supreme irony that in one of the “politest” societies in the world it would be okay for a woman to say, “I want to marry a gaijin so I can have a half baby.” WTF?
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Wow, I didn’t see it that way when I was there. I always took it as half/half. Kinda like when someone offhandedly says, “you dance good! Are you black?”, “well I’m half”. As with many things in Japanese/English language crossovers “half/half” got shortened or combined to “half”. At least they didn’t shorten or combine it further or differently and make the kid a mockery by calling him a “ha” or a “haha”.