Racism is a logical fallacy - you CANNOT generalize from the particular to the general. Most educated people realize this (and I’m not talking college degree either - I didn’t graduate High School).
I grew up in Baltimore in a predominantly black neighborhood (Greenmount and 33rd). Then when I was 11 I moved to Hampden which, back in the 80’s was a VERY racist, predominantly white neighborhood.
An interesting story: I was in 5th grade and in history class we were shown the film Roots, based on Alex Haley’s novel. On the day that they showed Kunta Kinte getting his foot cut off, I was chased home from school by several of my classmates who were upset by the film and wanted to take their anger out on the nearest white person: me. Did I allow that experience to influence how I saw ALL black people (I’m sorry, “African American” people)? Of course not. My first girlfriends were black. Most of my friends were black. The only white friends I had were the children of my mother’s friends, but I saw them very irregularly.
Then I moved and soon discovered that the neighborhood mantra in Hampden was, “black people know better than to come here at night”… So I witnessed and experienced some VERY racist folks. But at the time, I never understood WHY. I eventually arrived at the conclusion that it was simple ignorance, pure and simple, passed down from one generation to the other.
But ignorance is a two way street. While living in the first neighborhood, I saw PLENTY of ignorance being passed down from one generation to another as well. Behavior patterns and ways of thinking that are VERY dysfunctional and pretty much guarantee that only a few will ever leave that situation… Physical violence layered on top of substance abuse and oftentimes layered on top of sexual abuse - not exactly a WIN WIN formula for success… But I didn’t see any “white man keepin’ the black man down”. Pretty much everyone in BOTH neighborhoods were keeping EACHOTHER down. Then you’d have your good Samaritans who would come by every so often to try and make a difference (try to start a “youth center” or a clinic or an after school program or whatever), and you know what happened? They would generally get robbed, or mugged, or their car/property vandalized. This happened in BOTH neighborhoods as well - no matter WHAT the race of the good Samaritan.
As for Affirmative Action and other “race based quota” systems of “empowering” minorities, I am pretty conflicted. While I firmly believe that awards and opportunity should be based on MERIT, having grown up in two neighborhoods with so many cultural and socio-economic “disadvantages”, I could never really expect many people to ever be able to rise above the “noise” of these places to every set goals high enough to get them out of said places. I think a helping hand or a “push” in the right direction IS necessary. But not to the point of just lowering the bar so that EVERYONE passes… The only way I got out was PRISON! LOL Seriously, I went to prison, got a job in the library and read some books that changed my thinking. Most of my friends from either neighborhood are either dead or in jail now.
The educational system in the United States is badly broken in many areas - particularly in inner cities and predominantly poor neighborhoods. How do you fix that? I don’t know - there are plenty of people who are smarter and better educated than I am who can’t answer that. There are VERY old cultural and racial wounds that really haven’t been allowed to heal properly. You cant LEGISLATE sensitivity (although the political correctness police are trying).
I will disagree with the idea that HUMOR is moving things in a negative direction. I’m not talking about preaching HATRED, but bringing a few racial and cultural issues up and then making fun of them ALONG with the cultural issues and tendencies of different races and religions and people can actually make everyone take those differences (either real or imagined) far less seriously. Laughter heals. If we can all learn to laugh at ourselves and realize that some of our opinions are just ridiculous, I see that as moving things in a positive direction. I am NOT condoning racism in any way, I see humor and stand up comedy (in most cases) as a uniting force rather than a divisive force. While sometimes it may be distasteful, it is still one of the only socially acceptable means of openly discussing this topic. And like it or not, no one is going to wave a magic wand and make racism disappear overnight. But we CAN begin to talk about it. We CAN begin/continue the healing process. Humor CAN facilitate this and writing it off completely is being overly sensitive and short sighted, IMHO.
At the end of the day, each of us must do our part. I know that both of my son’s are comfortable around people from ALL races. I don’t tolerate racism in people that I’m close to. I will take my business elsewhere if I perceive a racist vendor - and I’ll let him KNOW IT. We each have a responsibility to promote tolerance. The “gubment” sure as shit won’t do it for us.
my .02