I’m in the US now and fairly settled in so it’s time for an update. I didn’t realize until I looked that it’s been more than two months since I posted here.
It was difficult to keep up with training through the move but I did my best. I focused on the essentials–squats, deadlifts, overhead presses, rows, chinups and dips with supplemental bodyweight sessions when I couldn’t get to a gym.
So I was training total body workouts about three times a week for two months. About a month ago I found a house–I am in Florham Park, New Jersey–and shortly thereafter joined a gym that’s about a 20 minute walk away.
This was good since I didn’t even have a car until last week. It’s pretty difficult to get by in this car-oriented country without one! I had to hunt down all the sidewalks.
The trainer who signed me up at the gym said there are some powerlifters who train there, which really excited me. I have yet to meet them though. The gym has three squat racks, plenty of weights and some nifty tools I haven’t used before like the ab wheel and wrist roller. I know these are probably pretty basic but hey, my gym in China was small.
A bit after joining the gym I went back to my old standard WS4SB3, not knowing–or really having the time to find or plan–what else to do.
I was pretty excited to deadlift 250lbs. for a double last Thursday. I actually caused a bit of a stir in my gym and gathered a crowd when I pulled 245lbs. I was so focused on my lift I didn’t notice until I’d finished my set of three and I’m thankful for that–I might have felt nervous with about a dozen people watching.
Luckily they mostly wandered off while I rested before adding just a little more weight so I could have the nice round number 250. One trainer commented that my form looked good and another said that the 250 looked pretty easy. 
So I was all glowing and hopeful for my deadlift after that. My goal has been to hit 300lbs. by the end of the year but that gives me only two months to add 50lbs. I’m not sure how that will go but I will keep working on it.
I’ve been aggravated with many of my other lifts though. I benched 125lbs. for a set of three on Sunday but had a little help from my spotter with the third rep. This represents some progress from this summer, when I seemed to be stuck in the 52kg. range for months…but progress is so slow it is frustrating.
I’m similarly frustrated with my squat. A couple of weeks ago I was doing sets of 5 with 157.5lbs. but my form kept sucking on the last couple of reps. I find myself bending over too far and kind of good-morning-ing the weight up. I know I can go heavier but I have to get my form under control.
So my last session with squats I took the weight down to 135 and tried for five sets of five but my form started going again at the end of the fourth set and I decided to stop there. Blah.
I looked into powerlifting competitions coming up in my area but didn’t really find much that happens soon–a bench and curl competition but that is surely not for me. I’m feeling a little lost and drifting right now.
I want to add some more physical activity to my schedule besides weightlifting and raking leaves
but there are no African dance classes near enough to be practical to go to a couple of times a week.
I’ve been asking around about martial arts and there is a recommended school for Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu near me, which I am considering trying. Their website really intimidates me–I will just have to get over that though. I was intimidated by the gym at first too.
But then I’m afraid I’ll really like BJJ and how will I have time to do both that and go to the gym four times a week and work on getting my deadlift to 300? Then I keep hoping I will meet these powerlifters in my gym and they will let me be a part of their secret club
and help me out with deadlifting and maybe competing . . .
For now I’m still drifting, still lifting.