Beans -
My respect goes to you about your views. Previously I never realized our views are so in parallel. No other way to say that I respect and honor your position, I hope you will not take offense to that ; )
Here is something I hope that will help you in your understanding of the rape exception. Abortions that result from rape account for a quarter of a quarter percent of the total number of abortions in America. Of that tiny number, the women who aborted the child, ninety-seven percent die within two to three years. Ninety-seven percent! The majority die from suicide, next would be drugs, etcetera, but lifestyle choice plays a predominant role. The women who are raped and either keep and raise the child themselves or give the child up for adoption; they have a death rate similar to a normal population. After the child is born, many women cite that holding the child helps them overcome the trauma of the rape. Food for thought Beans ; )
[quote]countingbeans wrote: You mean health of the mother exceptions? (For the record, I include rape and incest here.)
Look the best I can describe it is: if those were the only time people were getting abortions (something like 3% of abortions currently taking place,) I don’t think abortion would be, at all, on my radar of important issues.
I get it’s still abortion, and I get the whole “punishing the child for the sins of the father” in some cases, but I can’t imagine having to choose your wife or your child, or having to carry your rapists baby. In those rare, rare cases, I’m not going to have any issues.
As it is, I’m not going to judge anyone who gets an abortion anyway. If my daughter ever comes to me and says she wants one, I’ll give her my opinion, tell her I can’t drive her there or walk her in, but when she comes home I’ll be here to take care of her, and will never love her less, or different or anything. She’s my daughter that made a choice that is between her and god (if she believes) at this point.
Maybe that’s fucked up, but it is what it is. I can’t support it, but I can’t prevent it either, unless my love of parenthood, and opinion on the slaughter of innocent babies can change her mind. [/quote]