The only thing that has helped in not wanting to hurt people is not being at school. 3 months holiday i just had i cant remember i time where i wanted to be violent against people. A couple of times of course (Okay alot) but at school its everyday. I have never tried anger management before, I’ve seen psychologists and counselors but they didnt seem to help. All they wanted to do was give me some dumbass new drug to take. I have been diagnosed with ADHD, High functioning autism and being screamed at my whole life and Ditched by my piece of shit dad when i was little (Parents split up, Theyre both toxic (Who beat me up about a year ago) didnt help either.
In fairness, I do imagine this is more the stuff you tacked on (yoke and stones each week, frame work). The program itself is pretty low intensity. I ran all 18 weeks together because of that. I also didn’t want to deload betweem programs in fear of never starting again, haha.
Why is this not considered helping? What if it is what you need?
Kids are assholes. By getting all pissed off your giving them everything they want. I know it’s hard to brush it off, but if they stop getting a rise out of you they’re gonna get bored things will calm down. I wish I would have learned earlier that all I’m doing when I get upset about something someone else does is giving them control over my life.
Take the control back man. Choose to be happy and take the higher road. I’ve been there. Felt like the world was caving in on me at the time. Wish I would have had some older men in my life helping to lift me up and get me on the right path. Don’t be “peaks in high school dude” your best years are still decades away
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Volume thrashes me lol.
Damn dude. Yeah it must be because of yoke and stones and stuff. In saying that though you’ve been training far longer than i have so can handle going longer without deloading??
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Dexamphetamines for ADHD is stuffed, People literally buy it from people to get high. Drugs isnt going to change the trauma I’ve experienced or stupid mental problems i have. As far as i know drugs could be rat poison. The goverment could be putting anything in drugs and you wouldnt even know
Only here in the US, Duke.
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I’ll try to ignore them
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I dont trust politicians or the goverment in Australia either lol. China pretty much owns all of australias land. Might as well call it “New China.” Yay good job australia you’ve sold us out
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I have the feeling you’re the Australian version of a conservative.
Yeah when I was in highschool I literally lost my shit one day after a group of guys pushed it too far. Jumped in my car and tried to run them over. I think back now as to what would have happened if they didn’t dive into the bushes in the parking lot that day. I could still be in jail, no family, no kids. Man… one stupid decision and you can get screwed up for a long time. Keep your head up man
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For certain; me too. But a deload is about recovering from intensities. Volume you can recover from with food, sleep and active recovery.
I still need to deload every 6 weeks on 5/3/1 because of intensities. It’s not about how long I have been training, just different needs for different approaches. I imagine you are needing a deload from all the spinal loading from the yoke and frame and the all out intensity of the stones.
They do for many other people.
Drugs can fix problems in the body; why not also the brain?
I don’t see any shame in treating a problem with a solution. Yeah, it won’t undo trauma, but it can certainly repair how the trauma is processed.
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@duketheslaya no shame in drugs, dude. The pharmaceutical industry exists for a reason.
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Yup. And killing their customer with rat poison is a poor way to get repeat business.
Damn. I’m really glad you didn’t hit them with your car. Actually im glad i dont have a car either. I would probably follow them after school and beat them up or try to run them over.
Yeah, i just feel really physically exhausted and like beat up.
Hmmm
Lmao 
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Finds cure for cancer =Gets assassinated. Cancers just a big money making scandal. Id bet my soul that theirs a cure but the powers who must not be named keep it hidden
Hey Duke, you’ve gotten plenty of good advice on your bullying situation. I skimmed a lot of posts so I’m not sure if someone mentioned it, but in regards to you feeling as though kids in year 12 don’t fear the consequences of their bullying if they haven’t learned to stop by now is that they likely haven’t had to face the consequences of their actions yet.
17-19 year old kids, when faced with real life consequences for being shit heads, will turn real quick.
Reporting them with documented evidence, if possible without putting you in a negative light, should be very beneficial.
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I know you’re using this as an example to hit our health care, but some things you should note.
- The policy of foreign land sales and public health go to different departments, to be handled by different people.
- Australia’s public health regulations are among the highest in the world, and are in line with EU regulations
- Australia contributes 20-25% of all medical research done annually, including things like the invention of pennicilin and cervical cancer vaccine trials. While this isn’t directly linked to the actual medication used here, keep in mind that a lot of the funding to support this research is from the government. IMHO, Australia is so public-heath oriented we verge on being a nanny-state (think about the ridiculously low speed limits)
You can trust a good deal of doctors and medicine, though I understand you’ve had bad experiences in the past.
Keep in mind also that most treatments for mental health issues are exactly that: they are treatments, not cures. They exist to help you manage your symptoms and condition, but not really to cure it. “Curing” these conditions is often borderline unfeasible, but with a conscious treatment plan consisting of medication, mindfulness and therapy, it is possible to live closer to symptom-free.
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Hey Young Duke
Sorry to hear about the bullying.
Do not bring weapons of any kind, that is just about the worst advice I’ve ever heard.
I’ve had a case many years ago, some dumb kid brought a knife to town, only to use to show and tread with in case. Well he got in a fight, pulled the fucking knife stabbed the other youngster. He didn’t die, but the kid got to jail for years.
Do not be that kid. Please.
Report the damn thing, as many has said.
Try to ignore them. I know easier said than done. But assaulting them is very stupid, you’d have a bad case if anything serious happened.
As my Kiwi friend says, “Calm the fuck down”
@T3hPwnisher had one (well several) great advice but you should try some anger management course.
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