would you recommend going into a relationship with a girl that has been married before and has 2 little kids(5 and 2years old).
i have been married before but i don’t have kids. well she is so beatiful in all aspects, but i’m somewhat scare because the father always see the kids.
thanks for your opinions.
On the outset of your question I thought, “Fuck No!” but then after a little I thought, “Hell Yeah!” That’s all bullshit. How old are you bro?
Nobody can answer that question for you Grand.
It all depends on you. If you can handle being around kids all the time and can mentally handle the ex being there, then go for it. Understand that the ex will always be a part of her life, at least until the kids are 18. I don’t know how far you plan to take the relationship. just some food for thought.
I think it’s fine. I dated a woman who had a child and the ex was very active in the kids life. Pretty decent guy. The good part is that you will have free weekends often and a reliable babysitter.
A lot of you guys are young pups. Trust me in my age group (41) this is the norm not the exception.
The fact that you’re even ASKING the question tells me YOU’RE going to be a problem in the relationship.
Post a pic. We’ll let you know.
I don’t recommend even spending time with the kids until you are sure you are going to be around long term. I have made it a point to leave my children out of my social life until I know for sure I trust the person I am dating to be involved in their lives. It is irresponsible to go in and out of a child’s life. They always feel it is their fault if you are no longer around. Even if it wasn’t.
It can be an even bigger problem if the Father was not involved, so be thankful that he is. This affords Mom some free time.
Children are blessings and quite a bit of fun. They are not “baggage”. Thinking that is a sure sign of immaturity. Are you insecure with the fact that her Ex is around all the time???
I agree with everything Iron Maiden said. My wife’s ex is very much involved with my step-daughter, but the dumbass has repeatedly introduced her to his girlfriends. She inevitably likes them and grows attatched, they figure out he’s a dumbass, and then they are gone. Over and over.
IM is right.
i have “dated” 4 single moms and lucky for me they were freshly divorced and didn’t want a real relationship, just sex. but you have to make it clear from the start what you want and are comfortable with.