This might make me a few unfriendlies.
I don’t remember who prompted this, but someone was talking/writing with @T3hPwnisher and hid behind the genetics card. Not an unusual affair, mind. This prompted me to start paying attention to how I myself have at times expressed self-limiting beliefs. Shortly thereafter, I became very cognizant of others doing the same thing as well.
In an effort to make sense, let us generalise and consider someone, anyone, seeing a performance such as 301 reps on the trap-bar deadlift and expressing “I can’t do that” and the implication being “I can never do that”. As long as that remains the belief, that person is
- not wrong,
- but they’ll never find out if they’d be able to tangent the performance after putting in some work
I hate that I’ve done this myself, but I have. However, I’m starting to see now that with learning, with performance, those self-limiting beliefs become my cage.
There are so many things that I’ve seen people do where my immediate reaction isn’t to resign and surrender to the idea that if I cannot emulate it here and now I’ll never be able to do it. But it sometimes is, and that irks me. Why? Because, a handstand, a somersault, a X pound lift, or an N number of reps at a lift is an expression of the effort and hard work someone has put into being able to do that.
By honing in on that, that time and effort was invested into doing any given thing, it becomes possible to determine where on a journey to that as the end goal and destination one lies currently and make an effort to traverse that distance.
With tremendous respect, there was presumably a time when @T3hPwnisher couldn’t do what @T3hPwnisher does now. He trained to get here.
And, granted, we all have our different sets of goals that we strive towards, and maybe a person isn’t invested enough in the idea to pursue equivalently heavy pulls as our resident Juggernaugt have showcased his ability to do, and therefore 135 lbs on the trap-bar high handle would be too high a number relative to our ability to express and use our strength but if what we are in awe of and want to claim for ourselves is an equal relative work capacity then I believe the first step on that path (assuming access to a trap-bar) is asking @T3hPwnisher what he lifts for 3-5 reps and calculate whereabouts 135 pounds relate to that and find their own equivalent for 135, shoot for 301 reps, and learn what their discrepancy in their work capacity is to his.
And then start working to improve that.
Even if they never get to 301 reps at that weight, they’d get more awesome.