[quote]hspder wrote:
- The fact that she’d rather blame her parents’ “mockery” of religion for her troubled teen and adult years than that pivotal, highly damaging, event that is a much more likely culprit[/quote]
I just want to clarify. I don’t blame my parents for any of my behaviour. I can’t stand it when people blame others for things they have done. I was just responding to a statement you made that all the kids you knew who grew up in religious homes ended up rebelling while all the kids you knew who grew up in non-religious homes turned out good.
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2. The fact that although I thoroughly explained in another thread that NOWHERE in the Bible there is any condemnation of abortion as being akin to murder, not even in the Old Testament, and neither there is absolutely any mention of ensoulment before birth (in fact, all mentions of the subject point to ensoulment only occurring after the first month) she continues to believe that by aborting she indeed committed murder – even though she presented no argument against my analysis.[/quote]
I have been meaning to, but you know on that that other thread I felt like I was one person sword fighting against half a dozen others and after a few rounds I was too exhausted to even know where to start. As several Christians pointed out to me, its not a very good use of my time.
But I did feel like our discussion was civil and reasonable, so I do plan on going back and answering more of your questions.
You mentioned a lot of scripture that I would have used to prove my side and you used it to try and prove your side. I still think my interpretations of those scriptures are accurate, and you are really not going to like this, but it is true that a person can’t understand scripture accurately unless they have the Holy Spirit helping them to interpret it. You also didn’t include one of my favorite scriptures on this issue, found in Luke Chapter 2. After Mary finds out she is pregnant with Jesus, she goes to visit her cousin Elizabeth who is pregnant with John the Baptist. When Mary comes up to Elizabeth, the unborn John the Baptist leaps for joy inside of Elizabeth, and the scriptures say that at that moment Elizabeth is filled with the Holy Sprit so she can explain this to Mary.
Nobody on the pro-abortion side can claim to know for certain when life begins. I don’t know of anyone who would not be bothered by a third trimester abortion (although this still happens). Many people are bothered by a second trimester abortion. Medical science now alows us to save a preemie as young as 22 weeks, and yet 10% of all US abortions occur in the second trimester. I just don’t see how a woman could ever say to herself with certainty, “that wasn’t really a life”.
Why do people get abortions? Why are 46 million children aborted each year? The reason almost always is because the mother (or the father or her parents), does not want to have to sacrifice any part of her own life for the sake of the child. The child will interfere with her life, therefore she gets rid of it.
I got the following stats from the California pro-life association (and before you question my source, ask yourself who else would be willing to publish something like this):
Nearly all of the 1.3 million abortions (In the US) a year are done because the woman did not want to be pregnant at that particular time (although 70% say they intend to have children in the future). The majority of women undergoing an abortion give one or more of the following reasons:
?a baby would interfere with work, school, or other responsibilities (75%)
?cannot afford to have a child (66%)
? do not want to be a single parent or have problems in the relationship with their husband or partner (50%)
?Only 1% of women aborting say they have been advised that their unborn baby has a defect, and only I% say they became pregnant by rape or incest. (Facts in Brief, The Alan Guttmacher Institute, September 1995.)
Even in the case of a child who might be born with a defect, what is the motive? Do the parents not want the hassle of having a child like that? Does that child not have the right to live their life anyway? I know several badly handicapped children who are wonderful kids, who are loved and who touch others in such a special way.
And, as I said before, there are so many people who wait for years and pay large sums of money in order to adopt unwanted children. In light of this, what excuse does the mother have? She doesn’t want to be inconvenienced for nine months? She does not want to get fat?
Now do you think that this kind of self-centeredness is acceptable to God? This is the God who told us in Philippians 2:3 “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.”
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Hopefully one day she will realize that in fact, she certainly did not kill a child. She simply exercised her God-given right to avoid (or correct) a horrible mistake. And that no crime is worse than torture – and rape IS one of the most horrible forms of torture.
Part of me wishes her assailants do burn in hell for all eternity. Assuming I believed in hell – because sometimes I really wish I did. Even if it was exclusively for all rapists and torturers.
I need to go punch something now. Hard. Maybe one of the Hoover Institution guys is around… ;-)[/quote]
I don’t know for sure that I killed a baby, cause I don’t know if I was pregnant. I was just going off my own opinion that murder is worse than rape. But you might be right about the torture thing. I think torture might be worse than murder.
Now these guys were really horrible and they even smashed my head against a log over and over to stop me from struggling. But I don’t hope that they go to hell. I really hope that they will be saved and go to heaven. The Lord has taken all bitterness away from me.