Public Speaking

Lots of good advice so far, especially being ultra prepared.

You need to know your stuff front and back and the other way around.

The tool that’s helped me the most, is treating every presentation I give like it’s all testable information. Meaning the audience (class) is accountable for the information you’re presenting via an exam to be given later.

This puts me in a mode where I present slower, infuse more questions to ensure comprehension, and become more animated than just a talking head reading from a go-by/note cards. It also forces me to personalize my presentation with pictures, footnotes, references, and analogies (which also helps students identify with your material better) during the preparation phase. I started using this technique a few years ago and it’s really helped me, especially when I have to give briefs to large rooms, or supervisors, bosses, clients, etc.

What is your speech/are your future speeches about, at any rate? There may be some specific advice based on what it is you’ll be talking about.

great ideas all around , the following can help you confront and ease up the tough bit , getting your job at hand accomplished:

a> Use the nervous energy don’t block it, redirect it (ask yourself NOT where you are , but what you are supposed to do being where you are and just focus on that), set the tone of the presentation as if its a discussion, make it interactive and you are educating people, setting the context of the discussion. So know your subject better , that should be the only thing you should really be nervous about, so understand the what, why , when and how of your subject matter.
Try not to keep loose ends, try to resolve the puzzles and contradictions of your subject(the areas that you are going to cover) as much as you can. Depending on the length and breadth (highly technical or introductory educational) of the discussion you might be ready to dive deep or just sort of sequentially move on from one topic to the next relating each to the other . If you organise your presentation in the form of links , cues and relationship between the sub-topics, half of your preparation is done.

b> Make it interactive make eye contact , no not just for the sake of making an eye contact but because you want to know what people are absorbing and what they can’t relate to, you want to keep them interested.
This doesn’t happen if you yourself is not interested in the subject matter of the discussion.
So again be thorough and try to find the motivation behind and be interested. It may not be that the whole subject interests you , but even one opening will give you a head start into the other non interesting parts.

c> Give concrete examples of problems , it makes people sit up and listen , use the board or graphics more , written words if used should be the key words which impress upon the listeners like milestones on a journey.Again it helps to keep it interesting.

d>Its not your job to play model , but its your job to present the subject matter as a model , its not you who is important , its the subject matter that the people should be more interested in (if you are thinking the other way round, you have already set yourself up for a drab presentation). So you don’t have to try harder about your appearance , keep it simple , neither do you want to draw attention positively by dressing fashionably or negatively by dressing bad. So keep it simple protocol- ish and be comfortable.

e> Only the subject matter of the presentation is important, your interest in it sets the tone, your knowledge drives it , your communication skill makes it interesting to others. Keep a logical/chronological list of items with keywords (sort of a mind mapping and linking) against each written with yourself apart from the presentation (if its a ppt or similar).

f> Take things progressively , first just aim to gain the interest of at least one person fully , if at the end of it 2-3 out of a group of 20 have participated in your discussion even in the form of nods and body language , be sure that you are in the right direction. If people ask questions that have answers later in your presentation , let them know you will touch upon that sometime later in the discussion, if they ask something which you do not know then just handle it accordingly or if they ask you something about it which you have heard about but you are not too sure about let them know about it that too , but make sure to draw them back into the presentation. Let people discuss amongst them if they are doing when in such situations.
If they know better than you on some parts of the subject you ask questions about it and encourage them to speak about it , but again draw all back to your presentation timely because you will have your own stuff to talk about in a limited time.

g> be prepared thoroughly ,intensely and interestingly (as opposed to jargonic drabness and boredom) with your subject matter because that is your job at hand and it is in your control , other things like what people are thinking about is not your job and most times beyond your control only adding to stress.
Concentrate hard and be present in the moment. Let people absorb what you are saying so don’t be too fast to switch topics and don’t be too slow so as to loose their interest, so you set the your pace or rather the subject does ideally. Just don’t try to get over with it. Pay attention and be serious about it. KEep the stress in the right place – > the subject matter of the presentation. Other things be cool and spontaneous.

Well i have my 2nd speech tomorrow. its a informative speech its on ‘How a movie is made’ like the processes a movie goes from a the script to the big screen. Im practicing it and every time i say it, it comes out differently :confused:

[quote]BradTGIF wrote:
Lots of good advice so far, especially being ultra prepared.

You need to know your stuff front and back and the other way around.

The tool that’s helped me the most, is treating every presentation I give like it’s all testable information. Meaning the audience (class) is accountable for the information you’re presenting via an exam to be given later.

This puts me in a mode where I present slower, infuse more questions to ensure comprehension, and become more animated than just a talking head reading from a go-by/note cards. It also forces me to personalize my presentation with pictures, footnotes, references, and analogies (which also helps students identify with your material better) during the preparation phase. I started using this technique a few years ago and it’s really helped me, especially when I have to give briefs to large rooms, or supervisors, bosses, clients, etc.

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This should sum it up for you OP, especially this –
" pictures, footnotes, references, and analogies (which also helps students identify with your material better)"

[quote]optheta wrote:
Well i have my 2nd speech tomorrow. its a informative speech its on ‘How a movie is made’ like the processes a movie goes from a the script to the big screen. Im practicing it and every time i say it, it comes out differently :/[/quote]

Don’t practice it like many do in front of a mirror or imaginary hall of students. Use that time to structure your material and adding more interesting facts and figures and integrating them in your presentation.Just set the logical flow of things in your mind or paper.
When you actually say it just mean what you are saying (register it) and deliver it naturally like any other speech. The over practising and too much stressing about it makes it sound superficial and non interesting.

I wouldn’t worry too much about it being different every time. You’re not running for office, as long as your ideas are in the right order the exact language you use can shift. Focus on sticking to your outline, and getting your major points across.

Ive always been scared of public speaking but I took a class and it helped with some stuff.

First of all, even when you are messing up no one is thinking… LAWL retard… next time you go to an event with speakers think about how you feel…generally people will respect someone just for being able to stand up infront of a crowd. Honestly. no one is nearly as critical as you imagine. Even when people crash and burn, no survivors and managed to wipe out three endangered species on the way…people are more sympathetic then anything.

Practice infront of groups of friends. Seriously get 5 or 6 friends together (ones who wont rag on you for the hell of it)

Dont write out every word you are going to say. Feel free to go off on a topic, but take some index card with points so you dont get lost. Reading from a page keeps your eyes down and you hesitate and lose your place when you get nervous. Know the subject and use index cards.

Remember, no one is nearly as critical as you imagine… 99% of the people watching would be just as scared as you.

My worst experience public speaking was in college and I totally froze. I was up all night the night before and didn’t remember anything, I was just blank. It was terrible.

Now I have to do it regularly for work and I have a professor for an engineering class that makes us give a technical presentation every class. Its good experience and I’m getting better at it.

I still get nervous depending on the size and stature of the audience. Talking to peons or a mixed grad undergrad class is a lot different than giving a presentation to a bunch of PhDs or the top guys responsible for deciding if you get a big contract or not.

Get the experience in college while you can because it will come in handy.

I too do better when I don’t have to stand in one place. I pace around the room like crazy and talk with my hands a lot. It keeps my mind moving and gets me less self conscious of where my hands or what my posture is like.

[quote]optheta wrote:
Well i have my 2nd speech tomorrow. its a informative speech its on ‘How a movie is made’ like the processes a movie goes from a the script to the big screen. Im practicing it and every time i say it, it comes out differently :/[/quote]

:frowning:

Do you have visuals and stuff you need to attend to, or is it pretty much just the speech?

How is it written up? Is it something you’ve written out in the entirety, or do you just have some basic points you need to cover?

If it’s free-form, it’s a-ok for it to come out different each time, so long as you hit all of the points you need to hit. If you practice enough you might find some lines that you keep repeating, that seem to work well, and that’s also ok.

If it’s all written out, it’s ok for you to have ad-libbed interjections, too. In cases where I had the entire speech written, I hardly ever read what I had written down verbatim.

had my most recent seminar.

SO MUCH BETTER THIS TIME.

mouth was a little dry, but I wasn’t all nervous prior to, did 30 secs of deep breathing prior to it.

Again practice and being prepared and confident.

[quote]jehovasfitness wrote:
had my most recent seminar.

SO MUCH BETTER THIS TIME.

mouth was a little dry, but I wasn’t all nervous prior to, did 30 secs of deep breathing prior to it.

Again practice and being prepared and confident.[/quote]

Yea, but you have all that practice talking to people in doorways.

[quote]ZEB wrote:

[quote]jehovasfitness wrote:
had my most recent seminar.

SO MUCH BETTER THIS TIME.

mouth was a little dry, but I wasn’t all nervous prior to, did 30 secs of deep breathing prior to it.

Again practice and being prepared and confident.[/quote]

Yea, but you have all that practice talking to people in doorways.[/quote]

Sorry, you lost me

I hate public speaking so much but it is something I have to do more and more. The single biggest thing I find helps is to KNOW what you are talking about. That is pretty hard doing presentations in college since you’re researching a topic and then presenting it, but if there is an opportunity, get a good understanding of what you’re talking about so you don’t go blank just because you’re memory has decided it doesn’t want to work.

What you should NOT do is realize that you have a lisp that shows up when you’re nervous and everyone can hear it and are all secretly laughing at you in their heads and so you hear it in your own voice every word you speak and that dude smiling and nodding in the front row is actually laughing AT YOU. :stuck_out_tongue: Don’t do that.

[quote]devildog_jim wrote:

First, stop caring about what everyone thinks. Realize that when they were up there, you were worrying about what you were going to say. They’re all doing the same thing. No one in the room, except maybe the professor, is really listening, and the professor has had people pass out on the podium before. I guarantee it.[/quote]
This is the biggest thing to keep in mind, IMO. Just do it man, and don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks. You’ll feel more relaxed. I may be only 20 but have a lot of experience in public speaking. I am still nervous every now and then when I do it but after many situations I’ve learned to keep a calm head and keep on topic about what I’m talking about instead of just going blank. After I stopped caring what others think of how I look, sound, my mannerisms, etc etc, it just got smoother and I flowed better.

[quote]debraD wrote:
I hate public speaking so much but it is something I have to do more and more. The single biggest thing I find helps is to KNOW what you are talking about. That is pretty hard doing presentations in college since you’re researching a topic and then presenting it, but if there is an opportunity, get a good understanding of what you’re talking about so you don’t go blank just because you’re memory has decided it doesn’t want to work.

What you should NOT do is realize that you have a lisp that shows up when you’re nervous and everyone can hear it and are all secretly laughing at you in their heads and so you hear it in your own voice every word you speak and that dude smiling and nodding in the front row is actually laughing AT YOU. :stuck_out_tongue: Don’t do that.[/quote]

this post is going to mess with his head so much!!! lmao,

ughh as it gets later i get more and more nervous… Im thinking maybe i should drop it and try next semester or next spring. I mean i still have 2 more semesters before I need to transfer out of CC. I mean the reason i got into bodybuilding was cause of lack of self-confidence and this just puts it all out there lol.

fuck i really think i should just drop till next semester or spring

[quote]optheta wrote:
ughh as it gets later i get more and more nervous… Im thinking maybe i should drop it and try next semester or next spring. I mean i still have 2 more semesters before I need to transfer out of CC. I mean the reason i got into bodybuilding was cause of lack of self-confidence and this just puts it all out there lol.

fuck i really think i should just drop till next semester or spring[/quote]

No!

Suck it up. You’ll do fine. All that nervous stuff is invisible to everyone else. In a matter of minutes, you’ll be done and you’ll be happy you did it. Don’t forget to smile :slight_smile:

[quote]optheta wrote:
ughh as it gets later i get more and more nervous… Im thinking maybe i should drop it and try next semester or next spring. I mean i still have 2 more semesters before I need to transfer out of CC. I mean the reason i got into bodybuilding was cause of lack of self-confidence and this just puts it all out there lol.

fuck i really think i should just drop till next semester or spring[/quote]
Don’t drop it. Think of it as a learning experience, one that you’ll benefit greatly from. Get it over with now, and you’ll never have to take that class again. It’s already April. Do not quit. Don’t be a quitter when things get tough.

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
It also helps to KNOW what youre talking about, in case you actually do slip up in reading your paper you can just ramble because you KNOW what your points are in a general sense.
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This.

The less it sounds like you’re reading something pre-rehearsed, the better. Get to know your subject really well, make a point of noting the general points you want to touch on, then practice enough so that it comes out naturally.