[quote]anonym wrote:
Neospartan wrote:
CaliforniaLaw wrote:
There’s a good message for you betas. The chick was really anxious after not having heard form him for a couple of days. It was only after 3-5 days that she started going nuts.
Making yourself unavailable for a day or two at a time drives them wild. “Where were you? What were you doing?”
Answer: “Stuff.”
Making yourself available and taking every call and calling regularly is what drives the women away.
x3!!!
Best post!
x4. Because there is absolutely no middle ground between making yourself overly available, taking every call and calling regularly… and disappearing for a day or two to do “stuff”.
In fact, I’m going to try that out on my girlfriend tonight. I’m supposed to take her to the movies but I’ll probably just blow her off for the weekend and explain it by saying I was busy doing “stuff”.
Because, you know, I just can’t seem to get myself a woman without doing weird, pathetic shit like this.[/quote]
Manipulation and game playing is the only way of getting women. Duh.
Women are evil and they only respect a guy who can give a good mind-fuck.
Not sure I buy it. Why wouldn’t his friend tell her he’s in Europe? If that friend was the first person she’d call to see where he was than surely he’d know ol’ boy was in Europe.
[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
Not sure I buy it. Why wouldn’t his friend tell her he’s in Europe? If that friend was the first person she’d call to see where he was than surely he’d know ol’ boy was in Europe.[/quote]
I think he tried to tell her, but she didnt believe him, saying she heard her BF’s voice in the background.
If you know you ARE going to be cheated, how could you “handle” such a person?
I wasn’t being on a moral level in my statement but more of a technical level. It seems the ones they cheat with get more benefits than the ones married to em or boyfriends.[/quote]
I would argue that the technical level isnt so easy to separate from the moral one, but whatever this si getting weirder by the second. the answer is that you cut such a person out of your life. Not trying to be the guy she cheats with, instead of on, just being the guy who has nothing to do with her
[quote]dylan10507 wrote:
CaliforniaLaw wrote:
There’s a good message for you betas. The chick was really anxious after not having heard form him for a couple of days. It was only after 3-5 days that she started going nuts.
Making yourself unavailable for a day or two at a time drives them wild. “Where were you? What were you doing?”
Answer: “Stuff.”
Making yourself available and taking every call and calling regularly is what drives the women away.
WWWOOOOOOWWWW. What a loser." A message for all you betas". That shit is so gay trying to be an “Alpha Male”. Lol useing dumb little techniques like that doesn’t make you shit it makes you a little loser geek useing a technique. Lol spending your time planning out when to not call a girl your with so she’ll like you ya man you are such an Alpha Male.
Any more cool techniques that’ll turn me into an super cool Alpha Male.
Stop with the damn techniques. If you are so insecure and not good enough that you need these gay little manupulitive "ALPHA
techniques for a girl to like you ur a manipulative loser.
Lol ct rockula also all girls do this? Do you guys get this shit from experience or do you read “Alpha Male” technique books or some shit it annoys the hell out of me it seems like every dude I know trys to use these gay little techniques. And claims to have learned from experience what they learned from a book or a loser internet site. (CT ROCKULA)[/quote]
Starting every sentence with lol is also pretty damn gay.
[quote]anonym wrote:
Neospartan wrote:
CaliforniaLaw wrote:
There’s a good message for you betas. The chick was really anxious after not having heard form him for a couple of days. It was only after 3-5 days that she started going nuts.
Making yourself unavailable for a day or two at a time drives them wild. “Where were you? What were you doing?”
Answer: “Stuff.”
Making yourself available and taking every call and calling regularly is what drives the women away.
x3!!!
Best post!
x4. Because there is absolutely no middle ground between making yourself overly available, taking every call and calling regularly… and disappearing for a day or two to do “stuff”.
In fact, I’m going to try that out on my girlfriend tonight. I’m supposed to take her to the movies but I’ll probably just blow her off for the weekend and explain it by saying I was busy doing “stuff”.
Because, you know, I just can’t seem to get myself a woman without doing weird, pathetic shit like this.[/quote]
Not to get into an e-war here, but do you really think it’s pathetic and weird to be unavailable to your girl for a day or two to do personal shit that you don’t need/want to share with her? I personally think it’s a little weird to imagine being “on call” to a girlfriend (a wife might be a different story I guess but I’m not married so I can’t comment) every single day.
[quote]jtrinsey wrote:
Not to get into an e-war here, but do you really think it’s pathetic and weird to be unavailable to your girl for a day or two to do personal shit that you don’t need/want to share with her? I personally think it’s a little weird to imagine being “on call” to a girlfriend (a wife might be a different story I guess but I’m not married so I can’t comment) every single day.[/quote]
It’s not that you’re (general ‘you’re’) simply doing personal/private stuff that you don’t want to share, it’s that you are going out of your way to do personal/private stuff that you don’t want to share simply as an attempt to make yourself more appealing/mysterious (to “drive them wild”).
I dunno, I’ve just never found the need to play crappy games like that to keep a girl hooked.
Maybe it’s just me, but if I went to Europe for a few weeks I would at least get a calling card or something and call my girlfriend at least once just to say hi and see how things are going.
[quote]anonym wrote:
jtrinsey wrote:
Not to get into an e-war here, but do you really think it’s pathetic and weird to be unavailable to your girl for a day or two to do personal shit that you don’t need/want to share with her? I personally think it’s a little weird to imagine being “on call” to a girlfriend (a wife might be a different story I guess but I’m not married so I can’t comment) every single day.
It’s not that you’re (general ‘you’re’) simply doing personal/private stuff that you don’t want to share, it’s that you are going out of your way to do personal/private stuff that you don’t want to share simply as an attempt to make yourself more appealing/mysterious (to “drive them wild”).
I dunno, I’ve just never found the need to play crappy games like that to keep a girl hooked.[/quote]
I feel where you are coming from and you probably naturally have the right mindset so it’s confusing to you why you need to “play games.” However, I definitely have a few friends (and was the case with myself in my early college days before I grew a pair) who, when they actually do manage to get a girl interested in them, appear way too needy or clingy by being afraid that if they don’t talk to that girl for 3 hours, they will lose her.
Plus, and it while it obviously varies individually, “game-playing” makes a relationship more fun as long as it is not mean-spirited or overly manipulative. Without a doubt, there are times when I am more distant for a few days, or even a week (because I actually do have other shit I need to focus on, I’m not just playing xBox and screening calls) and when me and my girl do get together for an extended period of time, she feels like she has “won me back” and that night or weekend is a lot of fun. I’m sure there are games she plays with me that I don’t even realize that make me want her more.
To me, it’s kind of like training; if you do the same exercise with the same sets and reps all the time, eventually you’ll stall out. Sometimes you need to increase the volume and/or intensity and sometimes you need to go light or take a break completely. And if that doesn’t work, then remember, you can always switch exercises. (see what I did there amiright?)
[quote]strungoutboy21 wrote:
Maybe it’s just me, but if I went to Europe for a few weeks I would at least get a calling card or something and call my girlfriend at least once just to say hi and see how things are going.[/quote]
Yes, in the very least.
Not only that, but a lot of shit can happen in that time. Such as accidents, deaths, or something serious along those lines.
Now that is a rational response and excellent comeback. [/quote]
KBCThird, you would make the single worst writer for daytime/evening drama TV in history! How the hell would Melrose Place have lasted so many seasons if the characters acted rationale?
