Proof Gay Marriage is Wrong

[quote]jsbrook wrote:
Lorisco, what do you mean AIDS is almost exclusively in the gay population? That’s a blatant falsehood. It’s a huge problem for all of us. For us heterosexuals in America.
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Whatever Dude. It’s a statistical fact. Look it up on the CDC website. See the per 1000 rate in heteros and the same for gays and statistically there is little HIV in heteros. But the main issue is that it is ONLY in the hetero population because of blood transfusions from infected gay men and gay men having sex with women.

The facts are that HIV in Africa is spread mostly by hookers. This has been well documented. The other problem is that the new “great” non-white leader of south Africa has done nothing to stop this plague. He spends no money for education or treatment. It is only through other countries help that African’s get any help with HIV at all.

Sorry sport, but I doubt that the little boy or girl who contracted AIDS from a blood transfusion feels that the spread of AIDS by gays into the hetero population is “irrelevant”. That is a heartless thing to say.

And yet the data does not support this assumption.

If gays were quarantined in the beginning and not allowed to interact with anyone else there would be no HIV in any other population than gay. Also, most epidemiologists link back the first cases in the US to ONE GAY MAN in the early 70’s who was a flight attendant that lived in San Francisco. In his travels he did quite a lot to spread the disease to other gays.

[quote]Jimmy Tango wrote:
Religion needs to step out of this fight because the legal benefits of marriage are not granted by the Church. They are granted by the State. Religious marriage is only made LEGAL when it is honoured by the laws of a society–not the law of a God, even if every member of that society strictly adheres to the tenets of a single Faith.

Religions have the autonomy of belief, but mere belief-systems in themselves must pass themselves through the scrutiny of a judiciary system. The government does not allow Born-Again Christians to evolve on the battlefield–if Jesus or Buddha or A Really Big Snow Cone comes to a soldier in the middle of a battle, and that soldier conscientiously chooses then to object to killing the enemy and so disobeys a direct order, he/she will be court-martialled and most likely found guilty.

Religion does not take priority over Law in contemporary Society, except in special cases where Law has made prior exceptions to Religion. And that must be the way in any polytheistic nation-state, or chaos/tyranny will ensue–just look at how difficult a time Iraq has had with their constitution. Law must supersede Religion in practical matters.

The point about comparing polygamy to homosexuality is also irrelavent when it comes to extending rights and priviledges, for polygamy in itself is a gross abuse of the equality that legally sanctioned unions are supposed to be protecting.

In other words, in a legalized union, there is supposed to be equality, a sharing of all resources, but how is it possible to begin ensuring that all members of a polygamous marriage are protected equally if the relationship is hinged upon one point (usually the lone male) with all other parties (usually multiple women of varying ages, appearances, abilities, etc.) held together by this one, and therefore more inherently valuable, male “linch-pin”?

No, polygamy by it’s very definition is not about equality at all and therefore cannot possibly be equated to any monogamous relationship (homosexual or otherwise).

The only argument counter to gay marriage even moderately defensible, IMHO, is that it breaks with tradition. And that is an ever-sinking ship unless more solid, objective rationale can be found to buoy the value of tradition.

Simply put, I have yet to hear anything of a non-subjective nature used well in the case against homosexuality in general, let alone gay marriage.[/quote]
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Jimbo,

I would agree with you as long as it is not called “marriage”. Marriage is a religious institution regardless of what has legally occurred since it’s inception.

Marriage was introduced in the bible and one man and one woman. That is the criteria. So to allow gays to be “married” it would require changing that criteria. That is the conflict. Gays want that criteria changed just for them. Well, as we have seen in Texas and many other States, that is not going to happen.

Now if gays want to have a legal union of some kind to get whatever legal benefits there are from traditional marriage, I have no objections to that. If it’s just a legal issue and not a religious institution, they can do whatever they want. Just don’t call it marriage.

But you know what, I bet if you asked gays if this would be ok they would say no. The reason is not because they want equal rights, etc. No, what they want is to change the moral fabric of America. They want to change what religion feels about homosexuality. They want mainstream society to accept them and their behavior so they can accept themselves. THAT is really what they want. Not some civil union that gives equal rights.

[quote]Lorisco wrote:
Jimmy Tango wrote:
Um, anyone who treats people for AIDS worth his or her salt would first answer the question, “How did HIV get into humans?” long before wondering about the gay population.

No sport, you would look at the first human and determine the mode of transition first. That is where you would get into the lifestyle thing. The “gay” thing has nothing to do with it. It would be the mode of transmission; vector, direct contact with blood, etc…

Your objection is baseless.

Anal sex is only a catalyst in the spread of communicable diseases due to the highly-absorptive environment of the rectum–it doesn’t necessarily correlate to primary infection and any scientist with the merest understanding of human physiology would know that. Infection could have been concurrent with heterosexual populations, but because of the nature of anal sex, rapid transmission and proliferation of the virus was made possible.

Well, first, because of the colon’s absorption capabilities is the reason for it being a primary route of infection. Why do you think a number of medications are administered by suppository? Duh! Time to open your eye my friend.

Next, it could be true that a concurrent exposure occurred in heteros and is just spread exponentially slower because it is not spread through vaginal sex. That “could” be true if we didn’t already have documented cases of this occurring, which we do. The primary source of AIDS in woman (except for blood transfusions) is through vaginal sex with a gay man.

So although this is not consistent with current research on the issue, I will say that it could occur because much is still not known about this virus.

As far as origins are concerned, original transmission from a monkey (if that is believed to be the original case of infection) could have easily come from saliva/blood mixing during a bite or any other transfer of bodily fluids between species, irregardless of the sexual orientation of both parties involved, monkey or human. Inter-species infection through anal sex is an incredibly biased, if not incredibly unlikely and offensive way of looking at things.

I don’t recall saying that it came from gay men having sex with monkeys. Perhaps that is your own idea?

Also, since when is the CDC the ultimate authority on BEHAVIOUR in homosexuals? Are you saying that the CDC is the ultimate authority on the behaviour of heterosexuals as well? This is such shallow mirepresentation that I don’t even feel the need to explain.

Dude, the CDC is a well respected authority on disease. You trying to slam them just shows your pathetic lack of information and understanding on the issue.

I guess any source, no matter how credible, would be bogus to you if you didn’t agree with the outcome. Sad![/quote]

Either you didn’t understand what I was trying to say, or you took what I was saying too personally. I’ll try to reconcile the differences:

I think, in the first case about transmission, we’re both agreeing that it’s about method of initial transmission and not sexuality. Even before you use the word “lifestyle”, you admittedly use the terms “first human” and “mode of transmission”. Lifestyle is secondary.

Perhaps my use of the term “long-before” was misleading, but my point is that it is definitively wrong when concerning the case of primary infection to be wondering “why gays?” until we’ve answered “why humans?”.

As of right now, we do not know who what that first case was, and based on the fact that there is a large majority of heterosexuals running around this planet, it doesn’t make any sense to pin the INITIAL CASE (in all humans to have ever existed) on homosexuality more than any other demographic at this point. At any rate, I think we have both agreed, each in our own way.

In my opinion, the colon being the primary route of infection is far less likely than through blood to blood contact via cut, bite, open wound when we’re talking about INTERSPECIES transmission. However, once the HIV virus is introduced into humans, anal sex (as far as disease transmission is concerned) is a much more efficient way of spreading the virus.

It is very possible that the HIV virus first existed in hetero populations only, almost unnoticeable due to the slower rate of transmission and it being undiagnosed for so long–perhaps being passed from mother to child for several generations–but when (as probabilities might eventually dictate) it is finally passed on to someone who practiced a higher-risk lifestyle (drug user sharing needles, hetero or homosexual practitioner of anal sex) the rate of that transmission would be greatly increased and the disease would become more prevalent.

Naturally, members of those same high-risk lifestyle demographics would be at much higher risk for both contracting and spreading the disease and so it makes sense that it would initially appear as a gay disease (minorities are rather visible/easily identifiable by nature). But labelling it a disease only or almost exclusively experienced by homosexuals is grossly negligent of medical fact.

I never said that I thought it came from monkeys or any other specific vector–that was a prior example brought up in someone else’s post and also discussed by you. The point is, it doesn’t matter what the species of origination was as much as it matters that it’s in humans now.

Whether you said it or not, Lorisco, there currently is no scientific basis for believing that INITIAL INFECTION came via the rectum versus any other biological barrier. I think that it wouldn’t if only based on my astute observation that nothing that doesn’t first pass through my digestive tract (something that HIV cannot survive) ever touches my rectum (which is INSIDE of me and therefore more difficult to reach, thank God!) and that I would be more prone to infection through some open cut or other external avenue of transmission.

Maybe I’m going out on a limb here, but chances are, if you get close enough to a live, wild animal such as a monkey (who are often much stronger physically than humans) that you aren’t going to be having anal sex with it, and that if you even tried, it would probably get pissed off that you’re doing something as aggressive as directly approaching it and take a swipe at you or try to gnash you with it’s teeth.

Also… ANAL SEX DOES NOT INDICATE HOMOSEXUALITY. I don’t think it would be tough finding many red-blooded straight dudes who’d give their right testicle for a chance to pop Britney in every available orifice… so even if we did find out that primary transmission was from anal sex, it still doesn’t say anything about the gay population, so who cares about lifestyle IN THE CASE OF PRIMARY INFECTION?

Yes… it matters greatly in tracking subsequent cases, but not in the primary case. And based on what I’ve stated previously, there’s more than 10 to 1 odds that it was a heterosexual in the first case.

Lorisco, you need to pay attention to what I’m saying–yes, primary transmission via the rectum is a very distinct possibility, duh!, but for people to single that out as the LONE possibility, or even the MOST LIKELY possibility in the case of INITIAL INFECTION (here, “initial infection” means the first case of any human being anywhere in the world being infected with the HIV virus ever) is simply heresay and unproveable at this point.

If you’re talking about initial infection on a case-by-case basis, yes, then it makes perfect sense to ask questions about their lifestyle, and, yes, I don’t think that anyone would disagree that people who practice anal sex are at a much higher risk for both contracting and spreading the HIV virus.

But my understanding is that this argument is about WHERE HIV INITIALLY CAME FROM, with the insinuation being that gays were somehow being punished or singled-out by God. AND THIS IS INDEED A BASELESS AND HATEFUL THING TO SAY, JUST AS MUCH AS IT IS BASELESS AND HATEFUL TO SAY THAT THE PEOPLE OF NEW ORLEANS WERE BEING PUNISHED BY GOD WITH THE FLOOD, OR THAT AFRICANS ARE BEING PUNISHED BY GOD WITH SICKLE-CELLED ANEMIA.

In fact, even if someone were to say that God was punishing people in those three cases, I would argue that God did not punish any of them: God made human bodies such that anal sex to be a pleasureable experience for some (in some men, stimulation of the prostate via the rectum can be a very pleasureable and in some women, nerve endings in the vagina can also be stimulated via the rectum–God certainly didn’t make it painful in and of itself); sickle-celled anemia was a biological way of counteracting malaria which is much more prevalent in areas Africa than elsewhere; and the flood… well, at least now there is a time to rebuild, and a time to address the tragically huge disparity between the impoverished and the rich, is there not? Perhaps good can come out of New Orleans–the opportunity now presents itself.

God works in mysterious ways, so to make presumptions that one act or another was intended for just one purpose or another is just symptomatic of the noble, yet ever-failing attempt of us mortals to try and make sense of this strange world we share… and we must always be ready to question our attempts.

Finally, (gasp) I’m not slamming the CDC–I’m saying that it’s false to conclude that the CDC is the expert about BEHAVIOUR of homosexuals. Disease management is not about psychology or sociology, although there may be a correlation. Therefore it is a misrepresentation to use the term BEHAVIOUR. I capped the word so you notice the distinction.

In that respect, I don’t think I’m saying anything too profound, but I felt that the original post was misleading in how it was worded. If you had gone further and qualified the behaviour with something “how homosexual behaviour affects the transmission of STDs” then I wouldn’t have had any problems.

The point I make might be academic, but it is easy for others to then make wrong assumptions and then correlate homosexuality solely with anal sex and HIV transmission, which is a misrepresentation–for instance, do you think lesbians practice anal sex much more than heterosexuals do? I doubt it. I know what a clitoris is. I’m sure that most lesbians do too.

The CDC is not a final authority–it is just another resource that can be abused and misused by anyone such as yourself or I. I do not often question the sources themselves… but I do watch carefully for the inferences that other make based on those sources because they are often narrow and prejudiced.

Statistics are difficult to read and qualify. It may seem easy to look at two numbers and draw a conclusion, but there is still much careful interpretation to be done–scientists and experts in the field are always challenging the veracity and relevance of even the most basic sets of results, so why can’t we?

Once again, I don’t challenge the CDC… I challenge the label that you have applied to CDC’s findings.

I hope that clarifies my position. I can find nothing wrong in the logic I have presented here, but I present it so that others may help me to refine it, just as I may challenge others to refine their positions.

Thank you.

BTW: I’m not a “sport”, Lorisco. And my eyes are open, as well as my mind.

Also, your sentence, “The primary source of AIDS in woman (except for blood transfusions) is through vaginal sex with a gay man,” is completely ridiculous. If you don’t understand why, try opening your eyes and re-read it. Perhaps you meant to say “bisexual”, or “bi-curious”? I can’t believe that there are so many gay men out there subjecting themselves to something that defies the definition of their sexuality. This conclusion, as you have framed it here, is highly suspect at best.

Treat me with some respect, okay? Believe it or not, I’m not trying to make any ad hominem attacks on you, Lorisco. I tried to not be condescending, but I find that many of your responses in return were condescending and this troubles me. I would like to continue to discuss this topic, but if people cannot be mature enough to refrain from using tones of derision and spite, then there really isn’t much point in continuing.

I apologize if you read that in my post, but my challenge was in pointing out what I thought had been obvious and then asking for clarification–and I try to refrain from rhetorical questions unless I feel there is some humour to be had in posing them (see: lesbians and their clitorises).

[quote]Lorisco wrote:
Jimmy Tango wrote:
Religion needs to step out of this fight because the legal benefits of marriage are not granted by the Church. They are granted by the State. Religious marriage is only made LEGAL when it is honoured by the laws of a society–not the law of a God, even if every member of that society strictly adheres to the tenets of a single Faith.

Religions have the autonomy of belief, but mere belief-systems in themselves must pass themselves through the scrutiny of a judiciary system. The government does not allow Born-Again Christians to evolve on the battlefield–if Jesus or Buddha or A Really Big Snow Cone comes to a soldier in the middle of a battle, and that soldier conscientiously chooses then to object to killing the enemy and so disobeys a direct order, he/she will be court-martialled and most likely found guilty.

Religion does not take priority over Law in contemporary Society, except in special cases where Law has made prior exceptions to Religion. And that must be the way in any polytheistic nation-state, or chaos/tyranny will ensue–just look at how difficult a time Iraq has had with their constitution. Law must supersede Religion in practical matters.

The point about comparing polygamy to homosexuality is also irrelavent when it comes to extending rights and priviledges, for polygamy in itself is a gross abuse of the equality that legally sanctioned unions are supposed to be protecting.

In other words, in a legalized union, there is supposed to be equality, a sharing of all resources, but how is it possible to begin ensuring that all members of a polygamous marriage are protected equally if the relationship is hinged upon one point (usually the lone male) with all other parties (usually multiple women of varying ages, appearances, abilities, etc.) held together by this one, and therefore more inherently valuable, male “linch-pin”?

No, polygamy by it’s very definition is not about equality at all and therefore cannot possibly be equated to any monogamous relationship (homosexual or otherwise).

The only argument counter to gay marriage even moderately defensible, IMHO, is that it breaks with tradition. And that is an ever-sinking ship unless more solid, objective rationale can be found to buoy the value of tradition.

Simply put, I have yet to hear anything of a non-subjective nature used well in the case against homosexuality in general, let alone gay marriage.

Jimbo,

I would agree with you as long as it is not called “marriage”. Marriage is a religious institution regardless of what has legally occurred since it’s inception.

Marriage was introduced in the bible and one man and one woman. That is the criteria. So to allow gays to be “married” it would require changing that criteria. That is the conflict. Gays want that criteria changed just for them. Well, as we have seen in Texas and many other States, that is not going to happen.

Now if gays want to have a legal union of some kind to get whatever legal benefits there are from traditional marriage, I have no objections to that. If it’s just a legal issue and not a religious institution, they can do whatever they want. Just don’t call it marriage.

But you know what, I bet if you asked gays if this would be ok they would say no. The reason is not because they want equal rights, etc. No, what they want is to change the moral fabric of America. They want to change what religion feels about homosexuality. They want mainstream society to accept them and their behavior so they can accept themselves. THAT is really what they want. Not some civil union that gives equal rights.
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What if it’s called “mariage” with one ‘r’? Would that be okay?

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?

If marriage is a religious institution, and there is a separation of church and state, then why is the state sponsoring ANY marriages?

[quote]harris447 wrote:

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?
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More Bible (Christian) bashing. Interesting, that we have huge thread and most of the ignorant hateful comments come from the social liberals. Those who are open to gay marriage, but quite narrow minded, closed and hatefilled to certain religions.

This could be one reason (and only one) why your side is losing this particular debate!

[quote]ZEB wrote:
harris447 wrote:

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?

More Bible (Christian) bashing. Interesting, that we have huge thread and most of the ignorant hateful comments come from the social liberals. Those who are open to gay marriage, but quite narrow minded, closed and hatefilled to certain religions.

This could be one reason (and only one) why your side is losing this particular debate![/quote]

okay, maybe you’re right: explain how religion is different than superstition. Then, please explain why what YOU believe should have any impact on other people’s lives.

And…I’m pretty sure the side that’s losing is the side that, no matter what point gets made, goes, “BIBLE SAID SO! BIBLE SAID SO!”

[quote]harris447 wrote:
I would agree with you as long as it is not called “marriage”. Marriage is a religious institution regardless of what has legally occurred since it’s inception.

Marriage was introduced in the bible and one man and one woman. That is the criteria. So to allow gays to be “married” it would require changing that criteria. That is the conflict. Gays want that criteria changed just for them. Well, as we have seen in Texas and many other States, that is not going to happen.

Now if gays want to have a legal union of some kind to get whatever legal benefits there are from traditional marriage, I have no objections to that. If it’s just a legal issue and not a religious institution, they can do whatever they want. Just don’t call it marriage.

But you know what, I bet if you asked gays if this would be ok they would say no. The reason is not because they want equal rights, etc. No, what they want is to change the moral fabric of America. They want to change what religion feels about homosexuality. They want mainstream society to accept them and their behavior so they can accept themselves. THAT is really what they want. Not some civil union that gives equal rights.

What if it’s called “mariage” with one ‘r’? Would that be okay?

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?

If marriage is a religious institution, and there is a separation of church and state, then why is the state sponsoring ANY marriages?

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The constitution supports freedom of religion, not freedom from religion.

[quote]Lorisco wrote:

Whatever Dude. It’s a statistical fact. Look it up on the CDC website. See the per 1000 rate in heteros and the same for gays and statistically there is little HIV in heteros. But the main issue is that it is ONLY in the hetero population because of blood transfusions from infected gay men and gay men having sex with women.[/quote]

Africa has the biggest AIDS epidemic of all, just a low percentage of that is attributed to gay men.

Statistics for USA

Of men-
58% were men who had sex with men

Of women-
64% were women exposed through heterosexual contact

What do these statistics tell you? To me this indicates a substantial amount of closet homosexuals/bisexuals spreading the virus not just through other men but women also. These are the hypocrites that give homosexual men bad coverage.

My views on religion are this, no religious sect will have a say in what i do with my private life, nor will politicians. Their so called “laws” are the laws of man not God, they are no better than i and nothing in this world gives them the right to try segragate minority groups. Religious sects are full of hypocricy. Let’s take the jews as an example; the Jews were involved in the crucifixion of Christ yet they would have us believe they are more pure than the driven snow. Maybe God will forget that little sin of theirs. I think not. If homosexuals are condemned just for their indifferent lifestyle, what will become of jews?

[quote]Lorisco wrote:
harris447 wrote:
I would agree with you as long as it is not called “marriage”. Marriage is a religious institution regardless of what has legally occurred since it’s inception.

Marriage was introduced in the bible and one man and one woman. That is the criteria. So to allow gays to be “married” it would require changing that criteria. That is the conflict. Gays want that criteria changed just for them. Well, as we have seen in Texas and many other States, that is not going to happen.

Now if gays want to have a legal union of some kind to get whatever legal benefits there are from traditional marriage, I have no objections to that. If it’s just a legal issue and not a religious institution, they can do whatever they want. Just don’t call it marriage.

But you know what, I bet if you asked gays if this would be ok they would say no. The reason is not because they want equal rights, etc. No, what they want is to change the moral fabric of America. They want to change what religion feels about homosexuality. They want mainstream society to accept them and their behavior so they can accept themselves. THAT is really what they want. Not some civil union that gives equal rights.

What if it’s called “mariage” with one ‘r’? Would that be okay?

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?

If marriage is a religious institution, and there is a separation of church and state, then why is the state sponsoring ANY marriages?

The constitution supports freedom of religion, not freedom from religion.

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That made NO sense.

[quote]DOMK wrote:
DOMK wrote:
Lorisco wrote:

Whatever Dude. It’s a statistical fact. Look it up on the CDC website. See the per 1000 rate in heteros and the same for gays and statistically there is little HIV in heteros. But the main issue is that it is ONLY in the hetero population because of blood transfusions from infected gay men and gay men having sex with women.

Africa has the biggest AIDS epidemic of all, just a low percentage of that is attributed to gay men.

Statistics for USA

Out of men-
58% were men who had sex with men

Out of women-
64% were exposed through heterosexual contact

What do these statistics tell you? To me this indicates a substantial amount of closet homosexuals/bisexuals spreading the virus not just through other men but women also. These are the hypocrites that give homosexual men bad coverage.

My views on religion are this, no religious sect will have a say in what i do with my private life, nor will politicians. Their so called “laws” are the laws of man not God, they are no better than i and nothing in this world gives them the right to try segragate minority groups. Religious sects are full of hypocricy. Let’s take the jews as an example; the Jews were involved in the crucifixion of Christ yet they would have us believe they are more pure than the driven snow.

Maybe God will forget that little sin of theirs. I think not. If homosexuals are condemned just for their indifferent lifestyle, what will become of jews?
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Wow. Homophobia AND anti-semitism in one post. Nice work, buddy.

[quote]Lorisco wrote:
Jimmy Tango wrote:
Religion needs to step out of this fight because the legal benefits of marriage are not granted by the Church. They are granted by the State. Religious marriage is only made LEGAL when it is honoured by the laws of a society–not the law of a God, even if every member of that society strictly adheres to the tenets of a single Faith.

Religions have the autonomy of belief, but mere belief-systems in themselves must pass themselves through the scrutiny of a judiciary system. The government does not allow Born-Again Christians to evolve on the battlefield–if Jesus or Buddha or A Really Big Snow Cone comes to a soldier in the middle of a battle, and that soldier conscientiously chooses then to object to killing the enemy and so disobeys a direct order, he/she will be court-martialled and most likely found guilty.

Religion does not take priority over Law in contemporary Society, except in special cases where Law has made prior exceptions to Religion. And that must be the way in any polytheistic nation-state, or chaos/tyranny will ensue–just look at how difficult a time Iraq has had with their constitution. Law must supersede Religion in practical matters.

The point about comparing polygamy to homosexuality is also irrelavent when it comes to extending rights and priviledges, for polygamy in itself is a gross abuse of the equality that legally sanctioned unions are supposed to be protecting.

In other words, in a legalized union, there is supposed to be equality, a sharing of all resources, but how is it possible to begin ensuring that all members of a polygamous marriage are protected equally if the relationship is hinged upon one point (usually the lone male) with all other parties (usually multiple women of varying ages, appearances, abilities, etc.) held together by this one, and therefore more inherently valuable, male “linch-pin”?

No, polygamy by it’s very definition is not about equality at all and therefore cannot possibly be equated to any monogamous relationship (homosexual or otherwise).

The only argument counter to gay marriage even moderately defensible, IMHO, is that it breaks with tradition. And that is an ever-sinking ship unless more solid, objective rationale can be found to buoy the value of tradition.

Simply put, I have yet to hear anything of a non-subjective nature used well in the case against homosexuality in general, let alone gay marriage.

Jimbo,

I would agree with you as long as it is not called “marriage”. Marriage is a religious institution regardless of what has legally occurred since it’s inception.

Marriage was introduced in the bible and one man and one woman. That is the criteria. So to allow gays to be “married” it would require changing that criteria. That is the conflict. Gays want that criteria changed just for them. Well, as we have seen in Texas and many other States, that is not going to happen.

Now if gays want to have a legal union of some kind to get whatever legal benefits there are from traditional marriage, I have no objections to that. If it’s just a legal issue and not a religious institution, they can do whatever they want. Just don’t call it marriage.

But you know what, I bet if you asked gays if this would be ok they would say no. The reason is not because they want equal rights, etc. No, what they want is to change the moral fabric of America. They want to change what religion feels about homosexuality. They want mainstream society to accept them and their behavior so they can accept themselves. THAT is really what they want. Not some civil union that gives equal rights.
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Well, if comes done to the label, as you are suggesting, then both pro- and anti-gay marriage sides are engaged in the most ridiculous and infantile political sparring match I have ever known. And I can’t imagine that such reasonable people in the Courts, Congress, etc. would waste their time and money on such a petty noun.

The NAACP doesn’t think it’s about labels:

www.naacp.org/news/2005/2005-11-23.html

The recent amendment, as reported in the Capital Times, seems to indicate that it’s not about the label either:

www.madison.com/tct/mad/topstories/index.php?ntid=62611&ntpid=0

"The proposed amendment would declare that the state could only recognize marriage between a woman and a man. It would also bar the state from recognizing any legal status between unmarried individuals that is “substantially similar” to that of marriage.

“Sheehan, along with more than 300 legal experts, say that means the state could ban civil unions and domestic partnership benefits.”

Once again, this time in New Hampshire, it seems like the label is taking the back seat to the benefits:

www.boston.com/news/local/new_hampshire/articles/2005/11/23/commission_report_recommends_minimal_benefits_to_same_sex_couples/

Here’s an interesting stat:

"Massachusetts is the only state that grants full marriage benefits to same-sex couples. Connecticut and Vermont offer civil unions, which give gay and lesbian couples legal status equal to marriage.

“Maine is one of 39 states that prohibit same-sex marriage either through state statute or within the state constitution.”

www.bangornews.com/news/templates/?a=123965

Here’s one from the pro side:

www.beloitdailynews.com/articles/2005/11/22/editorials/edit01.txt

“We acknowledge some discomfort with a constitutional proposal which would prohibit establishment of civil unions, which might confer some basic legal rights - for example, hospital decisions, domestic partner health benefits - while stopping short of equal footing with marriage.”

And, finally:

“Short of achieving full marriage rights, gay rights backers mounted an effort in the Legislature earlier this year to pass a civil unions bill extending most of the benefits and rights of marriage to same-sex couples. Such a bill was approved by the Democrat-controlled Senate, but later died in the Republican-controlled House.”

What’s going on here? It seems like the terms “marriage” and “legal rights” go hand-in-hand. If you find one being discussed, then you usually find the other.

Interesting. Perhaps it is coincidence, or maybe those darned liberals really are conspiring to cloud the rather simple and benign issue of semantics (just calling it something other than marriage) with this mumbo-jumbo of rights and benefits being withheld… or perhaps not.

All I have to say is, it’s no wonder gays want to change the “moral fabric” of the United States. Is there a problem with buying new bedsheets every once in a while? Actually, the problem is usually in hanging onto the old ones for longer than what is deemed ‘sanitary’, and America’s “moral fabric” is once again starting to stink a little of hypocrisy in denying the same rights and freedoms to all of its citizens.

The gay marriage question isn’t about how people are going to refer to two dudes or two women who have made legally-binding vows of monogamy to each other–it’s about being able to make the same legally-binding vows that a man and a women can make in the first place.

[quote]harris447 wrote:
DOMK wrote:
DOMK wrote:
Lorisco wrote:

Whatever Dude. It’s a statistical fact. Look it up on the CDC website. See the per 1000 rate in heteros and the same for gays and statistically there is little HIV in heteros. But the main issue is that it is ONLY in the hetero population because of blood transfusions from infected gay men and gay men having sex with women.

Africa has the biggest AIDS epidemic of all, just a low percentage of that is attributed to gay men.

Statistics for USA

Out of men-

58% were men who had sex with men

Out of women-
64% were exposed through heterosexual contact

What do these statistics tell you? To me this indicates a substantial amount of closet homosexuals/bisexuals spreading the virus not just through other men but women also. These are the hypocrites that give homosexual men bad coverage.

My views on religion are this, no religious sect will have a say in what i do with my private life, nor will politicians. Their so called “laws” are the laws of man not God, they are no better than i and nothing in this world gives them the right to try segragate minority groups. Religious sects are full of hypocricy. Let’s take the jews as an example; the Jews were involved in the crucifixion of Christ yet they would have us believe they are more pure than the driven snow.

Maybe God will forget that little sin of theirs. I think not. If homosexuals are condemned just for their indifferent lifestyle, what will become of jews?

Wow. Homophobia AND anti-semitism in one post. Nice work, buddy.[/quote]

Really? I have a brother who’s gay.

What i stated was nothing but facts. Bisexuals/closet homosexuals (who live in an heterosexual marriage) are the ones that spread the virus throughout the population.

As for jews; what i wrote was just an indication as to how false/hypocritical religion is. Religion is a disease that causes nothing but hatred/death.

[quote]DOMK wrote:
… Religion is a disease that causes nothing but hatred/death.[/quote]

That is why all the churches around here sent money, clothes, food and water to the Katrina victims and have sponsored families that wanted to relocate up here.

They thought that would be the best way to spread hatred and death.

[quote]Zap Branigan wrote:
DOMK wrote:
… Religion is a disease that causes nothing but hatred/death.

That is why all the churches around here sent money, clothes, food and water to the Katrina victims and have sponsored families that wanted to relocate up here.

They thought that would be the best way to spread hatred and death.[/quote]

The problems not religion itself. The problem is that their were [are] immoral, power-hungry men in positions of religious power that have used it perversely. And there have been a lot of wars that were started in the name of relgion. But it was just an excuse and the bone of contention.

If not religion, there would’ve been wars between groups fundamentally disagreeing about some other aspect the view as important. It is just in our nature as humans. Well, one part of our nature.

Lorisco, you speak blatant falsehoods. I will check out this ‘information’ on the CDC website you refer to. I am sure that you have perverted it’s meaning. AIDS is readily spread through vaginal sex. Anyone who’s ever been to school, taken, a health class, and has half a brain realizes this. Not that I’d wish it on anyone, but maybe you should go have unprotected sex with a few HIV postitive women and see what happens.

Lorisco, you are really one of the stupider human beings I’ve encountered in my life. (and I don’t throw that around lightly-I have yet to say it to anyonw on this site no matter how strongly I’ve disagreed with their views).

I challenge you to put your ideas to any Dr. whose been through medical school. They sure as hell will tell you that AIDS spreads readily through genital sex. The fact that it’s spreads more readily through anal sex has no bearing on that. The fact that a 400 pound wopman is grossly, morbidly obese in no way has any bearing on whether a 200 lb woman is fat. It’s not something I will even argue about even if you could actually present some sources. It’s almost like saying that the earth is flat.

Anybody else actually believe that HIV isn’t readily transmitted through gential sex? Please stand up.

[quote]harris447 wrote:
ZEB wrote:
harris447 wrote:

How, exactly do you know what the homosexuals want? Is it possible they really don’t care about the acceptance of superstitious worshippers of archaic, badly written books?

More Bible (Christian) bashing. Interesting, that we have huge thread and most of the ignorant hateful comments come from the social liberals. Those who are open to gay marriage, but quite narrow minded, closed and hatefilled to certain religions.

This could be one reason (and only one) why your side is losing this particular debate!

okay, maybe you’re right: explain how religion is different than superstition. Then, please explain why what YOU believe should have any impact on other people’s lives.

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I can debate the gay marriage issue without name calling. No derogatory names against gays. Do you know why? Because they are people who are deserving of our love and understanding. The fact that I might disagree on the gay marriage issue does not turn me into a hate filled closed minded moron.

Now tell me that if you try really hard you can be as understanding of people of faith!

Then again if I have to explain to you why it’s wrong to ridicule someone else’s faith then someone failed to raise you properly.
And it’s most likely to late for anyone to even attempt to change you, especially on a message board.

[quote]DOMK wrote:
My views on religion are this, no religious sect will have a say in what i do with my private life, nor will politicians.[/quote]

Do whatever you want in your “private life.” It’s the all encompassing social change that you are not going to have.

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Here’s an interesting resource presented by a collective of Religious-based peoples. What I find most interesting are the quotes from the 1960’s about inter-racial marriages, and how similar they sound to many of the views expressed on gay marriage.