Proof Gay Marriage is Wrong

[quote]Lorisco wrote:

The crazy thing is that most who call me or others that don’t agree with the gay lifestyle “haters”, while they sit back and let people die one after the other because of their own behavior/lifestyle and say nothing. They even condone it. So the real haters are those who don’t at least try and dissuade people from self-destructive behavior.
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Who is dying because of there lifestyle? And are you refering to AIDS again? That certainly applies to the millions upon millions of heterosexuals who stupidly, carelessly, or wantonly engage in unprotected sex and/or dangerous drug use. What do you suggest people do other than warn and stress the risk.

We are all and should be autonomous actors. It’s not our place to force people to conform there behavior to one standard or another unless it’s a behavior we deem criminal. And the concern there is the victims.

[quote]jsbrook wrote:
Lorisco, I’m talking about the ORIGIN of aids in the first place. There’s no evidence that we know of by which the actual act of anal sex is what caused the disease in the first place. And anyone with any medical background would see that there’s no mechanisim we currently understand by which this could happen. I hope some of the doctors on this board will chime in and explain better than I ever could.
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Thanks for doing your homework on HIV, it might help some on this board.

First, I have treated people with HIV and know the issue very well.

Next, since the origin of disease is unknown, that would mean that you cannot rule out anything. Anything would include contrary to biological function sexual activity. It is a fact that introducing E-coli and other colon bacteria into other parts of the body has and does cause disease. So as an unbiased scientist investigating the origin of disease, focusing on the most obvious (contrary to function sexual activity) would be the first avenue of inquiry.

You really need to read the truth about the behavior of gays and their health on the CDC website.

And yet, this is the fundamental question. BECAUSE, why would it not be hetero? What makes gays different to have this illness almost exclusively theirs? Again, the most obvious answer it their sexual practices.

What of it? Duh! Because based on what we currently KNOW, there would be NO AIDS in humans if it weren’t for gays. That is a fact!

I don’t understand what you are saying? Are you saying that transferring E-Coli and other colon bacteria into the urethra of the penis or into the upper GI track via anal sex has not been shown to cause disease?

If that is what you are saying, then I think you need to go do some more homework and then come back to the forum. News flash sport, E-Coli is a pathogen in any other part of the body except the colon. Sounds like you need a course in infectious disease. Stop wasting my time with this stupid crap!

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Your understanding of CAUSATION seems to be off. How did the the monkeys all get their viruses? Were they ass-humping too? And the organic nature of anal sex someone caused a chain of conditions inside the monkey body that resulted in a virus that attacked its immune system? Not likely. [/quote]

Dude, for the sake of others on this thread I will respond, but this is the last time I’m going to explain it.

Bacteria and virus? function differently in different animals. The HIV virus may reside in apes or other animals causing little problems (like the virus that causes warts in humans). But when introduced to another part of the body or into another species can cause nothing or death.

So what I’m saying is that HIV could be natural to monkeys just like E-Coli is natural to the colon for humans. When you take the virus out of that natural environment and put it somewhere else it can cause disease.

But again, the question is how did it get into gays and why gays?

People should quit presuming to know what the Bible says and actually read it. Blanketed statements like “the Bible condones slavery” are a point of ignorance. Nobody who is well verse with scripture would make a statement like that.

If people are going to start arguing using absolute terms such as “normal/abnormal”, “right/wrong”, etc. then there really isn’t any value in arguing anymore. These terms usually only serve in proving the bias (cultural or otherwise) of the person using them; people might as well be arguing that purple is a better colour than orange (or vice versa) in that case.

Might it be better to avoid any spiritual/religious conflict and instead focus on the effects of making gay marriage/civil union legal versus keeping it illegal? Church and State should be kept separate, non?

I would think that many people opposed to gay marriage for those oft-quoted, stereotypical reasons might be putting their own foot in their mouth:

  • marriage would conceivably prevent the transmission of STD in the gay population in that these vows would be not only socially upheld, but legally upheld as well.

  • health benefits that cover spouses would be extended to gay couples, thus also decreasing the risks of spreading STDs in the population.

  • provide stability in society by creating more instances of the primary or core family unit (2 adults who are both able to provide for the direct caring and raising of children while earning a living through employment) who could then go on and adopt otherwise orphaned children.

  • the effect of legally sanctioned unions between same sex partners would have a “normalizing” effect on the gay population as a whole and thus help to bridge the gap in understanding/association between homosexuals and non-homosexuals in general, while doing much to curb rates of the higher-risk lifestyles associated with homosexual populations at large.

For the above reasons, I think that it would be in the interests of those who so vehemently oppose the purported homosexual way-of-life to support the concept of legal, gay marriages.

[quote]soupandspoons wrote:
Zeb,

Thank you for a thoughtful, well presented post. What I would like to discuss is the translation that you presented of arsenokoitai as homosexual.

Before I begin I would like to point out that I don’t have a biblical studies or linguistics background. My research on the topic has been limited to online resources (very few of which are without an agenda, as you can imagine).

From what I was able to discover the two words in corinthians and timothy that are contentious are malakoi and arsenokoitai.

Malakoi appears elsewhere in the bible, but is used in reference to soft clothing; Matthew 11:8 and Luke 7:25.[/quote]

The word “malakoi” meant effeminate. Pro homosexual web sites will tell you that Malakoi simply means “soft.” Thereby dodging the literal meaning of the word…they think. However, it was used to describe men who had sexual relations with other men. Today a similar derogatory term might be “fairy” “limpwrist” “faggot.” In other words, it was indeed a nasty slang term which not unlike the three above had a double meaning.

[quote]Arsenokoitai appears only once, in corinthians and I have seen it translated as you have it; homosexual, as well as pervert, child molester and abusers of themselves with mankind.

I have read that the word, which may have been coined by Paul, may have referred to the male temple prostitutes that were part of the fertility rituals of several of the pagan cults/religions of the day.[/quote]

Male prostitues are exctly what the social liberals want you to think arsenokoitai means. However that is not the case.

Arsenokoitai is actually two words: The first word is “arsen” which comes from the word “arrhen” meaning “males.” The second half of this ancient word is “koitai” this word comes from the word “koite” meaning "bed chamber or to lie with (not alone).

If you put the ancient words together you come up with the exact same meaning that tens of thousands of professional (as in paid to dedicate your life to this) interpreters have come up: HOMOSEXUAL! Which is exactly what Paul meant.

Men having sex with someone of the same gender. And might I add no where in those two words is there even a hint that it is “paid sex” as in temple prostitutes!

There is no legitimate debate regarding this word with anyone familiar with the scriptures and ancient Greek (as the Bible interpreters are). There is however much debate among the pro homosexual web sites on how to turn this into some sort of victory for their side. Not happening!

Furthermore, if there is any doubt as to the authors intent, I point you to Romans 1:26 & 27:

" Because of this God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion."

The above passage is very very clear!

And again I have to restate: Why would the Bible, which condemns premarital sex as sin, advocate sexual relations between two people of the same gender when in fact they were not married?

This is the counter argument from the pro homosexual web sites. I have seen it over and over again and debated this very point last summer with another poster.

This is all that they have to cling to in order to rationalize the act of homosexuality. It makes no sense as I point out above.

Where are all the pro homosexual verses in the Bible? They don’t exist! However, there are several “anti-homosexual” verses.

I want to thank you for your gracious comment. It is difficult taking a postion that is not politically correct. However, I do feel that I am correct for a multitude of reasons. One can disagree without being disagreeable. I try to do this, but the social liberals (many of them) are hateful themselves if you oppose their agenda.

I am for separation of church and state. With that said this country is heaped in Biblical tradition. This includes things such as marriage and Christmas to “in God we trust” printed on our money.

I am not for reforming any (and much more) of the above in order to satisfy a tiny fraction of the population. Whether they be Atheists, homosexuals or both!

A good example is always the best way to lead, right? I’m sure we all try to be good examples to those around us. At least those of us who have children or other depending on us.

I judge no one! With that said I can still hold an opinion in the United States of America. It is my opinion that homosexual marriage is a bad idea. And that the social liberals have not given the rest of the country any good reason to allow such a thing to be sanctioned. It is further my opinion that it is in direct opposition of the Christian Bible (all legitimate translations). Hence, when the topic comes up I am comfortable debating it from this side.

Believe it or not many months can go past without me having a conversaton regarding this topic. But when it comes up here on T-Nation…why not jump in? The opposition is certainly not shy about speaking out.

As I have stated numerous times. I don’t “hate” anyone because they happen to be gay. No more than I would “hate” anyone who cheats on their wife. As a Christian sin is sin. We are to love the sinner but hate the sin. And by the way…we are all sinners.

I am personally thankful for the grace that I receive from my wife and others who have known me for many years. Humans make mistakes (sin) the key is to try not to repeat those “mistakes.”

Actually, I think Row V Wade is on it’s way out. Soon it will be back in the hands of the states.

There are many acts on earth which effect “the spirit in the afterlife” that are currently opposed by various laws. This would be a lengthy topic all on it’s own.

However, my opposition even transcends my spiritual beliefs. I think gay marriage is a bad idea on many fronts. And as I have stated repeatedly, not one good reason has ever been given to chnage a 5000+ year old institution for about 1% of the population.

[quote]Cheers,

Soup[/quote]

Have a good night and thank you for your civility.

Zeb

[quote]Lorisco wrote:
jsbrook wrote:
Lorisco, I’m talking about the ORIGIN of aids in the first place. There’s no evidence that we know of by which the actual act of anal sex is what caused the disease in the first place. And anyone with any medical background would see that there’s no mechanisim we currently understand by which this could happen. I hope some of the doctors on this board will chime in and explain better than I ever could.

Thanks for doing your homework on HIV, it might help some on this board.

First, I have treated people with HIV and know the issue very well.

Next, since the origin of disease is unknown, that would mean that you cannot rule out anything. Anything would include contrary to biological function sexual activity. It is a fact that introducing E-coli and other colon bacteria into other parts of the body has and does cause disease. So as an unbiased scientist investigating the origin of disease, focusing on the most obvious (contrary to function sexual activity) would be the first avenue of inquiry.

You really need to read the truth about the behavior of gays and their health on the CDC website.

No one how exactly it got into the gay population here.

And yet, this is the fundamental question. BECAUSE, why would it not be hetero? What makes gays different to have this illness almost exclusively theirs? Again, the most obvious answer it their sexual practices.

As far as transferring to the heterosexual population, you are probably right that it was the result of blood transfusions and bisexual men. But what of it?

What of it? Duh! Because based on what we currently KNOW, there would be NO AIDS in humans if it weren’t for gays. That is a fact!

You write: “Nothing is unclear about the biological function of the penis and rectum and how introducing one into the other will and does cause disease.” Pure fabrication unless you can give me some source.

I don’t understand what you are saying? Are you saying that transferring E-Coli and other colon bacteria into the urethra of the penis or into the upper GI track via anal sex has not been shown to cause disease?

If that is what you are saying, then I think you need to go do some more homework and then come back to the forum. News flash sport, E-Coli is a pathogen in any other part of the body except the colon. Sounds like you need a course in infectious disease. Stop wasting my time with this stupid crap!

Your understanding of CAUSATION seems to be off. How did the the monkeys all get their viruses? Were they ass-humping too? And the organic nature of anal sex someone caused a chain of conditions inside the monkey body that resulted in a virus that attacked its immune system? Not likely.

Dude, for the sake of others on this thread I will respond, but this is the last time I’m going to explain it.

Bacteria and virus? function differently in different animals. The HIV virus may reside in apes or other animals causing little problems (like the virus that causes warts in humans). But when introduced to another part of the body or into another species can cause nothing or death.

So what I’m saying is that HIV could be natural to monkeys just like E-Coli is natural to the colon for humans. When you take the virus out of that natural environment and put it somewhere else it can cause disease.

But again, the question is how did it get into gays and why gays?
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Um, anyone who treats people for AIDS worth his or her salt would first answer the question, “How did HIV get into humans?” long before wondering about the gay population.

Anal sex is only a catalyst in the spread of communicable diseases due to the highly-absorptive environment of the rectum–it doesn’t necessarily correlate to primary infection and any scientist with the merest understanding of human physiology would know that. Infection could have been concurrent with heterosexual populations, but because of the nature of anal sex, rapid transmission and proliferation of the virus was made possible.

As a general rule, it’s tougher to spread/contract diseases through vaginal intercourse–that doesn’t make it right either, that’s just the fact of the matter.

As far as origins are concerned, original transmission from a monkey (if that is believed to be the original case of infection) could have easily come from saliva/blood mixing during a bite or any other transfer of bodily fluids between species, irregardless of the sexual orientation of both parties involved, monkey or human. Inter-species infection through anal sex is an incredibly biased, if not incredibly unlikely and offensive way of looking at things.

Also, since when is the CDC the ultimate authority on BEHAVIOUR in homosexuals? Are you saying that the CDC is the ultimate authority on the behaviour of heterosexuals as well? This is such shallow mirepresentation that I don’t even feel the need to explain.

Dude, for the sake of others on this thread, go peddle your myopic viewpoints somewhere else.

Religion & Politics are what’s behind the destruction of mankind. These two groups have caused more hatred and deaths than any other.

There once was an infamous politician/dictator by the name of Adolf Hitler; a good man i’m sure you all will agree, a man doing gods work. Yeah right. Was he not the bastard who wanted all gays,lesbians,blacks and jews etc killed? A real good guy uh?

To think that the forefathers of these parasites (i.e. homophobics) fought and died against that nazi regime. They would be real proud i’m sure, preaching hatred while they laid down their lives to prevent just that.

As for gay marriage. If you pass an ammendment that prevents a certain group of people from doing something that the rest of the population is allowed to engage in, you are thereby oppressing that group of people and illegally enforcing the idea that they aren’t equal to everyone else. such as in the south in post-civil war times, a group of people were not allowed to do things that the rest of the people could do, now we can all agree that what was done to blacks in the south was wrong right? well persecution done to anyone is wrong, and if you believe i am incorrect in that statement, you dont belong in our so called “land of the free”. the united states used to be a beacon of freedom, and a sanctuary from injustice. today we have become a mockery of our past. if this ammendment would be passed, it would undo every ideal that america is supposed to stand for

My point is you cant pass an ammendment that is doomed to be unconstitutional. you can believe that homosexuals are dirty disgusting immoral people... but dont make that assumption until you've really met one. i bet you christian radicals with those beliefs never have truely talked to a homosexual without feeling hate or discomfort. your radical hate for homosexuals is no better than the ideas of radical moslems who hate americans for no reason. youre a domestic terrorist who hates homosexuals for no reason. and if you think everything in the bible is divine mandate, maybe you should read it more thoroughly. the bible states that you should eat your own feces in Ezekiel 4:12-13. or eat your son at II Kings 6:28-29. or maybe you should strip naked and howl, like it says at Isaiah 20:2-4. now are you going to go interpreting those passages like "god" actually wants you to do those things? because if you will then youre talking religion much too far. the bible was composed to give guidelines for how to live a good life. many people are living their lives as EXACTLY what the bible says. thats not the right way to practice religion. all the bible wants you to do is not kill, honor your parents, don't steal, don't lie and don't want what you cannot have. those are the ideas you should live by. not that some "all loving" parent figure hates everyone that isnt "normal". 

If i were the pope, i would be taking a closer interest in the going ons within the church. There have been way too many reports of child molestation within the church to give these people any credit of being decent, trust-worthy human beings, after all, trust-worthy and humane is how they like to portray themselves. Complete hypocrisy.

Lorisco, what do you mean AIDS is almost exclusively in the gay population? That's a blatant falsehood. It's a huge problem for all of us. For us heterosexuals in America. And far moreso worldwold. There are African countries with very little documented homosexuality where the prevalence of AIDS is damn near 40% of the adult population. There are other countries than America, you know. Your question, accordingly fails. As it's not clear that the origin was with gays at all in plenty of other countries.

You didn’t explain anything because you don’t understand the origin. I’m not saying I do. Even those at the forefront of AIDS research don’t have definitive answers. But you don’t have the answers. You don’t know why the virus apparently transferred from the simeon population to humans anymore than I do or why it initially happened to predominantly gays in America. The fact that behavior that may be common in the gay community (like sexual practices) SPREADS the disease more readily is hard to dispute. But irrelevant. It’s still a vicious disease and spreads readily if not as readily through traditional genital, heterosexual sex. And wherever the epidemic began in this country, it’s clearly not some divine punishment of homosexuality given the prevalence of AIDS amoung heterosexuals of this country and the worldwide PANDEMIC and rampant prevalence of AIDS among heterosexuals in other countries in stagerring proportions.

[quote]terribleivan wrote:
People should quit presuming to know what the Bible says and actually read it. Blanketed statements like “the Bible condones slavery” are a point of ignorance. Nobody who is well verse with scripture would make a statement like that.[/quote]

There is well-documented history of slavery in biblical stories. The bible does not CONDEMN slavery or deem it morally wrong. And it wasn’t thought to be among the ‘religious’ and ‘holy’ of biblical times. The point is that the most virtuous men in both the Old and New Testament performed actions and held beliefs, some of which we do not consider moral today.

How do we know that AIDS was not passed on from a woman into the gay community? There are a substantail number of men who are closet homosexuals. Dare i say, if any section of people would be to blame for the spreading of AIDS it would be those hypocrites who lead a double life.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
WMD wrote:
ZEB wrote:
We have seen that there is no reason to sanction gay marraige in this country. We began the debate on the Bible and it went from there into other areas, namely tradition, science, politics etc.

I now see that the debate is veering back to the Bible. The same old falsehoods which were thrown out early in the thread and refuted are being dusted off and thrown back in the mix.

You want to get back to the Bible…okay if you wish.

WMD wrote:

Think on this: When the Temple in Jerusalem was destroyed in 70 by the
Romans, it made many of the holiness and observation rules in Leviticus moot. Thus people are not condemned for not going to the Temple to make sacrifice and atonement, because there is no Temple. Also it would seem that other aspects of the holiness code are no longer applicable, like eating shellfish, wearing cloth of two different materials, shaving the hair around the temples, touching menstruating women, etc. Why is it then that homosexuals continue to be condemned by Christians? Where is the verse that says “Choose 1 from column A and 2 from column B and thou shalt be holy”? When did it become okay for all you moral absolutists to pick and choose which aspects of Biblical law to follow?

I look forward to your response.

WMD

You have gotten caught before trying to pit the Old Testament against the New Testament. It was pointed out quite clearly exactly where homosexuality has been forbidden in the New Testament.

You don’t like the answer but it’s very clear. Allow me to post them again for you:

Rom 1:26
Rom 1:31
1 Cor 6:9
Col 3:5
1 Tim 1:10
2 Tim 3:3

The above are six direct scriptual passages which speak against homosexuality! I know you don’t like them you want to twist and turn their meaning, and will try no doubt. However, that never works.

Now let me ask you a question:

where in the New Testament does the Bible promote homosexuality? If it was an accepted practice then you would think that it would be found somewhere.

Marriage is mentioned in over 60 Bible verses in the New Testament. Not one time do any of theme ever refer to a someone marrying another of the same gender. However there are many that refer to one man one woman! That in addition to the “anti-homosexual” passages listed above makes a pretty clear case aginst homosexual marriage, based upon the Bible.

All you have to do is be logical. Christ spoke of repenting from your sin. Sex outside of marriage was considered sin. Do you think that he or any of the Apostles would have promted sex between two people of the same gender? Especially in light of the fact that there was no “gay marriage?”

Your arguments for gay marriage are weak to begin with. When you bring the Bible into the argument you lose even more points.

Now, could we get back to debating homosexal marriage aside from the Bible?

If homosexuality was such a hot issue, why does Jesus never speak of it?

This is almost the standard line for all those who really really want the Bible to be pro homosexuality. However, it holds no weight!

Why didn’t Jesus speak of pedophiles?

Why didn’t Jesus speak of date rape?

Why didn’t Jesus speak of bestiality?

Why didn’t Jesus speak of a hundred things that were considered sins?
I think it probably had something to do with not spending time on the obvious!

However we do have many scriptural references which denounce homosexuality. I’ll post them again for you since you seemed to ignore them last time around:

Rom 1:26
Rom 1:31
1 Cor 6:9
Col 3:5
1 Tim 1:10
2 Tim 3:3

Again, (as I stated in my last post) why would Jesus promote an activity which was obviously outside of marriage when in fact it was sin to even have sex with someone of the opposite sex outside of marriage.

Think girl think!

What we have seen is that you espouse and support a profound misunderstanding of scripture and pretty much every thing I have ever written.

No, actually your desire to want gay marriage to be a long standing accepted practice has made you blind to the reality of the scriptures, or you are playing a game.

The Bible offers no definitions of marriage, merely some examples.

Mark 10:6,7,8,9:

“But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one. Therefore what God has joined together let no man separate.”

The above seems pretty darn clear to me. There are other verses just as powerful, do you want them?

Now show me where Jesus speaks about a “man leaving his father and mother and being joined with another man.” No, I guess you can’t show me that verse because it does not exist. And nothing even close to that exists!

Where are all those “pro-homosexual” verses you were going to come up with?

You can’t even see modern stable gay couples; am I to be surprised you can’t see them in the Bible?

If you are alleging that there are specific examples of the Bible (specifically the New Testament, after Christs arrival-as that is the subject) touting homosexual relationships I think you need to post the exact scripture which states that specifically.

Just as I have posted the specific anti-homosexual language in the New Testament. And then pointed out how Jesus Christ talks about marriage between one man and one woman.

Again, and maybe for the 4th time, please post some scripture which states that homosexuality was well accepted.

My explanations of your sin (meaning to err or go astray) regarding your misunderstanding of scripture go completely unnoticed by you. YOu are nothing if not consistent. You can post your misunderstandings all day long; they remain misunderstandings.

Firstly, you failed (miserably I might add) to point out even one inconsistencey in what I have posted regarding the Bible. The fact that you want there to be an acceptance of a practice that was simply not accepted is a very large blind spot for you! And for that I’m sorry.

When you can read Greek and Hebrew, get back to me. Not that it will make any difference. Your own prejudice places the scales on your eyes and you cannot see the truth.

I can read some Greek and some Hebrew. However, the good part is I don’t have to! I can rely on the thousands of qualified Biblical interpreters who have dedicated their lives to the interpretation of ancient scriptures.

Very well intended men and women have looked closely at the ancient texts. Are they all narrow minded? Everyone one of them? Or are you wrong? Hmm…I know which way I’m leaning :slight_smile:

I will remind you once again that every single credible interpretation of the Bible agrees that those six verses posted above are “anti-homosexual behavior.” Do you want me to post the many, many Bible interpretations, or do you want to check back with a former post that I have written which mentions many of them.

You are the one out in the cold with your pro homosexual biased interpretations. It’s okay to be politically correct in the modern world. You can make all sorts of organizations become “pro gay” through the twisting and turning of “what’s fair” in a modern society. But you just can’t do that with the Bible. I know that bothers you and those who want to twist the scripture. However, everytime they try they will fail, just as you have done on this thread!

Your reasons for being against gay marriage are weak and lame. You know nothing about gay people or homosexuality, beside what you have read on truly dubious websites, such as Focus on the Family.

Well time to face facts: No one knows why people are gay! Maybe we need to find that out first huh?

You assert that gay marriage will turn society on it’s head without a shred of evidence.

(clears throat) for the last time, I am not the one who needs “evidence.” You are the one who needs to make a compelling argument as to why gay marriage should be allowed. The fact that over 70% of the populace (77% in a Texas vote recently) are against gay marriage is because your side has not given any compelling reasons why this practice should be sanctioned.

They have failed, just as you have on this thread to give quality reasons why gay marriage needs to be sanctioned.

You assert that marriage is a 5000 year old institution, as though there was no marriage prior to say the appearance of Egypt and Sumer and as though marriage has not undergone many evolutions in that time. Your understanding of social history is superficial at best.

I do know that changing a 5000+ year old institution for about 1% of the population without good reasons given is a bad idea. And since you have given no compelling evidence to the contrary the status quo should not change.

I figure that you are not the person you claim to be. You seem weak and easily threatened by people that have never caused you any harm.

Thank you for being consistent! The Queen of mean takes the debate to a personal level once again (old but still funny).

If you can’t win the debate on facts (and you have none), then attack personally. Are you alone much of the time?

Perhaps you need to study the Bible more closely, especially Matthew Chapters 6 and 7, entire.

Matthew Chapters 6 & 7 do not address homosexuality in any way shape or form. But then you know that (I hope). The inference that we should not judge others is not lost. However, pointing out where the scripture states that homosexuality is wrong, is not a judgement on anyone. It is a Biblical reference made in a debate regarding sinful actions (according to the Bible). You want badly to attach the buzz words of the social left regarding this topic. “Hate” “judgemental” “narrow minded.” But alis none qualify here, at least not to those who have actually read my many posts on the topic.

(By the way that should tell those who are on the fence regarding this topic something. If the social liberals cannot use attack words their argument falls short, as they have no facts!)

The Bible never states that you should hate anyone for committing homosexual acts. Nor does it state you should hate anyone for being a sinner. In fact, the message is contrary to this: love the sinner!

However, Christ does say to turn away from sin-That means repent. Um…don’t do it anymore…Get it yet?

The Bible came back into the argument because of another poster and I responded to him. You simply cannot resist interacting with me. I find your obsession with me scary and unhealthy.

I know you don’t want to debate me on this issue. Seeing the stance that you have taken, I don’t blame you. But, if you post something as erroneous as you have, it simply calls out for a good strong denunciation. That I have done and I’m happy :slight_smile:

The fact that you assume an “obsession” that does not exist based upon our debate on this thread is odd. But then you have to somehow attempt to degrade. After all that is what social liberals do best…when they are losing the argument! Hopefully you are kidding…which by the way missed the mark anyway…

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You are a very perverse fellow, ZEB. You say you can read some Greek and some hebrew, yet you only use one definition of malakoi, when the LSJ presents about five, of which effeminate is the furthest down the list, indicating that it is the least used meaning. You say qadesh means man but Strongs Hebrew Concordance 6945 lists it as male temple prostitute, in Egyptian myth she is listed as a minor syncretized deity imported from Syria, the city of Qadesh meant holy one or holy ground (because it was a sacred site to the Hittites), so apparently it can have more than one meaning. The “experts” you rely on are letting their prejudices show through.

I conduct biblical research at the University of Texas. The people who hired me are smarter and more knowledgable on the subject than you. So am I. Most of your objections to gay people and gay marriage are based upon your religious views, which reflect a very rigid and mistaken point of view, based further upon centuries of prejudice and misunderstanding. Yes Zeb, I think it is quite possible for those experts you rely on so much for you opinions to be wrong. You know, like how so many people have misunderstandings about steroids and supplements, that would take, ahem, an act of God to change.

This idea you have that you have to provide no evidence for your arguments is really weird. If you have a position, some factual evidence to support it is probably in order, that is, if you really want to make a point.

It’s funny that you accuse me of personal attacks, not that I deny doing so. But you seem to think insulting and belittling my intelligence, lingustic skills and my opinions, are somehow not personal attacks. And your assertion that you don’t hate anybody or judge anybody is hilarious. You have a huge problem with gay people. Be a man and admit it.

You are quite right when you say I don’t want to debate you; it’s like teaching a pig to sing. It is a waste of time. You have made up your mind that there are no other possible interpretations of these scriptures.

The bottom line for me, apart from any Biblical issue, is that your religious beliefs are not my problem. They are not anyone else’s problem but yours. If gay people are citizens of this country, paying taxes, serving in the military or on juries, then they deserve the exact same freedom to choose their partners and have their relationships protected by law. If you think that gay marriage is wrong, then don’t enter into a gay marriage. No one is trying to make you gay. Neither you nor all the other people who agree with you have a right to interfere, approve, disapprove or anything else. It is none of your business who marries who. It shouldn’t even be put to a vote. It should just be a given that all our citizens are treated the same. Don’t tell me they have the same rights, since it is quite obvious they do not.

Your obsession with me is almost cute.

Almost.

WMD

[quote]terribleivan wrote:
fatsensei wrote:
Ahhh liberals. This is probably a poor attitude but I really hope that on judgement day when you are trying to explain to God why being a homosexual is ok that I can be there. It’ll be a hoot.

FatSensei

I’m with you FatSensi. I can’t help but pity all these guys out here that think this behavior is normal.

I’m just glad I don’t work out at the same gym. I’d have to start showering at home.[/quote]

pansy…

It will be Christ who judges us all. Not me, not you, not our government. Say its wrong, but say it with love. Your turning people off. Nobody wants to hear how terrible a sinner they are. Wouldn’t you rather hear, “Yea, ya screwed up, by I love you anyway?”

No not really. If I was driving off of a cliff I would want someone to shout really really loud: YOU ARE DRIVING OFF A CLIFF STOP!

But Zeb, what if you are the only one who percieves that I am driving off a cliff? Peoples perceptions of reality differ.

It says that no matter how you try to say that something is wrong, based upon the Bible, or any other criteria, you will be attacked, and it will be personal.

I agree. Why make it your problem and modus operandi however?

So much for your understanding and kindness for another view on this topic.

What does this mean exactly? You sound more and more like a wolf in sheeps clothing all the time Zeb. You chastise those that are for and against you. Smacks a little of the inquisition. That certainly spread the love of Christ very well.

YOUR DRIVING OFF A CLIFF ZEB!

This time the Queen of mean begins with a personal attack! You never disappoint.

You seem to want to pick and choose which meaning to use. It has been explained time and again by people with much more knowledge of the language and the Bible than you or I. “Malakoi” does mean “soft.” It also means “effeminate.”

Further, it was used as a derogatory term for homosexual (the word used today). No different than certain words of today are used in a derogatory fashion to describe homosexuals: “fairy” “limpwrist” “faggot” etc. Now if “fairy” means “imaginary being” it can’t possibly have any other meaning in a derogatory sense can it? Of course it can!

You only see what you want to see. You have an obvious agenda. And unfortunately you discount the thousands of Biblical experts who have determined the above to be correct. And every single credible Bible translation agrees that the word “Malakoi” is indeed a direct reference to “homosexual.”

Tell me, does one definition of a word negate other definitions? Was it not you who just stated that one certain word had up to five meanings?

What about the city in PA called “Intercourse?” Does that now mean that the word “intercourse” does not mean “to have sex with someone” simply because it is the name of a City?

You are smarter than me? That may be the case. However, on this thread you have certainly not proven it!

(By the way, when someone resorts to "I’m smarter than you na na na na na, does it help their argument?)

You really have to come to grips with the fact that tens of thousands of Biblical interpreters have come before you. And I’m guessing are probably much smarter than you and I. They gave us every legitimate Biblical translation that we have today.

And in every single legitimate interpretation homosexuality is condemned! I know social liberals like yourself are eager to rewrite the Bible. However, you have a very huge mountain to climb in doing so.

You have to cast all of your negative aspersions on translations which include, but are not limited to the following:

New Life Bible, King James, New King James, Standard Version, New Revised Standard, Douay Rheims Bible,
God’s Word Translation, Strong Version
The Darby Translation, Hebrew Names Version, The Webster Bible,
Youngs Literal Translation, The Geneva Bible, Wesley’s New Testament,
World English Bible, The Webster Bible
World Literal Translation, Latin Vulgate Bible, The Emphasized Bible and hundreds of other interpretations.

Are you going to claim that every single Biblical scholar was a homophobe? Hey, there may have been a few, but all of them? LOL

You are indeed a funny person. :slight_smile:

YOU ARE going to claim that every single Biblical scholar was a homophobe! WOW!

And by the way, I have repeatedly stated that I oppose gay marriage for several reasons, many unrelated to my Biblical beliefs. Scroll back several pages and take another look. Pay attention!

I would believe that some people could be wrong about some things. No one is infallible, including you and I. However, unlike steroids, which have only been around in active use maybe 30 or so years, the scriptures have been studied for about 2000 years! For every single Biblical interpreter to be wrong year after year, decade after decade, millennium after millennium seems not only unlikely, but ridiculous! I’m am going to play a hunch here, go out on a limb and claim that you are wrong.

You are a modern day social liberal who is trying to rewrite certain passages of the Bible to fit an agenda, and it won’t work.

This is possibly the most inacurate paragraph that you have posted (that is saying a lot considering)! I have given volumes of “evidence” based upon the works of thousands of men and women through the ages!

You my dear are the one with scant evidence. In fact, I’m still waiting for all of those pro homsexual verses in the Bible. Where are they?

I’m also still waiting for a legitimate non-Biblical argument to be posted as to why gay marriage is a good idea.

You refuse to accept facts, logic, history or anything else other than your own personal pro homosexual agenda.

Let’s put this in it’s proper context: When you pit your skills and experience against the myriad of others who came before you who have reached the opposite opinion, that’s when I question your knowledge!

That you take this as an insult is wrong minded. Not unlike your stance on homosexuality and the Bible.

More negative personal assertions from the queen of mean. There is nothing in any post that I have ever written on this thread or any other that is hateful to gay people.

Furthermore, it is par for the course that you would attempt this sort of argument. When social liberals lose the argument they always attack the person. I think it’s in your play book. Either that or you cannot understand that someone can have a conflicting opinion without “hating.” That would be astounding. Especially given your very high postion at the University. One would think such a highly educated individual would be smarter than that…

More insults, now who would have guessed? :slight_smile:

You are right about one thing: I have made up my mind regarding the Biblical interpretations regarding homosexuality. However, it was not without much reading and study.

I have decided to go with (here it comes again) the tens of thousands of credible Biblical scholars who have determined that the ancient scriptures denounces homosexuality. Not simply because they say so, but because I have personally cross referenced every single passage on homosexuality in the Bible and found them (not you) to be correct!

At some point you too will have to admit that the new twist that the pro homosexual crowd is trying to put on the scriptures is a total fraud. You will have to admit it if you have an ounce of integrity.

[quote]The bottom line for me, apart from any Biblical issue, is that your religious beliefs are not my problem.
They are not anyone else’s problem but yours.[/quote]

Actually, I think the “problem” is your own my dear. Think about it.

Your logic is off…again. Polygamists pay taxes and are citizens of the USA why is their marriage not sanctioned by the government? Why don’t they deserve the same rights “to choose their partners and have their relationships protected by law?”

If your criteria above is the only important criteria then why cannot we accept adult incest into our culture as well? Are they not tax paying citizens of the US? Don’t they deserve to freely choose their partners?

Once again your logic falls short. Once again you give no legitimate reasons to sanction homosexual marriage!

That is the most important thing for readers to note. One more pro homosexual marriage post and still no legitimate reasons to sanction homosexual marriage.

[quote]If you think that gay marriage is wrong, then don’t enter into a gay marriage. No one is trying to make you gay. Neither you nor all the other people who agree with you have a right to interfere, approve, disapprove or anything else. It is none of your business who marries who.
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This was the logic used by the South in order to keep slaves: "If you don’t like slavery then don’t own a slave.
“You don’t have the right to interfere with those who want to own a slave.”

The social liberals of today want the general populace to disengage and let it happen. Just as the South urged the North to mind their own business in these matters. However, there is something more important at stake just as there was then. It’s about culture, and a way of life. And yes, right and wrong.

The logic for those wanting slavery was faulty then and the same logic being applied here by WMD in favor of gay marriage is faulty now!

In all candor, there continues to be no legitimate argument for gay marriage.

[quote]btm62 wrote:
But Zeb, what if you are the only one who percieves that I am driving off a cliff? Peoples perceptions of reality differ.[/quote]

Just because I am the only one who perceives it does not make it untrue!

Forgive me if I misinterpreted your little poem by Emily Dickinson. However, it did start off with “I had no time to hate.” When we are discussing gay marriage it is always (and I mean ALWAYS) the pro gay marriage stance to accuse the other side of being hateful simply because we take the opposing view.

[quote]Beauzo wrote:
Question: If being gay is “biological”, and therefore some “has no choice, but to be gay”, how would propagation of a species happen?

.[/quote]
Because only a VERY small % of people are gay. That’s how our species would continue.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
btm62 wrote:
But Zeb, what if you are the only one who percieves that I am driving off a cliff? Peoples perceptions of reality differ.

Just because I am the only one who perceives it does not make it untrue! [/quote]

Philosophically true, but equally true as stated.

You sound more and more like a wolf in sheeps clothing all the time Zeb. You chastise those that are for and against you. Smacks a little of the inquisition.

Forgive me if I misinterpreted your little poem by Emily Dickinson. However, it did start off with “I had no time to hate.” When we are discussing gay marriage it is always (and I mean ALWAYS) the pro gay marriage stance to accuse the other side of being hateful simply because we take the opposing view.

The poem was not meant as an attack. Merely a poem I like that I felt was appropriate. I understand your views on the “other side” of the issue, but it does not mean that those of us who hold gay marriage to be wrong need to stoop to the same level. If you think about it, some of their points are every bit as valid as yours when confined to mankind’ limited understanding and logic capabilities. Then we come along and argue based on faith and to our small minds it really becomes an exercise in futulity. That was my point, at some point we need to stop treating the symptoms and treat the cause. Gay marriage is a symptom of sin. 90% of my day is symptom of sin. We need to strive to be more like the Teacher. Would he shun people or love them? They are just like us. People. Sinners. Our command, and Christ said, “The greatest command is this, to love one another as I have loved you.” I hardly think that can be taken out of context. So, they, the gay marriage folk, have heard our thoughts on the matter. Now stop beating them with it and move on to love and understanding. You’ve told them they’re driving off the cliff, the did it anyway. What can you do to help now? Just keep telling them that you told them to not drive off the cliff?

Peace.

[quote]Jimmy Tango wrote:
Um, anyone who treats people for AIDS worth his or her salt would first answer the question, “How did HIV get into humans?” long before wondering about the gay population.
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No sport, you would look at the first human and determine the mode of transition first. That is where you would get into the lifestyle thing. The “gay” thing has nothing to do with it. It would be the mode of transmission; vector, direct contact with blood, etc…

Your objection is baseless.

Well, first, because of the colon’s absorption capabilities is the reason for it being a primary route of infection. Why do you think a number of medications are administered by suppository? Duh! Time to open your eye my friend.

Next, it could be true that a concurrent exposure occurred in heteros and is just spread exponentially slower because it is not spread through vaginal sex. That “could” be true if we didn’t already have documented cases of this occurring, which we do. The primary source of AIDS in woman (except for blood transfusions) is through vaginal sex with a gay man.

So although this is not consistent with current research on the issue, I will say that it could occur because much is still not known about this virus.

I don’t recall saying that it came from gay men having sex with monkeys. Perhaps that is your own idea?

Dude, the CDC is a well respected authority on disease. You trying to slam them just shows your pathetic lack of information and understanding on the issue.

I guess any source, no matter how credible, would be bogus to you if you didn’t agree with the outcome. Sad!

[quote]btm62 wrote:
ZEB wrote:

Forgive me if I misinterpreted your little poem by Emily Dickinson. However, it did start off with “I had no time to hate.” When we are discussing gay marriage it is always (and I mean ALWAYS) the pro gay marriage stance to accuse the other side of being hateful simply because we take the opposing view.[/quote]

The poem was not meant as an attack. Merely a poem I like that I felt was appropriate. I understand your views on the “other side” of the issue, but it does not mean that those of us who hold gay marriage to be wrong need to stoop to the same level.[/quote]

I agree and have tried not to, occasionally failing.

Sorry, can’t agree here. While they do have points, I have not seen any “valid” ones for gay marriage.

My arguments (if you followed the entire thread) are not “only” based upon faith.

I am well aware that not one person who is debating the pro gay marriage side of things will be changed by my (or anyone else’s) posts.

I am speaking to a larger audience. That is, those young impressionable minds who read this thread. I think they deserve to at least read the other side. We live in a culture which nods it’s okay to just about everything. Some have never heard of the othre side of the issue.

I totally agree!

[quote]So, they, the gay marriage folk, have heard our thoughts on the matter. Now stop beating them with it and move on to love and understanding. You’ve told them they’re driving off the cliff, the did it anyway. What can you do to help now? Just keep telling them that you told them to not drive off the cliff?

Peace.
[/quote]

I’m simply involved in a debate with whomever decides to post. It’s an Internet forum you know. New people are jumping in all the time and others are leaving. And some are in and out.

As far as “beating them with it” I think you are wrong. I’m simply posting my thoughts just as they are. Are they “beating me with it?” I hardly think of it that way. No hate speech on my end, no harm done. In fact, maybe some good done. I’ll continue to post as long as it interests me and the good moderators allow it.

Take care,

Zeb

In all candour, there continues to be no legitimate argument for not extending the same rights to any two people, regardless of their sex.

Call it marriage, call it a civil union, call it what you will, the relationship between two women or two men should have the same legal mechanisms as are in place to protect a relationship between one woman and one man.

Religion needs to step out of this fight because the legal benefits of marriage are not granted by the Church. They are granted by the State. Religious marriage is only made LEGAL when it is honoured by the laws of a society–not the law of a God, even if every member of that society strictly adheres to the tenets of a single Faith.

Religions have the autonomy of belief, but mere belief-systems in themselves must pass themselves through the scrutiny of a judiciary system. The government does not allow Born-Again Christians to evolve on the battlefield–if Jesus or Buddha or A Really Big Snow Cone comes to a soldier in the middle of a battle, and that soldier conscientiously chooses then to object to killing the enemy and so disobeys a direct order, he/she will be court-martialled and most likely found guilty.

Religion does not take priority over Law in contemporary Society, except in special cases where Law has made prior exceptions to Religion. And that must be the way in any polytheistic nation-state, or chaos/tyranny will ensue–just look at how difficult a time Iraq has had with their constitution. Law must supersede Religion in practical matters.

The point about comparing polygamy to homosexuality is also irrelavent when it comes to extending rights and priviledges, for polygamy in itself is a gross abuse of the equality that legally sanctioned unions are supposed to be protecting.

In other words, in a legalized union, there is supposed to be equality, a sharing of all resources, but how is it possible to begin ensuring that all members of a polygamous marriage are protected equally if the relationship is hinged upon one point (usually the lone male) with all other parties (usually multiple women of varying ages, appearances, abilities, etc.) held together by this one, and therefore more inherently valuable, male “linch-pin”?

No, polygamy by it’s very definition is not about equality at all and therefore cannot possibly be equated to any monogamous relationship (homosexual or otherwise).

The only argument counter to gay marriage even moderately defensible, IMHO, is that it breaks with tradition. And that is an ever-sinking ship unless more solid, objective rationale can be found to buoy the value of tradition.

Simply put, I have yet to hear anything of a non-subjective nature used well in the case against homosexuality in general, let alone gay marriage.