[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]horsepuss wrote:
Im dealing with a situation like this right now.My wife got laid off december of 08, she then started some schooling and collecting unemployment.She was on cobra for a while but it was expensive so she discontinued.My insurance at work has open enrolement every june and we waived adding her then because it is 400 dollars a month as opposed to 76 for just me.
Well in october she got pregnant with no insurance.Since then I have tried everything to get her added on to my insurance because my program doesnt consider pregnancy a pre existing condition but they turned us down because its not during the enrolement window.
We have tried to look into getting state assistance but apparently I make to much money which is news to me.She is now interning at a dentist but there insurance program considers pregnancy a pre existing condition.
So fuck us, we were both born in this country and have never commited a felony or anything close, we pay our taxes and doing everything we are supposed to but hey we got pregnant without it being planned so we are shit out of luck.The shitty thing is and this is gonna piss alot of you off but I dont care, if we were mexican or some unemployed african americans on welfare we wouldnt be paying for shit, most likely we would be getting grants and sent to college.[/quote]
I understand your frustration but what I don’t understand is your logic. How is it that you did “everything you were supposed to”? First, you and your wife made a conscious decision to go uninsured. You decided to accept a risk. Next, you again, of your own collective volition, decided to go uninsured yet again when you skipped the open enrollment period at your job. You had an “unplanned” pregnancy. Frankly, I don’t see much difference there than some border jumper or teenager getting pregnant. You know you have sex correct? I assume no contraception, or reliable contraception was in play correct? I think all of the foregoing is indisputable, yet you claim you do “everything you were supposed to”. So let’s sum it up: twice you made a decision not to insure your wife. You had unprotected sex and she became pregnant (sincere congratulations - circumstances notwithstanding). Now you are reaping the result of the risk you knowlingly accepted on TWO ocassions.
What am I missing?[/quote]
My post was premeditated.I know what youre saying BG and you Vegita and youre outlook on my case is much the same on how I feel about Haiti.They could have created capitolism, free market trade and jobs creating revenue and income throughout there country which would have created funding and allowing them to create Earthquake worthy buildings, Right?