[quote]Joe Pears wrote:
[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
Nice to see you Cortez.
Aragorn, this may make you feel a little bit better. There’s a lot of good out there.
I got to see a miracle this weekend.
A little girl I evaluated was born with a very large cyst in her brain. This cyst was visible on ultrasound before birth, and if you can picture, it took up about 1/3 of her brain area. It’s inoperable. It looked like her occipital lobe was almost completely obliterated, along with some of the surrounding structures.
So, her parents knew when she was still in the womb that this baby was very likely going to have some profound challenges. We expected blindness at the least, and very likely profound physical and mental disability. Of course, we all wondered if she would survive and if she’d ever walk or talk.
I evaluated her at about 15 months, and she could see! She was doing quite well, but wasn’t yet walking or talking. It was one of those, “we’ll have to wait and see” situations, which is really a hard place for a parent to be. Shortly afterward, the family moved to another state.
Flash forward. I got to see her again last weekend. She’s now about 4 years old. She not only has good vision, but she’s running around and talking much like any child her age. As I walked up, she said, “Shhh! (holding her index finger to her lips) Be quiet! The baby is sleeping.” I’m still just completely in awe. It will go down as one of the most beautiful moments in my life.
The human brain is an incredibly plastic and adaptable thing. I will never think about this without feeling immense gratitude that I got to meet that amazing little person and her lovely parents. And I guess now I can be grateful that that woman from Planned Parenthood never got her hands on her.
That’s all I’m going to say about that.
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That is a beautiful story. But how many of those cases turn out like that? Does this one case mean women should not be able to have access to abortions? [/quote]
I think you’re asking my opinion?
From a legal and public policy standpoint - In cases where there is a medical condition that threatens either the life of the mother, or the life of the unborn child, then prospective parents should make those difficult decisions with their medical provider. Abortion for the sake of birth control when everybody involved is healthy, violates my code of ethics.
From a personal standpoint - I was extremely grateful to see this miraculous little person, and to know her courageous parents, who choose to let her be born, despite some pretty frightening facts. This had all the makings of a tragic story, and so it was an especially sweet thing to see.
BTW, if you assume I am saying this from a professional distance, with the luxury of not knowing what it’s like to raise a profoundly handicapped child, you’d be mistaken.