[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
You were telling me what was important to me, which is a presumption on your part. No butthurt, just facts.[/quote]
Presumption v observation… I made an observation based on my perception, you confirmed it as accurate.
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Yes, and according to you, everything is hunkydory. [/quote]
Um no, I believe I have said more than once the system isn’t perfect, and you and others have very legitimate complaints about certain issues. Try and keep up/
How do I know your stories arent’ fairy tales?
See how easy that is? Rather than address that actual point, let’s just keep trying to discredit the person stating the point. This is so much fun, and such a productive conversation this way… YEAH!
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And how exactly did I do that? Your point was that all I care about was the money. My point is that it is massively fucked up that a man should be trapped into paying for someone else’s kid, because to the system, he is less important than the kid. [/quote]
No. My point is all you care about is you. Your money, your rights, your feelings, whether it is your child. You, You You. All you care about is you.
When you have kids, you will understand that you are less important. Not because the system says so, but because you are. If you are a real man, which I firmly believe you are, or will be some day, when you hold your child in your arms, you will know what I mean. You don’t matter anymore.
And I laid out a couple of situations where a real man, any man with conviction, integrity and the balls to be an adult, will provide for the child, his by blood or not. Why you think that is massively fucked up, I don’t know. You seem stuck on your buddie’s situations, like they are 100% innocent and being screwed by the man, when I doubt that very much.
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And apparently, once someone else has kids that aren’t mine and decieves me into believing that they are mine, I also become less important, because that is what this discussion is about: paternity testing and men being forced by the government to pay for children that are not theirs. But I can’t possibly understand that, because I don’t have kids! lol! [/quote]
If you aren’t the father, you get a lawyer, and fight it. You will win and the legal costs now will be far less than the costs of raising a child.
If your are lied to by a whore of a woman and find out after raising the child for a decade that it isn’t yours, you pay for the fucking kid, or get custody. If you want to skip out on that child because in your mind it is massively fucked up you actually have to continue to parent a child that isn’t your blood but still your child at that point, well then I don’t know what to tell you.
What you don’t understand are the costs of having kids. You don’t get it. You don’t understand the costs emotionally, financially and physically. And if you read what I posted I believe those were the area’s I mentioned you don’t get. You aren’t smart enough to twist my words to try and discredit my points by discrediting me, it isn’t going to work. Address my points, not the person making them.
I never said that, but again, nice try at discrediting me rather than my points.
I would be back pedaling the fuck out of this thread if I were you too. Smart move.
Big reason why you are awesome.