[quote]Nadia Comeandeat wrote:
Oh, I want to play defend tax guy! As far as my clients go, he’s a winner.
Let’s see. First point is easy. He is not responsible for his cheating friend. You can’t “make” someone cheat. He’s looking out for his buddy here. I could overlook that. Not a deal breaker.
The fat girl story is tougher. By way of positives, he had the opportunity for casual meaningless sex and opted out. Are you SURE he opted out because he was “disappointed” with her naked figure. That doesn’t sound right? Perhaps he couldn’t go through with it because he realized he just had no feelings for her. Maybe he said he was disappointed with himself. (yes, I’m trying to undermine your credibility as a reporter–it’s a dirty job!).
Also, when did this allege kick out the unfuckable fat girl incident occur…this was recent? If it’s a story from his past, well part of loving someone is knowing their past misdeeds and forgiving them for them. People can change you know. The actions of a young man do not often fairly or dispositively define that man’s true character.
What else do I got? Hmm. Let’s see–he’s a total dumb fuck. What a stupid story tell a woman you are dating. Hilarious. Second, he appears to bore you when he talks. That’s not the best sign.
Don’t settle in any regard–if you’re looking for a life partner–keep in mind a life sentence is a very long one.
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Challenge accepted.
Correct, he cannot make his friend cheat, but he can attempt to push him into it, he can allow his friend to cheat without raising one objection. You can honestly overlook the fact that by his own admission he “got his friend to cheat?” He by his own admission cheapened and tarnished what should be sacred, you could overlook this? This attitude towards a solemn oath is not something that ought to be overlooked.
Regarding the fat girl thing, you are right, we dont know all the details, what we know is what he said, and what he said is “lololol she was hideous I kicked her out.” With the facts we know, it can be inferred that he thinks he is quite the hilarious bro, who doesnt know how to treat and/or talk to a woman.