[quote]cholulalula wrote:
I was going to wait to post because of this trying to think before I speak nonsense–but NO, patch. NO NO NO NO NO. Alcohol is not an excuse for that. I know I have overly idealistic morals, but it is not ok that A) he told you the story about getting a friend to cheat on his future wife (how will you feel every time he goes out with these friends?) and B) that he told you he took the ‘fat girl’ home. There are so many things wrong with that sentence I don’t even know where to begin. And what, does he think you’re one of his buddies he can boast his conquests to?
That does not show respect. You are a fantastic girl Patch, do not make excuses for him.
Agreed Spock-hearing shit like this is why I have like, zero trust right now. zero.
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Oh Lula, I know, that’s why two days later it still bothered me. I’m occasionally the fat girl. Can you imagine how she must have felt? But then, honestly I’m starting to think perfect just isn’t going to happen. I’m 30 soon, and this dinner for one thing isn’t what I want. I guess I need to actually make an effort and date more. I don’t think I have unrealistic expectations. I really just want intelligent, athletic and nice. Does that exist though? He doesn’t have to be PhD smart, just athletic enough to not think I’m insane, but he does have to be help old ladies across the street nice. I need to make a point to flirt back when flirted with.
Getting to deep for a workout log. Let’s have a cat picture.
[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
I liked the pic in sama Peaches, the pink was awesome colour on you.
As for the guy? :-/ I don’t know. Kind of hard to say. Red flag maybe? [/quote]
Thanks VS!
Yeah, red flag for sure. Maybe you want to crawl in my window, drug me and take me home? My hip mobility is good, I could probably learn to be an expert with a strap on.
He helped get a friend to cheat on his about to be wife out of spite?
Done. Tell him to GTFO (while remaining a true lady, show him how it is supposed to be).[/quote]
If he asks me out again I’m going to tell him how what he said made me feel, then say my my friend Dixie is hugely disappointed in the way he’s representing his gender. Our conversation today really got me thinking, thanks for that perspective.
It’s really weird, and I’m worried that the small is going to overtake and sabotage my goals, it has before. When I feel small I sometimes feel like I can get away with eating more. So not true. I need to be self aware about that. I want to get rid of a little more waist before I work on adding anything anywhere.
EDIT: I attached the pic, because I haven’t fit in this shirt since the last time I started feeling small.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
YEAH SEE ^^^ This is why reading SAMA is making me bitter and why I find it really hard to like/trust men right now.[/quote]
Please don’t judge men (or women for that matter) from SAMA. That place is akin to the land of the broken toys (I guess that’s not too different from most GAL posts though…).
james
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Spocky follow James around a bit, he’s a good example.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
YEAH SEE ^^^ This is why reading SAMA is making me bitter and why I find it really hard to like/trust men right now.[/quote]
Please don’t judge men (or women for that matter) from SAMA. That place is akin to the land of the broken toys (I guess that’s not too different from most GAL posts though…).
james
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Well I do really like all the powerlifting dudes that answer my never ending stream of stupid questions, haha. They all seem like real good men.
BUT, at the same time, I often train around the football team and they talk like the nitwits from SAMA, so you never really know what you’re gonna get, I guess.
I think it’s that the douche to good man ratio isn’t as balanced as I’d like. [/quote]
Hiya Spock. As james said, most of the stuff in SAMA is just those lacking maturity and basic social skills trying to impress and one-up each other. It doesn’t reflect the broader reality. If you take immature douche tendencies and add a keyboard to the mix it gets ridiculous.
I took SAMA off my log in preferences long ago. No return on my time investment.
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Oh hey there. What’s with the shorts in the avi? You have nothing tighter? Or you know, nothing is also an option.
[quote]Hallowed wrote:
DEF Matchy Matchy NOT extra sexy but nice and sweet… maybe a lil lace. And stick to a full coverage bikini or boy short for the panties.
YAY DECORATIONS!!![/quote]
Went with matchy matchy in a really bright color. It looks appalling as is, but works well with my skin (I think?) I couldn’t find matchy boy shorts. Just these two. I’m thinking the stripes, maybe the lace if I feel daring (it’s not a thong).
Now to spend friday night at the gym.
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The Lacie. I have those in that color! YAY. ABSO BEAUTIFUL pic in TVix you are Smoking and these decorations are SO Yay!![/quote]
The master of decorations likes mine! I can die happy now!
[quote]Hallowed wrote:
DEF Matchy Matchy NOT extra sexy but nice and sweet… maybe a lil lace. And stick to a full coverage bikini or boy short for the panties.
YAY DECORATIONS!!![/quote]
Went with matchy matchy in a really bright color. It looks appalling as is, but works well with my skin (I think?) I couldn’t find matchy boy shorts. Just these two. I’m thinking the stripes, maybe the lace if I feel daring (it’s not a thong).
Now to spend friday night at the gym.
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The Lacie. I have those in that color! YAY. ABSO BEAUTIFUL pic in TVix you are Smoking and these decorations are SO Yay!![/quote]
The master of decorations likes mine! I can die happy now![/quote]
LULZ!!!
DECORATIONS FOR LIFE.
DECORATIONS FOR WIN.
Winning!
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
LOl, well we all know you’re awesome Print!
Houstonguy makes me want to vomit.
I like all the O35 dudes I think. It would be weird and random to start posting in all their logs though, ha-ha.[/quote]
Peaches Carpet Bombs in here so I will too.
Did you see where I called him a douchebag in that thread where he told some dude to “use a fatty” LOL? I didn’t DIRECTLY CALL HIM A DOUCHE… but I think I hurt his little feeling.
I was going to continue the conversation (which by the way i HEAR you. finding said solemate=fucking exhausting), but in the end decided to just post this picture.
oh and p.s. i had to go hunt for the picture i kept hearing about. pink? yes, most definitely your color!
& let me just say this about the man issues. You ladies need to remember that you’re strong, intelligent, independent women. Some men are just not capable of handling that many different levels of sexiness.
