[quote]Bill Roberts wrote:
LankyMofo wrote:
Bill Roberts wrote:
You seem to be ignoring that your statement really is, “Let the law force others to give them benefits, out of their own pocket, that they don’t now choose to do.”
Any party that now voluntarily WANTS to provide these benefits can do so already.
You’re really all about forcing others to do what they don’t choose to do (in cases where they don’t) over and above mutually and voluntarily agreed employment arrangements, or other such similar situations.
Not about “letting” gays do something they now can’t.
But again, phrasing it that way doesn’t play as well. So I would hardly expect those arguing for this to couch it in terms of forcing others to do against their voluntary choice, which it really is, when they can recast it as “letting” gays “get benefits” which sounds so much better.
Employers offer benefits (like you said) at their own will. If gay people get married they will then receive the benefits from the companies that offer them…at their own will. No one is forcing the companies to pay for benefits in the first place.
No.
The companies offering such benefits have done so with understanding, intent, and application according to the word use as it has been for as many centuries back as the English language has been the English language. And longer than that, if considering etymology.
Where they want to include committed relationships between persons of the same sex, they ALREADY CAN. Doesn’t take a law.
What you and activists in this area want is for companies that had no intention of providing the benefits for anyone other than persons of the opposite sex married according to what has long been the definition of the word, to be forced to do so, or only to be able to escape it by providing the benefit to no one.
Or do you not want them to be forced in this manner?[/quote]
I like how you sidestepped my question.
If we could be positive that gays wanted marriage for the same reasons as straight people, would you still be against it?
You’re using an argument that assumes gay peoples intent. Not only is that presumptuous, it doesn’t give a reason as to why they shouldn’t be allowed.