[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Bricknyce wrote:
I’m surprised no one commented on this post of mine:
It’s also rather juvenile and mean spirited to say more infantile shit like, “Chubby guys get no ass and if they do, it’s from fat, ugly chics.” First off, I know a ton of ordinary AND chubby dudes with women and they don’t give a rat’s ass about a muscle! And second, being ugly isn’t something someone controls and to say that ugly people don’t deserve sex or a relationship IS mean spirited! Anyway, I’ve also seen LOADS of ugly dudes with hot women - and NO, not all - actually hardly any - of these guys are loaded."[/quote]
Brick, anyone with half a brain knows this is merely a marketing ploy to sell V-diet packages. The fitness industry has always tried to sell us this fallacy…that you can’t lay quality women unless you can see your abs. Generally the guys who buy into this belief tend to have a lot more problems than a less than impressive waistline!
TBH I am a fan of a lot of the velocity life stuff CS blogs about… but as you pointed out some of the things he says are flat out wrong like the above mentioned points.[/quote]
I said it before and I’ll say it again: I do like much of what CS has written. I’m just put off by the rather juvenile and MEAN things he’s written, nor do I like him and his woman (in her blog) dismissing the work and credentials of nutrition researchers and dietetics professionals and academicians.
His woman (I don’t know her name) once wrote she has a degree in nutrition and that at the end of the day it means nothing. WELL, maybe nothing for her, but I wouldn’t be employed in dietetics and nutrition without the degree! Neither would all my colleagues!
Same goes for EVERY other field! Do I want someone like Modok sorting out my medicine or during a hospital visit, or some kook who happens to be savvy with the internet, the library, and Pub Med? Do I want PX working on my teeth, or some schmuck who thinks dental hygiene and surgery is as easy as using a pair of pliers and toothbrushes?
Where the notion that formal training and education are worthless came from is beyond me.
I myself am guilty of buying into the “You need ______ to get a woman, and if you’re deficient in ________, you CAN’T get and DON’T DESERVE a woman!” line of bullshit that the media drummed into my head for nearly my entire life.
Foolish thinking!
MOST women don’t give a rat’s ass about a big muscle, and that’s the truth! Sure they like 'em, but they’re far from a prerequisite. (Personal belief.)
Because now that I’m more mature and think of it, I blew quite a few chances with women because of this thinking. When I was laid off once, I met a great woman who liked me, and I made no romantic move forward because I thought to myself, “I can’t offer a woman anything; I’m unemployed.” Months later this woman confessed her feelings towards me and asked, “How come you didn’t do or say anything?” My answer: “I was unemployed; I felt like I wasn’t in the right position to move forward with a woman.” This woman didn’t give a shit and still thought highly of me at the time.
So much for having to be raking in the dough to find a woman… or any other bullshit notion of “You gotta have this, and you gotta have that!” in order to find a woman. I swear to god, there are still times where I have to REPROGRAM my own brain from all the bullshit I’ve been fed in that area of life.