[quote]countingbeans wrote:
This seems like a common issue. People jump into college with this great expectation of living the Animal House life for 4 years, and then having the “american dream” (I know you aren’t american, but best phrase I can think of right now) handed to them with their degree. It is like people think college is going to somehow define them for themselves.
You need to figure out what you want to do with your life, how you want to define yourself, and what it takes for you to be able to look yourself in the mirror everyday.
I knew 3 things going into college
- I was never going to sell out, but was willing to buy in
- I didn’t want to be broke/poor/living paycheck to paycheck like so many around me
- I wanted to help people
I didn’t know what I wanted to do for a career, but I at least had goals and a direction. You don’t have either it seems.
Take some time to figure out broad general directions and goals. Once you have that, and feel good about them, try and bring them into a career path or subject matter that can be useful in getting to those goals. Once you have that, do the whole SMART thing.
I found out I was good at accounting and enjoyed it. Turns out you can work for a small firm, make good money, not be “the man” and help out small business owners who take the risk to live their dreams. I’m a fucking dork, but I feel good deep down everyday I drive home from the office.[/quote]
Yeah I didn’t go into University thinking about the van wilder expereince I just kinda went into it, was like “hey, I liked history in highschool, so I should do that”…then with the help of my dad kinda decided on switching to business with a minor in history and have been jumping between those ever since (throwing in a politcal science joint major), untill I tried the sciences and enjoyed it.
1.) I want a job that I enjoy most of the time and isn’t boring to me. I like to feel important like everybody eles. however, a job that doesn’t consume my life would be nice, I enjoy a lot of hobbies.
2.)no one wants to be broke, I want to spend money on traveling ![]()
3.)I want to help people and interact with people on a daily basis.
I’m just not overly excited on starting a new degree from scratch, without an end goal… if I did health sciences or biochem, even though I enjoy the classes. I’m having a hard time making a decision, everyone seems so risky for me…its a problem in my family for the men atleast we always over think things. I’m really considering taking a year off, something I have never done!! its not like my credits are going anywhere, but the idea is daunting… we always look at the whole picture like every other possiblity of what I could be doing, or career that might be for me, or places I could be. I have the complete opposite problem of people in past generations I have to much freedom and choice in the matter, I want to make the right one.
this stress is really killing my training ![]()