Need Some High-School Dating Tips

no, you don’t. you don’t have to post at all, if you so choose. We’re all free to post as we please, not just as you wish we would. ya know?

Was this thread supposed to be about inspiring you? I missed that memo. I thought you wanted dating tips. not inspiration to want to date.

I’ll address why your shitty sense of humor matters, as it relates to dating, and hopefully fill in the blank you keep missing. You’re telling us over and over again that all that matters is whether YOU find something funny, when you are SHARING IT WITH OTHER PEOPLE. If all that mattered was what you personally find to be funny, you could just look at memes by yourself in your bedroom all day and laugh your ass off. When you decide to share memes, the situation changes. At that point, you are clearly wanting, hoping for, or expecting some sort of reaction from those you’re sharing it with. Sharing a meme is a social exchange. You’re giving something, and if all goes well, you get something in return. A laugh, a smile, whatever.

So your problem with memes is that you’re SHARING memes that aren’t really all that likeable to other people. You have a particular sense of humor that doesn’t really mesh well with most of the world outside of you, and perhaps your circle of friends. When it comes to the dating world, this is significantly lowering your chances of success. A woman wants you to say and do things that make HER laugh, not what makes YOU laugh. Right? That should make sense to you. And that’s not really something you’re accounting for, despite all the feedback you’re getting. Is humor subjective? Ya, of course. But there are some things are more universally looked at as funny than others. If you can manage to figure out what it is that other people laugh at, and start catering your social interactions towards that, you’ll have better social interactions.

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Make myself not stand out? I thought being a default human was bad.

no. being able to make a lot of people laugh is anything but ‘default’. It’s a rare quality.

Default is what you’re doing now: not being able to figure out what’s funny to anyone but yourself. That’s a very, very average quality.

You said humor is subjective so it depends on the person so how should I know? Imagine being able to make every single person in the world laugh.

Dude, you’re not funny. At this point, I think you’re just baiting for responses

Conversations with other humans observe trends.

Meanwhile, only being able to make one person laugh makes you a comedy sniper.

I know what the trendy meme is right now. But it doesn’t make everyone laugh.

I don’t need your stupid input stop commenting your worthless garbage asian jokes on my thread. Begone.

Ha! they’re more than worthless alright, but still funnier than your memes

I didn’t smirk at all.

… it’s a public forum

Life suggestion: go join your school wrestling team and have the shit beat out of you a couple of times.

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What’s your favorite recipe for no bean chili? Ive honestly been curious to try it since I found out it was the OG chili.

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Can someone please explain what’s so magical about chili?

Powerlifting Basics Texas Style by Paul Kelso has some authentic recipes in it. Everyone should read that book at least once.

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I like chili. But its never been magical to me. I’ve only ever had bean chili, though. Maybe I’m missing out on the magic.

Ground beef is on sale this week at Giant eagle and canned tomato sauce is dirt cheap, so I was thinking about making some to celebrate finally getting my damn stent out

AGHHHHH!!! NO!!! This is a thread for high school dating tips! Ugh! I have had it up to HERE with the chili talk! I really am getting fed up with this stuff!

Now you’re actually starting to sound like a dick, dude.

Already did that in middle school. Wrestling team respects me even the head coach. I fist bump him everytime I see him in the hallway. In face he’s letting me go to the weight room tomorrow and it’s usually not open on Wednesdays.

You’re all annoying me and I see you’re doing the chili thing on purpose to annoy me.