Kick the guy in the nads then start punching him in the face until he is messed up. That will put an end to it and bring the guy down a notch or two.
Hey at least your ex didn’t give you two black eyes, then tell the entire town you abuse here… happened to my brother. She also fucked up his sunroof, bitch was crazy, and so are here parents.
[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:
All her friends want to hear is her side. Because they’ve known her longer and are closer to her, they’re not going to hear my opinion which they’ve made clear and at this point it’s just worth it to take the time and energy to make good with them with all the issues I’ve taken notice of in the group.[/quote]
Seems like you’ve been seeing this girl for a while and been ‘adopted’ by her circle of friends. They aren’t really your friends and never really were - they are her friends, not yours. You were only one of them for as long as you and your girl were an item. When she went sour on you, so did they. Judging by their behaviour, they never considered you a friend independently of your girlfriend. In short, fuck em.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Slit her fucking throat?[/quote]
Am I the only one who got a warm and fuzzy feeling in my crotch region at the thought of this idea.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Slit her fucking throat?[/quote]
Yeah!
Shit how bad can this chick be? What’d you do, throw a fucking egg at her?
[quote]JonEightPackGuy wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Slit her fucking throat?[/quote]
Am I the only one who got a warm and fuzzy feeling in my crotch region at the thought of this idea.[/quote]
I just ejaculated
Op should jump her
[quote]roybot wrote:
[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:
All her friends want to hear is her side. Because they’ve known her longer and are closer to her, they’re not going to hear my opinion which they’ve made clear and at this point it’s just worth it to take the time and energy to make good with them with all the issues I’ve taken notice of in the group.[/quote]
Seems like you’ve been seeing this girl for a while and been ‘adopted’ by her circle of friends. They aren’t really your friends and never really were - they are her friends, not yours. You were only one of them for as long as you and your girl were an item. When she went sour on you, so did they. Judging by their behaviour, they never considered you a friend independently of your girlfriend. In short, fuck em.[/quote]
The crazy thing is that she started all this drama when we never were even an item or in any sort of relationship. We never got a into a relationship, all that happened was really awkward sex between us once after about 3 real dates and a couple just hang out togethers over about a month. (she just layed there like a dead fish without giving any signals as to what she did or didn’t like).
At the time she seemed cool so I figured we work around that and improve it so I called her a couple times. No answer back… fine. I approached her very calmly and friendly just to talk a little and try to still be friends, but she said she didn’t feel comfortable talking to me in a really bitchy tone and manner and gave me the cold shoulder and walked off.
That’s when I started ignoring her. After all of this, I’m still cool with that group. But then she starts playing games. Like pretending to be happy to see me, then giving me the cold shoulder kinda thing. After this, along with ignoring her, I made myself very unapproachable to her and ignored not just her shit but all of her.
That’s when she started to seem to get really angry with me… except when we were around that group (she would still give me the evil eye when she thought no one was looking). This went on for a long while and finally I decided she has to be as tired of it as I am so I approached her trying to be polite and civil asking if she wanted the enmity to end like I did. She used it as an opportunity to trash talk to me at which point I overreacted (flicked her off and yelled at her to grow up and get over herself). Now I’m in the situation I’m in.
[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:
The crazy thing is that she started all this drama when we never were even an item or in any sort of relationship. We never got a into a relationship, all that happened was really awkward sex between us once (she just layed there like a dead fish without giving any signals as to what she did or didn’t like).
At the time she seemed cool so I figured we work around that and improve it so I called her a couple times. No answer back… fine. I approached her very calmly and friendly just to talk a little and try to still be friends, but she said she didn’t feel comfortable talking to me in a really bitchy tone and manner and gave me the cold shoulder and walked off.
That’s when I started ignoring her. After all of this, I’m still cool with that group. But then she starts playing games. Like pretending to be happy to see me, then giving me the cold shoulder kinda thing. After this, along with ignoring her, I made myself very unapproachable to her and ignored not just her shit but all of her.
That’s when she started to seem to get really angry with me… except when we were around that group. This went on for a long while and finally I decided she has to be as tired of it as I am so I approached her trying to be polite and civil telling asking if she wanted the enmity to end like I did. She used it as an opportunity to trash talk to me at which point I overreacted (flicked her off and yelled at her to grow up and get over herself). Now I’m in the situation I’m in.[/quote]
Seems like she was trying to force you into reacting in a way that would allow her to take her anger out on you. She’s got some serious emotional baggage and she’s making you carry it to the plane. Didn’t you have buddies before you hooked up with her?
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Unfortunately, no. I started dating her about a month after moving into town. And this group has been really the only people I’ve been hanging out with.
[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:
Unfortunately, no. I started dating her about a month after moving into town. And this group has been really the only people I’ve been hanging out with.[/quote]
That was the start of your problems. I can only advise you to find friends on your own terms. If you start dating a seemingly nice girl who turns out to be a bunny boiler, chances are she’s being just as manipulative to her friends. They will not take your side.
To paraphrase Sun Tzu: “The friend of my girlfriend is my enemy”
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Yep. I can understand that one now. Now I’m back to square one as far as meeting people in this town. To try to improve the process, I’ve started following the “Angry Chicken Protocol” ( Forums - T Nation - The World's Trusted Community for Elite Fitness ). Looked like a there was a lot of golden advice in there.
I think its funny how people tend to think of a restraining order as a magical bubble that will protect you from any and all harm from a particular person. Just cuz the law says she can’t, don’t mean she won’t sneak into your house while you’re sleeping and cut off your nut.
All seriousness aside, this chick is screwed in the head. Move on. Don’t associate with her, or anyone you met while you were with her. Some people in this world are just broken, and if you spend your whole life trying to fix all the broken people you meet, you’re in for one hell of a long, sad, disappointing life.