He doesn’t have kids. Imagine that.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
i don’t own any children[/quote]
Dude you need help.
I really hope you have not reproduced.
Save the world, if your not already I would say go full Ghey please. [/quote]
It would be best if he did.
her problem is that she is young and inexperienced and not equipped to deal with her emotions, her hormones and an assault upon her self-esteem
from an adult who has control and authority over her access to basic needs fulfillment and emotional support structures of extended family
by an adult who lacks empathy for her
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
[quote]tom63 wrote:
Btw, paying for school and earning money for her education should be a good thing. God, you’re a nitwit! So parents should just pay for their kids mistakes even if it means jeopardizing what you can do for the others ?
There’s to much excuse making in this society. And a lot of unemployed humanities majors.[/quote]
you are excusing putting your reputation in the neighbourhood before the well-being of a child by claiming the moral high-ground of ‘working to make money for school’
it also souunds like she is poorly-motivated to do so because what she would want to do with her life is already a waste of time in your mind.[/quote]
That makes absolutely no sense. She is already doing “what she wants with her life”.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
i don’t own any children[/quote]
Dude you need help.
I really hope you have not reproduced.
Save the world, if your not already I would say go full Ghey please. [/quote]
LMAO @ “own”
Psychology is a Humanities program
[quote]CAP1015 wrote:
Narcissistic Personality Disorder:
Has anyone ever had to deal with a family member, specifically a parent that has been diagnosed as having severe Narcissistic Personality Disorder? My aged and ill Mother-in-law was diagnosed by the Hospice team and it is clear that they are correct.
The effect on my family of her behavior has been crippling. Our friends and other extended family members are struggling with us due to our/the health teams actions in dealing with her. They are struggling/upset due to:
a.) not understanding,
b.) not realizing the manipulation and deceit used by those with this condition
c.) pure out and out claims that we are wrong.
I have researched some websites and as much literature as I can muster, but wondered if anyone had any first-hand experience or advice?
Thanks.
[/quote]
so yeah, you can see how people with Personality disorders can hijack every human interaction into a grandstand about how great they are and how worthless and weak everyone else is and how their greatness doesn’t get the respect it deserves
they are twisters and turners to be sure
very destructive
do a lot of harm to vulnerable people left at their mercy
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
Psychology is a Humanities program[/quote]
here’s a guy with a personality disorder and strong socio-pathological traits approaching psychopathy
beating sixteen year old girl with cerebral palsy for playing video games on the computer
throughout the cousrse of the video, i can detect that he never cared about whether or not there was a computer in the house or if she played games with it
it was a pretense for orchestrating this incident
what he has been driving at for months possibly years is this opportunity
he waits until the wife is out of the room to get to the real business
and then he whispers it in the girl’s ear so that the wife can’t hear
the real point of this manufactured crisis was to break her spirit and terrify her into submission
when he says “Do” she is to ‘do’ without question, not even a raised eyebrow, never speak of it to anyone
this beating has nothing to with anything that ‘is for her own good’
this is a pimp beat-down
this is no different than picking up runaways at the bus station and beating them until they agree they will do what they are told
this is not preparation for life
is preparation for servility
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
Psychology is a Humanities program[/quote]
Oh, the Humanities!
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
here’s a guy with a personality disorder and strong socio-pathological traits approaching psychopathy
beating sixteen year old girl with cerebral palsy for playing video games on the computer
throughout the cousrse of the video, i can detect that he never cared about whether or not there was a computer in the house or if she played games with it
it was a pretense for orchestrating this incident
what he has been driving at for months possibly years is this opportunity
he waits until the wife is out of the room to get to the real business
and then he whispers it in the girl’s ear so that the wife can’t hear
the real point of this manufactured crisis was to break her spirit and terrify her into submission
when he says “Do” she is to ‘do’ without question, not even a raised eyebrow, never speak of it to anyone
this beating has nothing to with anything that ‘is for her own good’
this is a pimp beat-down
this is no different than picking up runaways at the bus station and beating them until they agree they will do what they are told
this is not preparation for life
is preparation for servility[/quote]
UPDATE on the MIL, I don’t expect anyone to really care but I just have to vent:
yesterday I get home and the police arrive, they are very nice but they ask if they can come in my house, me being wary ask “why? and if you can’t tell me then you need a warrant”…the office said, “well I can get a warrant, I don’t want to, the reason I’m here is your MIL called via her assisted living facility and said that you were selling drugs, specifically the drugs of morphine, oxycotin and other pain relievers that we had stolen from her when she lived there”.
I told him sure you can come in which he did, looked around and told he me he was going to file a “no issue” report and note the file so that if she keeps calling they will know what it is about. The funny thing about this is she told the office that “she was much happier and safer living in the assisted living facility”
The office asked her why she didn’t call when she lived there if she was in danger and we were engaging in illegal activities and her repsonses " Well I was afraid if I told anyone, they would make me move out"
She also had an attorney contact me to remove me as Durable Power of Attorney, and ask for an accounting of prior expenditures. I told him to go fuck himself and send me a supoena and verification that he was in fact her attorney. I also asked him if when she engaged him that he was aware that she takes morphine 24/7, more than likely has either brain cancer and/or has had several mini-strokes and is listed as having moderate dementia?
He said he would get back with me.
How can you be so fucked up that you engage in warfafe with your only daughter/grandaughter and the people who have waited on you hand and foot for 2 years, when they have gotten you in a better place?
Fuck me.
[quote]CAP1015 wrote:
UPDATE on the MIL, I don’t expect anyone to really care but I just have to vent:
yesterday I get home and the police arrive, they are very nice but they ask if they can come in my house, me being wary ask “why? and if you can’t tell me then you need a warrant”…the office said, “well I can get a warrant, I don’t want to, the reason I’m here is your MIL called via her assisted living facility and said that you were selling drugs, specifically the drugs of morphine, oxycotin and other pain relievers that we had stolen from her when she lived there”.
I told him sure you can come in which he did, looked around and told he me he was going to file a “no issue” report and note the file so that if she keeps calling they will know what it is about. The funny thing about this is she told the office that “she was much happier and safer living in the assisted living facility”
The office asked her why she didn’t call when she lived there if she was in danger and we were engaging in illegal activities and her repsonses " Well I was afraid if I told anyone, they would make me move out"
She also had an attorney contact me to remove me as Durable Power of Attorney, and ask for an accounting of prior expenditures. I told him to go fuck himself and send me a supoena and verification that he was in fact her attorney. I also asked him if when she engaged him that he was aware that she takes morphine 24/7, more than likely has either brain cancer and/or has had several mini-strokes and is listed as having moderate dementia?
He said he would get back with me.
How can you be so fucked up that you engage in warfafe with your only daughter/grandaughter and the people who have waited on you hand and foot for 2 years, when they have gotten you in a better place?
Fuck me.[/quote]
Well to be fair you dont know how fucked up she really is and if she had NPD all her life she did not exactly choose that either.
She is the mother of your wife and the grandmother of your kids, smile, wait for her to die, say something nice at her funeral, get drunk and laugh maniacally.
Um, do the last part in private.
This is all sad though, not just for you, also for her.
^ Unfortunately this is what you have to do.
CAP you win hands down the worst MIL of the lifetime award.
she probably doesn’t want you to be able to forget about her
i would advise against relishing her pain and dancing on her grave or you may find yourself in her shoes someday
Seriously, you have some little old lady who is just waiting to die and while she waits just wants to fuck with you as much as possible. It’s not funny now, but maybe some day in the future you can see the humor in it.
[quote]StevenF wrote:
Seriously, you have some little old lady who is just waiting to die and while she waits just wants to fuck with you as much as possible. It’s not funny now, but maybe some day in the future you can see the humor in it. [/quote]
Thanks SteveF, I do try to find the humor and realize it is just fucked up, the hard part is the wife and daughter having to deal with it. In all seriousness you talk about a person with the ability to do the “scorched earth” tactics, I’m watching and learning.
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
she probably doesn’t want you to be able to forget about her
i would advise against relishing her pain and dancing on her grave or you may find yourself in her shoes someday[/quote]
KrohDaddi, you are correct, there is a good chance I/we end up in a similar situation, except I know that I will never harm my family in this way. You are going to say…How do I know this, well it’s simple I have everything set up via wills, POA, Trusts and exectutors to where even if I try to fight like she is doing, the only damage I will able to do is via verbal attacks and hopefully if I’m in that condition my family will stay away.
I’ve told my daughter that she will never have to worry about this with me, I’ve told her and teh wife, if I get a dread, uncurable desease, I renting a semi truck, filing it with beer, getting a big stack of postcards and going to desert/lake/wherever. Told my daughter when you stop getting post cards come get me. I fucking mean it too…sometimes the emotion of realizing that other people are more important to you than your are to yourself, not only is it eye opening, it makes you realize what it truly means to love someone. Just my opinion…
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
her problem is that she is young and inexperienced and not equipped to deal with her emotions, her hormones and an assault upon her self-esteem
from an adult who has control and authority over her access to basic needs fulfillment and emotional support structures of extended family
by an adult who lacks empathy for her[/quote]
how much do clothes cost in the matrix?