Divorce.
Get away from this devil woman, if you don’t she will just raise another batch of degenerate kids. By all means try and get custody of the kids and set them straight, but failing that just get the hell out of there. You’re not making any difference being there.
Good luck, and remember to get the hell out of there, now!
It’s depressing just reading this.
It’s noble of you to try to help her fucked up kids, and to stick in there to save your own. But I don’t think you can do them anygood by staying with her. Best of luck to you.
[quote]uptruck wrote:
No I do not want any symapthy, but I do kinda know what has to be done. My big problem is that I am told how heartless I am and all the other bullshit. I used to have alot of friends that I huing out with now they are gone I don’t have any support. I do not even get to see my family. She makes plans for the weekend, and then ask what i want to do.
Such as this fathers day weekend two month or so since my fahter has undergone his sven bypass surgery, and
I have seen him ten times for brief periods before she starts in yelling at me about my responiblities to my home not him.
So she wants to go see her son in the state pen for multiple reasons ten minutes away she’s had all week to see him.
The thing is my jimmies have been cut off, my family has been cut off and i feel I have no support I am out of Ideas.
Honestly I wish I had of taken that job giving trail rides in the grand canyon. any where but here
Cause I know the only person you can change is yourself
I am just trying to feed of this link to get some strength to do what I have to.
I do not need sympathy i just need A good kick in the ass .[/quote]
spank the kids.
hell, spank your wife if you have to. she could probably use a good spanking and a time out to think about her attitude.
go see your dad.
get a tape recorder and keep it in your pocket. record the bullshit. don’t forget to turn it off when you are spanking your wife.
get a lawyer. let him hear the tapes. go to court. get a divorce.
end of story.
Actions speak louder than words. If she wants to fight, ignore her, walk out of the room. If the kid mouths off. Send him to bed without dinner. IF your wife tries to feed him, take the food away and put it down the garbage disposal. If they need to go do bed, tell them to go there. If they don’t, pick them up and carry them there and put a rag in the door when you close it so they can’t get out.
You don’t get your balls back by bickering back and forth, get get them back by getting up and doing something.
As has been said before, she did not take your balls, YOU GAVE THEM TO HER, and now it’s your responsibility to take them back.