Ok so my college roommate who’s a freshman is still dating a girl an hour and a half away. She’s a high school senior and comes to visit weekly. In the meantime, my roommate is seeing another girl. And I mean like 24/7. When it was “just sex” for a couple days at first, I guess I could understand. At this point, he’s spending like 90%+ of his time away from classes with this girl. He hasn’t slept in our room in almost a month because he stays there every night.
I feel like a piece of crap, because the only time he’s in our room is when his girlfriend from home stops by to visit. I want to say something, but is it my place? How do I deal with this because it’s wrong, it’s fucked, and he’s a liar.
[quote]ImSkinny wrote:
It is none of your business, your morals are not his. It doesn’t matter if you think its wrong or fucked up.
If I was your room mate, and you told my girl on me, I would shoot you in the foot.
Dont get involved, keep living your life and let him live his.
Your want to get involved is just a cry for help cause you aren’t getting any, amirite?[/quote]
Although a lot of this is true and he would be pissed… For me personally it would just depend on the day and how I’m feeling. As far as you’re concerned, its really is not your place… and even if you could kick his ass 10 times over you have to sleep at some point.
Tread lightly…
you could always tell her then fuck her when she wants to get her “revenge” then just take the heat
That’s abit harsh, I mean theres casual/pissed cheating (not that i condone it!) and theres that… I’d say don’t let it bother you unless its geniunly keeping you up at night. As it is, he’s choosing to go to hers all the time, so you should be safe.
Let’s face it, she could be having the entire highschool football team run a train on her between visits for all you know.
Just enjoy the fact you get the room to yourself and focus on the important things at college like getting drunk, getting stoned, fucking lots of girls and getting into obscure music.
[quote]Cockney Blue wrote:
Let’s face it, she could be having the entire highschool football team run a train on her between visits for all you know.
Just enjoy the fact you get the room to yourself and focus on the important things at college like getting drunk, getting stoned, fucking lots of girls and getting into obscure music.[/quote]
Cockney Blue’s statements are the truest ringers on this whole thread. You don’t know what she’s doing. It’s also not really any of your business whether it is right or wrong, which is a whole debatable subject on it’s own because who makes the standards for what is right and wrong, you. Just enjoy college life because it is the best time you’ll ever have hands down.
Also, it is always nice to have dirt on someone in case they ever do something terrible to you. I prefer the indirect approach to everything in life. Sure beating up someone gets that initial frustration out, but it’s short lived and external wounds heal. It’s better to be able to f’ with someone’s life and make it as miserable as possible for that deep down satisfaction. If he ever screws with you and he is still with that girl, you’ve got that to hold over his head and the lord knows no fury like the fury of a high school girl.
It sounds to me like you’re in a perfect situation. You’re a young college stud with a room pretty much all to yourself. Don’t be emo about your roomie’s relationship issues; have a blast and get as much tail as possible.
