Iāll chime in here. My son ended up being a serious drug user and is now, thankfully, in rehab and is taking it seriously. Why? I divorced my wife because I got tired of her and her hippie friends smoking up and even though pot is supposedly benign, the truth of the matter is that being wasted is being wasted ā she was neglecting my kids and running me into the poorhouse.
All attempts to help her failed, over time (let us be clear, everyone who knows me will tell you I am a great husband and outstanding father.) Now enter the State of Illinois. Men are evil and children are always better off with mom. To combat this - at the behest of my lawyer ā I paid the max possible for child support to her with the understanding that I would still pay for everything my kids needed. She took the money and did not press to have custody.
The only way I could get her out the picture would have been to call a drug raid on my house, turn her in and make sure she got charged. This is how it works people. (FWIW my lawyer stood up at the end of the drug possession hearing for my son and stated flatly that the worst mistake of his career was advising me to not bar all contact of her with my kids. That pretty well stunned the judge who was very kind at that point in trying to get my son back on track.)
Back to history, I was named their legal guardian but they could go over to her place whenever they wanted. Son #2 was 12 at the time. If I tried to stop him, that could be seen as violating the divorce decree and I could lose all rights. This is crucial. State law makes it damned near impossible for a good dad to do anything and is sexist as Hell on this account.
Here is where it went wrong. She ended up with a nasty, abusive crack user who cooked meth. now and then, John by name ā real trash. My youngest stayed there ever more. When I asked why (only recently have we been able to have these chats) he stated that it was because if he was there, John would yell and hit him rather than her.
He resented the fact I had my life together and she didnāt and wanted to help her even though she was, in point of fact, sabotaging every attempt. By this point she has started using crack as well, it turns out. Trying to get him out of there was damned near impossible and all it would take from her is a single word to the State and I would automatically lose any contact I had and be required to go through a legal lengthy process to even see him again.
His older brother refused to go near her house (he is currently a straight A engineering student at college, FYI). So she and her total loser friends turned son #2 on to smoking, then drinking (he was 15). Then a bit later they decided heād be funnier on crack. Then cocaine. Then heroin. The whole time I am doing everything and anything to try and intervene, but not really knowing the full depth to which this has fallen.
He simply stopped coming near me and told me to my face that it was because I was judgemental, unlike his new friends (FYI, they are not judgemental because they are basket cases and will put up with just about any shit if you will tolerate them. This is my experience with folks fixated on being non-judgemental.) He is by this point (age 17) trying to get off it on his own and failing miserably. Then he gets arrested for possession of marijuana. This is good and bad.
So here is where I re-enter our current thread. The War on Drugs means that seeking help gets you thrown in jail, along with as many of your friends as possible. So even people that want to stop are terrified of seeking help. Once you have a criminal record, you can kiss goodbye ever getting out of the ghetto. Is it true that the courts played a role in getting him into rehab? Sure.
Did they also play a role in putting him in harms way and causing the issue? Yes. Did their policies on drugs, by treating them as criminal activities rather than a healthcare issue, make the problem intractable? Yes. Most of the losers who hang around my ex that Iāve talked to are, in point of fact, self-medicating with drugs since they do not want to seek treatment for their other issues, such as being schizophrenic, depressive, bipolar, abused, &c., &c. And no, better healthcare wonāt help them since most of them are already on public assistance and can get it for free.
So what do I think? I think the problem is not the evil political parties. I do not think people are in it for the money ā since money is always involved in everything since people get paychecks, that is a ready made cop-out the destroys any serious analysis of a situation. Donāt let Karl Marx do for us what he did for North Korea and yes I am saying sauch analysis itself is pernicious.
No, the problem is nice middle class people who failed civics. The Criminal Justice system does one thing: it destroys the life of anyone it gets hold of, even those it supposedly is trying to help as often as not. The disconnect is that people think that passing a law is a matter of regulation, that suddenly everyone quits doing whatever once the law hits the books. (My favorite example in Illinois was that until very recently it was a felony to attempt suicide. So yeah, someone with a real psychiatric issue will be fixed by throwing them into prison with a bunch of real felons.)
No, passing a law means that there is suddenly a new class of criminals. (Most drug law is so byzantine virtually nobody outside of a state prosecutor can understand it, let alone regular citizens or drug-addled users.) In this case, people who are self-medicating are now criminals, not sick people. There are a disproportionate number of mentally ill in prison because of this and they get no help and from what I saw the police know this and do target people with mental illnesses or who are just poor minorities.
What is more, the economics of criminality mean that the government in effect creates monopolies of illegal substances and economics drives it.
All that gun violence? About 80% - 90% is criminals fighting over drugs. (One recent study showed that if you remove the top 5 US cityās violence, the US has a rate of violence less than most European countries and even Canada. Let that sink in. The US on the whole is a very safe place to unless you are in the drug trade, then it is extremely lethal.
There are mass murders every day ā defines as more than 2 victims ā but these are mostly related to drugs and who gives a f*ck in the press?) Most of that robbery and theft? A majority of it is drug users trying to get a fix. The rise and fall of the drug trade in the US over the last 30 years is exactly the rise and fall of the economics behind crack and heroin ā almost completely independent of interdiction and enforcement policies.
Yes I am saying that the entire War on Drugs has had nearly the opposite effect of stopping drugs and has made them much more violent and lucrative.* The government (under Reagan) had the wonderful Idea of spraying paraquat on Marijuana fields to render it toxic and end marijuana use. The real effect was to turn on the crack trade and push it into high gear. The huge upswing in incarcerations (mandatory 5 and 10 years sentences) meant that drug dealers and users were being taken off the street at a fast rate and were being replaced just as fast.
Some poor kid in the projects can probably only get a job as a drug dealer. The US has 10 times the number of people incarcerated as any other country and 25% of everyone in a prison in the First World sits in a US jail. True the incarceration rate is finally starting to drop because the drug trade is slowly contracting since the population as a whole is aging.
So what do I think? Legalize drugs. Now. Treat drug use as a healthcare issue, not as a criminal enterprise. And never, ever forget that the first Amendment separating Church and State is better understood as an injunction on have the State take a moral position. Re-instating civil rights (you have a lot fewer of them now than you think) will have to come later. The War on Drugs has been an expensive, repressive and unrelieved disaster and should be treated as such.
Full of shit as alwaysā¦
ā jj
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- Donāt even get me started on how basic rights = protection from the law have been effectively short-circuited by the legal system hellbent on convictions as career moves. Or the militarization of the police by the state which is forcing out older cops and replacing them with younger ex-military who will follow orders to do things like make a raid on an organic farm with APCs.
As a martial artist, I did a stint of training cops for several years so I know a bunch of them. This is not pretty and it is all bipartisan with the support of nice middle class people that want law enforcement to be a service like MacDonaldās. These are the people who tirelessly lobby for a police state.