[quote]There is something to be said here about the word “depression,” which has almost entirely eliminated the word and even the concept of unhappiness from modern life. Of the thousands of patients I have seen, only two or three have ever claimed to be unhappy: all the rest have said that they were depressed. This semantic shift is deeply significant, for it implies that dissatisfaction with life is itself pathological, a medical condition, which it is the responsibility of the doctor to alleviate by medical means. Everyone has a right to health; depression is unhealthy; therefore everyone has a right to be happy (the opposite of being depressed). This idea in turn implies that one’s state of mind, or one’s mood, is or should be independent of the way that one lives one’s life, a belief that must deprive human existence of all meaning, radically disconnecting reward from conduct.
-Theodore Dalrymple
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That is one of the single most profound things I’ve ever read.
“Who best can suffer, best can do” (Milton).
“I had to look at my Hitler side before I could experience my Christ side” (Mother Teresa).
“The true danger is not in setting our goals too high and falling short, but in setting our goals too low and achieving them” (Michelangelo).
“Worry is a misuse of imagination” (Dan Zadra).
“We didn’t get beaten as badly as last year.” (OSU football player) “Congratulations, what does that trophy look like?” (Jim Rome).
“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” (Arnold Schwarzenegger).
“Barriers aren’t there to prevent one from being successful. They are there to identify those who wants it bad enough” (Bill Hartman).
“I become a happier man each time I suffer” (Lance Armstrong).
“If you are willing to go step-by-step you can reach any goal, no matter how far off it seems by focusing on immediate reachable goals. By defining each small step in the right direction as success you can experience a string of small successes that will keep you moving, motivated, and on track” (Dan Millman).
“Short term goals, such as I want to accomplish 50 push-ups right now will keep us focused and motivated far more than far off idealistic resolutions like I want to win the Olympic Games in 6 years. If we look at the top of the mountain to the distant goal we fail everyday to reach it until we finally do. But if our goal is this next small step in the right direction we succeed again and again and again everyday” (Dan Millman).
“Difficulty is relative to preparation. Anything is difficult until it comes easy, and the better prepared you are, the easier anything becomes” (Dan Millman).
“Life is hard, you must be harder” (Dan Millman).
“Urges do not matter, actions do” (Dan Millman).
“How good can you stand it?” (Dan Millman).
“The same thing drives all of us to succeed, one of two experiences, inspiration or desperation. For me it was more desperation . . . I remember looking around and being dissatisfied, and by the way, if you are dissatisfied with some area of your life right now, instead of being frustrated, get excited! Until you get dissatisfied you won’t do anything to take your life to another level. Dissatisfaction is a gem because if you are totally satisfied you are going to get comfortable and then your life begins to deteriorate” (Anthony Robbins).
“If you want anything in life you have to make it a study, not leave it to chance” (Anthony Robbins).
“Gravity is a constant, you have to exert yourself against it” (Anthony Robbins).
“The most valuable of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it has to be done, whether you like it or not” (Aldous Huxley)
“Don’t make the false in you into a self, because that is how the false perpetuates itself” (Eckhart Tolle).
“Freeing yourself from your mind is the only true liberation” (Eckhart Tolle).
“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly however it becomes very destructive. To put it more accurately it is not so much that you use your mind wrongly. You usually don?t use it at all. It uses you. That is the disease. You believe that you are your mind. That is the delusion; the instrument has taken you over” (Eckhart Tolle).