[quote]Professor X wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
Professor X wrote:
It is hilarious that the people crying because this topic isn’t accepted openly are either reluctant to share their own income…or they are unemployed.
Hell, I wouldn’t mind sharing if I was employed. If I can tell folks about my being broke, I can easily tell them when I’ve actually got some money.
I’m assuming most of the younger folks like myself feel the same way. You old farts and your strange social convention confuse the hell outta us.
You sound like someone with very little life experience. The more you have, the more people want to take it from you, especially if you flaunt it. In a competitive sense, if you work at a job getting paid differently than someone else in a similar position, you don’t think that will cause some animosity if you openly discuss it?
Of course this wouldn’t be a concern at all to someone who doesn’t actually have shit.
I am wondering why that needs to be explained at all or if you think the world is such a rosy place that you can walk around exclaiming your wonderful yearly income to anyone who will listen and never experience any negatives as a result.
The fact that you related this to “age” speaks volumes about how in the dark you really are.
I personally never thought that way. But then, I was never clueless enough to think people with more experience who happen to be even mildly successful are somehow doing it wrong when they speak on their actions.[/quote]
There are no negatives in our current situation. None of us here at T-Mag are going to take your job, or dislike you because you make more money than us.
If you’re sitting in a room full of dentists, that’s one thing, but if you’re with your friends or family or someone not in your profession, there’s no reason to be so guarded. What are they going to take from you?
People don’t tell others what they make because they are either ashamed of how little it is, or feel superior and pity those who make less than they do. It’s your compunction, not mine. If you were so concerned about causing animosity you wouldn’t say half the things you do here, X.
Some people are so worried about protecting their little scrap of land that they forget it’s not always under attack.
One can try to justify why money is such an issue, but it’s often not more than a silly social more, like in this situation.