It’s the irony of the situation, but the truth as well. Few people are seeking those who display qualities of incompleteness, but instead those that are complete without the need for another.
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because at a certain point if you stop improving, or you don’t ‘feel’ it anymore it becomes a shitty experience. creativity is tough.
I got to a point where I couldn’t create anything anymore, or anything I did sounded like shit to me. its fun to play other peoples music but that only takes you so far and for me once I learn someones music that music diminishes in quality in a way.
I dunno I can’t explain it. I’m sure I’ll be back at it soon.
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Nah I hear you
It’s like some guys are with women. Before the guy is with her she’s awesome and desirable. Once he has had her though she’s a skank.
He’s not American, he doesn’t know how it works.
In fairness, most Americans don’t seem to understand it either.
To a point.
What if he’s gay?
I don’t know, but life without a partner is lame as hell for most people.
The simple question to ask is, “what do I have to offer in this partnership?”
Self-fulfilled people aren’t most people. I’m not self-fulfilled. At least, not in the way I want to be. But I’m trying. Most people just look for someone else to fill the voids in themselves and end up disappointed. There’s a misconception that two people operating at 50% will add up to be 100% whole, whereas a truly healthy relationship occurs between two people striving to both be at 100%.
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Lol. Friends was pretty shit, so was Tony Blair. I don’t mind HP though, especially compared with how woke JK Rowling is now.
I feel your pain growing up in the 90’s, though your childhood was probably much better than the kids of today.
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Unquestionably.
I don’t hate Harry Potter per se, but God above am I sick of people making it the king of fantasy series. IT’S MEDIOCRE YA FANTASY AT BEST!
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I don’t know either, but single life has been a nice change of pace after spending most of the last 15 years in two serious relationships. The workload is way down and there are no unreasonable sex demands to stop me from enjoying a captivating game of Total War: Warhammer II after a long day of work and training.
I’m still going out on dates for some silly reason, but dating has been fun too.
To throw the incels a bone, I think anyone who had an adolescence that wasn’t governed by a glowing rectangle you kept in your pocket had it better. It seems strange to think about, but my childhood was much more similar to my father’s in the 1950’s than it is to anyone becoming an adult recently.
We’re basically in the middle of a giant medical experiment where we find out what happens to an entire society when we give the children star trek communicators on steroids and ask them to figure out the new social dynamics.
We’re effectively cyborgs now.
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By whom?
White people in America consider them “brown” and refer to them as “sand niggers”.
And when I say “white people” I mean WASPs who don’t even think who don’t even think Italians or Spaniards are white.
You’re talking out of your ass, as usual.
Read your own post.
Well, some of us don’t base our beliefs on the opinion of a few random people.
Really? Did you take a poll of a few hundred million people to come to this conclusion? If you asked all of those people if Steve Jobs or Paul Anka was brown or white, what would they say?
Here’s a medical definition, not some supposed WASP definition, that at one time wouldn’t even have included the Irish.
" Medical Definition of Caucasian
1 : of or relating to the white race of humankind as classified according to physical features
2 : of or relating to the white race as defined by law specifically as composed of persons of European, North African, or southwest Asian ancestry"
I don’t think you want to go there because clearly, you are too uneducated and dull to play that game, Chico. Some advice: go read a book.
Right. And I do not say this to be argumentative or a wise-ass, but you see how you are single and still driven for female companionship? As I’ve said repeatedly, there is an investment in finding women, and even more investment thereafter. So, if it’s just an icing on the cake, why bother?
We’ve touched on this. Do you think dating and Romance in Maine is vastly different than in NYC and Long Island. I haven’t visited Maine and I’m confident it is!
Not all whites are WASP’s. Actually WASP’s make up only a fraction of whites at large. Anyway, WASP is a social construct. White/Indo-European isn’t.
But anyway, hardly any whites reside in the Middle East. So you’re in a sense right. I’ve only visited one Middle Eastern country and aside from my fellow tourists, I likely saw less than five whites amongst the locals.