Thanks for the help fellas…she’s currently in the process of being kicked to the curb
[quote]chobbs wrote:
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
[quote]chobbs wrote:
This goes almost exactly with “Does your GF/wife have male friends or whatever”…I’m 19, freshman in college. I just meet a pretty cool girl who is way out of my league good looking and we hit it off. She has literally zero straight guy friends, but she showed me this video of last weekend where she was intensely making out with one of her gay friends. I don’t want to follow her around to every party nor do I want her to follow me around, so this isn’t an option. But is this a reason to ask questions or just leave it alone?[/quote]
What does “hit it off” mean? Are you in the friend zone or are you tapping it?
If you are tapping it, the response from me would have been, “wow, after he got you all riled up, we should have fucked, saved me the whole foreplay thing.”[/quote]
We’re fuck buddies[/quote]
Seriously how fucking vague is “hitting it off” hahaha wtf.
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
Hi there, buddy 
Nice meeting you here, of all places. Wie geht’s Dir, alter Halunke?
I had a feeling you’d chime in at this one, but I wouldn’t have guessed it’d strike such a nerve.
I should’ve said: all the PUA guys I’ve met and recognized. I’m not claiming I’m not manipulable, nor did I say so - quite the foolhardy thing to read into a simple post on a message board.
Not standing on a mountain, just enjoying the view. It’s a long way up, should that be the way I’d feel like going, but also a long way down.
Also, funny how you’re thinking yourself capable of assessing me by my, if I may say so, rather abstract and general comments on PUA made on a messaging board as opposed to me assessing people I’ve met and spent time with in real life (and thus having gathered concrete data). You have a nice day.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]Waylon Benning wrote:
Meet women who are past their college years. College girls don’t know what they want.[/quote]
bad advice. You’re 19. You don’t know what you want either. So it’s perfect.
Here’s what I read in your OP: “I just met a hot college chick who likes to get down with pretty much anyone regardless of their sexual preference. So basically a regular hot college chick. Should I just whip it out, or talk to her first and then whip it out, or ask my mom what I should do or what?”
In other words, have fun, don’t get an STD. Don’t chase a commitment if she’ll put out regardless (obvi she will)
Please ignore anyone who wants to direct you to a PUA reference. That shit is so dumb.[/quote]
I seriously think you guys who Bash PUA stuff have only read “The Game” and just assume that that’s PUA still do. Which is really really wrong.
[/quote]
You seriously think wrong. I fully understand that the PUA community has a huuuuge variety of dudes in it with varying lessons. All you have to do is look at a lineup of these guys and you can see that.
I don’t like any of it, and personally have no use for it. Game is stupidly easy. There’s way too much detail in these teachings. If you want to get girls in any capacity, just become an interesting person. Be better than your competition, and if you’re not, too bad. The people who pay attention to the PUA stuff remind me of the dudes who come on this site wanting someone to write them a program for getting 18" biceps. In both cases, the real answer is taking the time to cultivate awesomeness. Getting huge in the gym takes time and dedication, and becoming a truly attractive person takes time and dedication.[/quote]
What he said.
Plus, you have to love adding to your own awesomeness just for your own pleasure. Wanna learn a new language? Go for it. Pick up some other skill? Yup. Going after intrinsic motivation (or what I think is intrinsic, it’s hard knowing for ‘sure’ what really sparked your interest) is key.
People will notice you, game among them, too, but sexual attraction is just one tiny aspect of it. I can’t speak for others, but the fact that I don’t even care for this attention (apart from certain scenarios) seems to make me even more attractive. Usually, when I go to a party, or a conference or just someplace, be it alone or with friends, I happen to be the center of attention, rather sooner than later. It’s not that I’m pushing for it, my environment usually makes me, although I’d be perfectly comfy just watching and absorbing my surroundings.
All PUA followers/practitioners I’ve met so far have struck me as insecure. I didn’t even need to cold-read them to know and feel that. They’re rather easy to manipulate and remind me of cult members. It’s fascinating how easy it is to build a rapport (lol) with them and how they confess to having been very insecure since puberty, masking said insecurity in the usual ways. I’m proud to say I’ve steered some of those guys into the direction of more autonomous ways of self-discovery and enhancement, for lack of better wording.
[/quote]
Look at what you just wrote and, maybe, try again.
YOur game told you they had none, perception biases, please…
Yeah, the people you notice are “rather easy to manipulate, wha, wha ,wha”… What does it say about YOU that the people you notice are rather easy to manipulate?
What about the ones you dont notice, playing you?
If they are even interested that is, they are probably not.
But no, you are standing on the top of the mountain, you see it all.
You could not possibly be on so low a hill that all the PUwannabeA�??�?�´s you actually can see indeed do suck?
[/quote]
[/quote]
Es ist halt einfach so, das diese ganze “game” Geschichte ernsthaft falsch beurteilt wird.
Kein Mensch schlägt heute vor das man die Mutter einer Dame beleidigt und ihr dann auf den Hintern greift, weil “negging” und “kino escalation” am besten im lila Smoking, weil “peacocking”.
If you notice it, its not good game.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
Hi there, buddy
Nice meeting you here, of all places. Wie geht’s Dir, alter Halunke?
I had a feeling you’d chime in at this one, but I wouldn’t have guessed it’d strike such a nerve.
I should’ve said: all the PUA guys I’ve met and recognized. I’m not claiming I’m not manipulable, nor did I say so - quite the foolhardy thing to read into a simple post on a message board.
Not standing on a mountain, just enjoying the view. It’s a long way up, should that be the way I’d feel like going, but also a long way down.
Also, funny how you’re thinking yourself capable of assessing me by my, if I may say so, rather abstract and general comments on PUA made on a messaging board as opposed to me assessing people I’ve met and spent time with in real life (and thus having gathered concrete data). You have a nice day.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]Waylon Benning wrote:
Meet women who are past their college years. College girls don’t know what they want.[/quote]
bad advice. You’re 19. You don’t know what you want either. So it’s perfect.
Here’s what I read in your OP: “I just met a hot college chick who likes to get down with pretty much anyone regardless of their sexual preference. So basically a regular hot college chick. Should I just whip it out, or talk to her first and then whip it out, or ask my mom what I should do or what?”
In other words, have fun, don’t get an STD. Don’t chase a commitment if she’ll put out regardless (obvi she will)
Please ignore anyone who wants to direct you to a PUA reference. That shit is so dumb.[/quote]
I seriously think you guys who Bash PUA stuff have only read “The Game” and just assume that that’s PUA still do. Which is really really wrong.
[/quote]
You seriously think wrong. I fully understand that the PUA community has a huuuuge variety of dudes in it with varying lessons. All you have to do is look at a lineup of these guys and you can see that.
I don’t like any of it, and personally have no use for it. Game is stupidly easy. There’s way too much detail in these teachings. If you want to get girls in any capacity, just become an interesting person. Be better than your competition, and if you’re not, too bad. The people who pay attention to the PUA stuff remind me of the dudes who come on this site wanting someone to write them a program for getting 18" biceps. In both cases, the real answer is taking the time to cultivate awesomeness. Getting huge in the gym takes time and dedication, and becoming a truly attractive person takes time and dedication.[/quote]
What he said.
Plus, you have to love adding to your own awesomeness just for your own pleasure. Wanna learn a new language? Go for it. Pick up some other skill? Yup. Going after intrinsic motivation (or what I think is intrinsic, it’s hard knowing for ‘sure’ what really sparked your interest) is key.
People will notice you, game among them, too, but sexual attraction is just one tiny aspect of it. I can’t speak for others, but the fact that I don’t even care for this attention (apart from certain scenarios) seems to make me even more attractive. Usually, when I go to a party, or a conference or just someplace, be it alone or with friends, I happen to be the center of attention, rather sooner than later. It’s not that I’m pushing for it, my environment usually makes me, although I’d be perfectly comfy just watching and absorbing my surroundings.
All PUA followers/practitioners I’ve met so far have struck me as insecure. I didn’t even need to cold-read them to know and feel that. They’re rather easy to manipulate and remind me of cult members. It’s fascinating how easy it is to build a rapport (lol) with them and how they confess to having been very insecure since puberty, masking said insecurity in the usual ways. I’m proud to say I’ve steered some of those guys into the direction of more autonomous ways of self-discovery and enhancement, for lack of better wording.
[/quote]
Look at what you just wrote and, maybe, try again.
YOur game told you they had none, perception biases, please…
Yeah, the people you notice are “rather easy to manipulate, wha, wha ,wha”… What does it say about YOU that the people you notice are rather easy to manipulate?
What about the ones you dont notice, playing you?
If they are even interested that is, they are probably not.
But no, you are standing on the top of the mountain, you see it all.
You could not possibly be on so low a hill that all the PUwannabeA�??�??�?�´s you actually can see indeed do suck?
[/quote]
[/quote]
Es ist halt einfach so, das diese ganze “game” Geschichte ernsthaft falsch beurteilt wird.
Kein Mensch schlÃ?¤gt heute vor das man die Mutter einer Dame beleidigt und ihr dann auf den Hintern greift, weil “negging” und “kino escalation” am besten im lila Smoking, weil “peacocking”.
If you notice it, its not good game.
[/quote]
Ich werde diesen Sommer nach Wien reisen. Wo leben Sie?
[quote]Legionary wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
Hi there, buddy
Nice meeting you here, of all places. Wie geht’s Dir, alter Halunke?
I had a feeling you’d chime in at this one, but I wouldn’t have guessed it’d strike such a nerve.
I should’ve said: all the PUA guys I’ve met and recognized. I’m not claiming I’m not manipulable, nor did I say so - quite the foolhardy thing to read into a simple post on a message board.
Not standing on a mountain, just enjoying the view. It’s a long way up, should that be the way I’d feel like going, but also a long way down.
Also, funny how you’re thinking yourself capable of assessing me by my, if I may say so, rather abstract and general comments on PUA made on a messaging board as opposed to me assessing people I’ve met and spent time with in real life (and thus having gathered concrete data). You have a nice day.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]flipcollar wrote:
[quote]Waylon Benning wrote:
Meet women who are past their college years. College girls don’t know what they want.[/quote]
bad advice. You’re 19. You don’t know what you want either. So it’s perfect.
Here’s what I read in your OP: “I just met a hot college chick who likes to get down with pretty much anyone regardless of their sexual preference. So basically a regular hot college chick. Should I just whip it out, or talk to her first and then whip it out, or ask my mom what I should do or what?”
In other words, have fun, don’t get an STD. Don’t chase a commitment if she’ll put out regardless (obvi she will)
Please ignore anyone who wants to direct you to a PUA reference. That shit is so dumb.[/quote]
I seriously think you guys who Bash PUA stuff have only read “The Game” and just assume that that’s PUA still do. Which is really really wrong.
[/quote]
You seriously think wrong. I fully understand that the PUA community has a huuuuge variety of dudes in it with varying lessons. All you have to do is look at a lineup of these guys and you can see that.
I don’t like any of it, and personally have no use for it. Game is stupidly easy. There’s way too much detail in these teachings. If you want to get girls in any capacity, just become an interesting person. Be better than your competition, and if you’re not, too bad. The people who pay attention to the PUA stuff remind me of the dudes who come on this site wanting someone to write them a program for getting 18" biceps. In both cases, the real answer is taking the time to cultivate awesomeness. Getting huge in the gym takes time and dedication, and becoming a truly attractive person takes time and dedication.[/quote]
What he said.
Plus, you have to love adding to your own awesomeness just for your own pleasure. Wanna learn a new language? Go for it. Pick up some other skill? Yup. Going after intrinsic motivation (or what I think is intrinsic, it’s hard knowing for ‘sure’ what really sparked your interest) is key.
People will notice you, game among them, too, but sexual attraction is just one tiny aspect of it. I can’t speak for others, but the fact that I don’t even care for this attention (apart from certain scenarios) seems to make me even more attractive. Usually, when I go to a party, or a conference or just someplace, be it alone or with friends, I happen to be the center of attention, rather sooner than later. It’s not that I’m pushing for it, my environment usually makes me, although I’d be perfectly comfy just watching and absorbing my surroundings.
All PUA followers/practitioners I’ve met so far have struck me as insecure. I didn’t even need to cold-read them to know and feel that. They’re rather easy to manipulate and remind me of cult members. It’s fascinating how easy it is to build a rapport (lol) with them and how they confess to having been very insecure since puberty, masking said insecurity in the usual ways. I’m proud to say I’ve steered some of those guys into the direction of more autonomous ways of self-discovery and enhancement, for lack of better wording.
[/quote]
Look at what you just wrote and, maybe, try again.
YOur game told you they had none, perception biases, please…
Yeah, the people you notice are “rather easy to manipulate, wha, wha ,wha”… What does it say about YOU that the people you notice are rather easy to manipulate?
What about the ones you dont notice, playing you?
If they are even interested that is, they are probably not.
But no, you are standing on the top of the mountain, you see it all.
You could not possibly be on so low a hill that all the PUwannabeA�??�??�??�?�´s you actually can see indeed do suck?
[/quote]
[/quote]
Es ist halt einfach so, das diese ganze “game” Geschichte ernsthaft falsch beurteilt wird.
Kein Mensch schlÃ??Ã?¤gt heute vor das man die Mutter einer Dame beleidigt und ihr dann auf den Hintern greift, weil “negging” und “kino escalation” am besten im lila Smoking, weil “peacocking”.
If you notice it, its not good game.
[/quote]
Ich werde diesen Sommer nach Wien reisen. Wo leben Sie? [/quote]
[quote]nephorm wrote:
[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
Dude, his entire point is that it isn’t easy, unless you’re born with it.[/quote]
Would you prefer “easier said than done?”
He said that game is “stupidly easy.” All ya gotta do is: BECOME AWESOME.
Becoming a better, more skilled, educated, well-rounded person is good. As if that task weren’t hard enough, do I think that plan is going to, by itself, lead to “good game?” No.[/quote]
It might.
If you realize that you accomplished something whereas the woman before you has accimplished getting out of the bed with her God given looks and a little bit of styling, that might be enough.
Realizing that you may not be THE, but A man, might just be enough.
That however is rarely done, but that is not on her, that is on you.
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
[quote]Rattler wrote:
I think they may have a lot of hidden issues since they can’t have a healthy relationship with a straight male without opening their legs. [/quote]
At another time in my life, I’d have considered this a plus and used some of the gays that followed me around at various gyms as a means to get to those girls.
Instead, I just got annoyed at them.[/quote]
Anytime I’ve been out with some gay dudes they would always introduce me to random women they knew. If they respect the fact you’re straight then they’re just like any other guy, except women trust them way more.