Have you tried 5/3/1?
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Iā¦I didnāt know that was an option
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Is this being asked in the context of gaining self-confidence or muscle so this guy wonāt be such a creep?
It is a panacea.
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Sounds about right.
Wellā¦
āWear a condomā
āNoā
āDonāt cum in meā
āNoā
āLeave my house nowā
āNoā
āStop talking to meā
āNoā
Obviously heās got a blurry concept of consent.
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Youāre a weird dude, man.
So he deliberately came inside her when she asked him not to, which could lead to complications like her having to take the morning after pill, which might not work, which would mean she might have to have an abortion, which could lead to complications that could cause infertility. Or, better yet, she could have ended up with a kid she didnāt want which would effectively ruin her life and mean the kid was born into a fucked up situation which would probably mess it up tooā¦
But yeah, not really shitty. Itās a six and a half at best. Boys will be boys, etc.
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Iām confused, is the OP now the victim here?
It was a general summary of the situation. He just seems to have trouble complying with simple and reasonable requests.
morning after pill also has some nasty side effects. I really think society as a whole would benefit from an effective, reversible male birth control type medication, but a different topic entirely
Well I certainly canāt argue against that.
This series of hypotheticals is so unlikely. Like from getting pregnant to failure of the morning after pill not working to then getting pregnant to then having a complication that then causes future infertility. But I agree exposure to potential risk is not good.
But have you been following along with the thread. Intent is important. If he deliberately deceived the girl and did what he did then yeah I agree its REALLy fucking shitty but if he was drunk and blew his load before he realized well then I would venture to say he is just kinda shitty maybe not even shitty himself it was just a shitty thing that occurred. Now if you want to say he was really shitty for his behavior after. Thats one thing.
Gotta die somewhere. What arenāt you understanding? I am posting about stupid shit on an online message board. This is my goddamn vice in life flipcollar. Sad as that may be don 't try and fucking take it from me!
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The way you presented it, the guy is the one who didnāt consent.
I honestly couldnāt read all the responses. Ok I havenāt posted in awhile partially because I think people dislike me. Yes, I can be a bitch, and now Iām going to bitch. Drinking is no excuse for your behavior. Put yourself in her shoes. She could get a std or even pregnant. Do you know how much stress you put on her? Do you really? She will be literally terrified until her period comes. Literally terrified. If you donāt respect woman, Iād say you have a hand, use it. I honestly am glad I donāt know exactly where youāre at, but ffs, you probably have permanently scarred this girl. You TOOK away her power by such disrespect. I literally feel like puking atm. You canāt disrespect a girl by ignoring her rights as a woman and expect a relationship. Dude, get a clue that you fucking caused her ptsd and she will never look at you again if sheās smart. I personally will Ignore your existence on this forum. My volatility causes others to avoid me, but youāre a criminal in my eyes and should suffer under the law where you live.
After reading your post so do I.
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dont forget to brush your teeth!
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Help a non-native English speaker out.
Is a puking ATM a meme I donāt understand? Like a malfunctioning ATM āpukingā out cash? (That was all I got when I searched.) I just flat donāt understand the reference in this context.
Sorry to be dense.
At The Moment
orā¦
Ass-To-Mouth
Iām guessing the former.
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@aesthetics_sexy I havenāt read this entire thread and I donāt know your entire story BUT you seem like you get too attached to whatever girl you happen to be with. You seem young. Worst of all, you seem insecure, controlling, and manipulative to the point of being sociopathic.
The best advice anyone can give you is to work on your character, work on being less of a douche bag which, if you are a sociopath, is not going to happen.
After that, Iād say forget about this girl. You fucked up. Itās over. Sincerely apologize for what you did. Donāt expect anything in return. Just move on. Unless she reaches out to you, donāt contact her.
Lastly, stop getting too attached to girls. You donāt sound like a good person at all but in an attempt to help you, you need to be your own man and not need to rely on having or, in your case, possessing a girl for your comfort and security.
I could have replaced ānoā with doesnt wear condom, comes inside her, stays around house, and keeps talking to her, but ānoā was quicker, though given my mention of consent I could see how itād be misleading.
But yet it quite literally happens every day.
I agree that the intent does matter. I read the original post as him having done so deliberately but I could well be wrong about that.