Job/Education Suggestions?

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

You are WAY off.

Go back and play in the snow.

You are not even out in the real world yet.[/quote]

eh, don’t worry about it DJ. Dude is a known troll who “remembers” like shit. [/quote]

I have bigger worries you know that.

Just had a provider/site manager turn in resignation today.

Got a letter from an attorney on work issues.

Launching two more sites within the month.

People who have nothing better to do but bring dumb ass comments on websites are the ones with problems.
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Lol it’s even worse to complain that you work so hard. How ironic since you take the time to post on a forum. I don’t pretend such things on internet forums.

Recently I decided to make other believe in real life that I work hard, or else my boss or some asshole or my boss will get back at me one day or another (I DONT WORK HARD). I save my energy and my worries. I don’t care and I get by ok.

What is pathetic is when someone say they work so hard… you should only care about what make sense to you on a very deep level, not the shit you have to do for other people to make a living. Caring about school and some generic work is repulsive. Symbolically it’s like sucking a penis. Maybe this is why girls are so good at school.

[quote]LoRez wrote:
It’s almost like people like being unhappy. I mean, what would you talk about if things were good?

My only complaints right now are that my girlfriend is on vacation in Spain with her family and I’m a bit envious. And that it’s raining.

And x2 on this

A bad work ethic isn’t going to help you get a good job. Nor will it help you keep it. Why reinforce that pattern?[/quote]

I think age has a lot to do with it (as long as I’m not mis-guided on how old people here are)

I’m 26 and I complain about my company, but thats what you get when you’re 26. I was just talking to my dad the other night, he had shitty jobs at shitty companies when he was around my age. Now he is close to retiring from a successful 35yr stint at a fortutne 500 company. He grew up in chicago in the 60’s did all the drugs out there and still put himself through school and grew out of it to be what I consider a successful person. My goal is to one day make at least what he makes.

I’d be willing to bet that a lot of people here who make themselves sound successful are not that “young” (i.e. out of their 20’s and then some).

The people complaining are probably younger (20’s or so).

I’d be willing to bet that I can put forth the same effort/amount of hard work as any of you older seemingly “successful” guys, but it takes time for that hard work to turn into CONSISTENT hard work and to translate into dollars.

who knows, maybe some of the younger guys here do put in more work, but just don’t have the income to show for it.

“success is simply the result of consistent hard work over a long period of time” -Me

Check back with me in a decade or so.

I like hearing rags to riches storiesâ?¦.stories of how people worked their way out of a hole. Stories of how “it’s not easy” these stories can be pretty motivating to me and maybe to others as wellâ?¦

so lets hear some of those stories. I don’t want to just hear you on your perch busting the chops of the younger guys that probably have a very similar mind set to you at the same age.

It may be hard to admit it, but you may not have given your 25 yr old self much respectâ?¦…you may have called him a “cupcake” as they say.

uphill both ways to and from work, yea we know you had it way worse than we do. It’s all perspective mannn.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
OP, ignore all of these clowns. They don’t know what they’re talking about. OBVIOUSLY.

What you need to do is get your degree in mechanical engineering so you can design roller coasters. These are needed all over the world, and are evolving at a dizzying rate, so the job market is nicely secure. If you become tops at this, you will have the opportunity to travel to the best cities, dine in fine restaurants on company dime, etc etc. You will be outside as much as in, and on a schedule of your own choosing. Too, there will be physical elements to the endeavor. Not everyone realizes that.

It is my understanding that these designers work no more than 40 hours per week, regardless of location. So 40 hrs/week in Austria, where that is standard, but also 40 hrs/week in the USA, where typically more hours are expected of the up-and-coming (look at Derek! grumpy, grumpy, grumpy).

Good luck![/quote]

Is this a shot at Mechanical Engineers? I can’t tell where you’re at on the spectrum of sarcastic/serious?

can I get a hint or something? Ask the audience?

I always figured I’d be out there designing the next BMW drivetrain when I wash in Engineering school (shit now I’m doing it!)

[quote]carbiduis wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:
It’s almost like people like being unhappy. I mean, what would you talk about if things were good?

My only complaints right now are that my girlfriend is on vacation in Spain with her family and I’m a bit envious. And that it’s raining.

And x2 on this

A bad work ethic isn’t going to help you get a good job. Nor will it help you keep it. Why reinforce that pattern?[/quote]

I think age has a lot to do with it (as long as I’m not mis-guided on how old people here are)

I’m 26 and I complain about my company, but thats what you get when you’re 26. I was just talking to my dad the other night, he had shitty jobs at shitty companies when he was around my age. Now he is close to retiring from a successful 35yr stint at a fortutne 500 company. He grew up in chicago in the 60’s did all the drugs out there and still put himself through school and grew out of it to be what I consider a successful person. My goal is to one day make at least what he makes.

I’d be willing to bet that a lot of people here who make themselves sound successful are not that “young” (i.e. out of their 20’s and then some).

The people complaining are probably younger (20’s or so).

I’d be willing to bet that I can put forth the same effort/amount of hard work as any of you older seemingly “successful” guys, but it takes time for that hard work to turn into CONSISTENT hard work and to translate into dollars.

who knows, maybe some of the younger guys here do put in more work, but just don’t have the income to show for it.

“success is simply the result of consistent hard work over a long period of time” -Me

Check back with me in a decade or so.

I like hearing rags to riches storiesâ?¦.stories of how people worked their way out of a hole. Stories of how “it’s not easy” these stories can be pretty motivating to me and maybe to others as wellâ?¦

so lets hear some of those stories. I don’t want to just hear you on your perch busting the chops of the younger guys that probably have a very similar mind set to you at the same age.

It may be hard to admit it, but you may not have given your 25 yr old self much respectâ?¦…you may have called him a “cupcake” as they say.

uphill both ways to and from work, yea we know you had it way worse than we do. It’s all perspective mannn.[/quote]
Duh lol.

[quote]jasmincar wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

You are WAY off.

Go back and play in the snow.

You are not even out in the real world yet.[/quote]

eh, don’t worry about it DJ. Dude is a known troll who “remembers” like shit. [/quote]

I have bigger worries you know that.

Just had a provider/site manager turn in resignation today.

Got a letter from an attorney on work issues.

Launching two more sites within the month.

People who have nothing better to do but bring dumb ass comments on websites are the ones with problems.
[/quote]

Lol it’s even worse to complain that you work so hard. How ironic since you take the time to post on a forum. I don’t pretend such things on internet forums.

Recently I decided to make other believe in real life that I work hard, or else my boss or some asshole or my boss will get back at me one day or another (I DONT WORK HARD). I save my energy and my worries. I don’t care and I get by ok.

What is pathetic is when someone say they work so hard… you should only care about what make sense to you on a very deep level, not the shit you have to do for other people to make a living. Caring about school and some generic work is repulsive. Symbolically it’s like sucking a penis. Maybe this is why girls are so good at school.

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Does the crackhouse get wifi?

[quote]jasmincar wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

You are WAY off.

Go back and play in the snow.

You are not even out in the real world yet.[/quote]

eh, don’t worry about it DJ. Dude is a known troll who “remembers” like shit. [/quote]

I have bigger worries you know that.

Just had a provider/site manager turn in resignation today.

Got a letter from an attorney on work issues.

Launching two more sites within the month.

People who have nothing better to do but bring dumb ass comments on websites are the ones with problems.
[/quote]

Lol it’s even worse to complain that you work so hard. How ironic since you take the time to post on a forum. I don’t pretend such things on internet forums.

Recently I decided to make other believe in real life that I work hard, or else my boss or some asshole or my boss will get back at me one day or another (I DONT WORK HARD). I save my energy and my worries. I don’t care and I get by ok.

What is pathetic is when someone say they work so hard… you should only care about what make sense to you on a very deep level, not the shit you have to do for other people to make a living. Caring about school and some generic work is repulsive. Symbolically it’s like sucking a penis. Maybe this is why girls are so good at school.

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If you look I was not complaining about working hard. I can multitask post a few times, and run a business.

So having a work ethic is a bad thing?

I think you have placed yourself as the poster child for the youth of today.

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

I think you have placed yourself as the poster child for the youth of today.
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Without question.

Cupcake as it gets, getting his tent, iPad and MacBook ready for the next Occupy! rally in a city near you.

YOLO

[quote]Aggv wrote:

long hours is in no way indicative of a crappy job, but for that to work long term it better be doing something you enjoy. [/quote]

Correct, and the truth of the matter is most professions that someone is going to enjoy will take time and effort to procure.

I know people who dig holes for a living, put shit in them, and then cover the holes back up. This is what they do. They enjoy it, and they get paid to dig holes. Imagine that… Getting paid to dig a hole, because you are like the Picasso of digging holes…

But these guys didn’t wake up one day being good at digging holes. They had to dig a lot of holes, and understand the complexities of filling them back in before people paid them to dig holes. They had to work, and work hard, to get where they are.

Sure, but you can always learn things even in those situations.

Unfortunately you learn “what not to do” more often than “what to do” but it is what it is.

[quote]carbiduis wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
OP, ignore all of these clowns. They don’t know what they’re talking about. OBVIOUSLY.

What you need to do is get your degree in mechanical engineering so you can design roller coasters. These are needed all over the world, and are evolving at a dizzying rate, so the job market is nicely secure. If you become tops at this, you will have the opportunity to travel to the best cities, dine in fine restaurants on company dime, etc etc. You will be outside as much as in, and on a schedule of your own choosing. Too, there will be physical elements to the endeavor. Not everyone realizes that.

It is my understanding that these designers work no more than 40 hours per week, regardless of location. So 40 hrs/week in Austria, where that is standard, but also 40 hrs/week in the USA, where typically more hours are expected of the up-and-coming (look at Derek! grumpy, grumpy, grumpy).

Good luck![/quote]

Is this a shot at Mechanical Engineers? I can’t tell where you’re at on the spectrum of sarcastic/serious?

can I get a hint or something? Ask the audience?

I always figured I’d be out there designing the next BMW drivetrain when I wash in Engineering school (shit now I’m doing it!)[/quote]

No! Not a shot at mechanical engineers. Not at all.

[quote]carbiduis wrote:
I always figured I’d be out there designing the next BMW drivetrain when I was in Engineering school (shit now I’m doing it!)[/quote]

So what are you complaining about? :wink:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]carbiduis wrote:
I always figured I’d be out there designing the next BMW drivetrain when I was in Engineering school (shit now I’m doing it!)[/quote]

So what are you complaining about? ;-)[/quote]

Ha, I wish.

What i meant was that I was confusing the sarcastic/serious.

[quote]carbiduis wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]carbiduis wrote:
I always figured I’d be out there designing the next BMW drivetrain when I was in Engineering school (shit now I’m doing it!)[/quote]

So what are you complaining about? ;-)[/quote]

Ha, I wish.

What i meant was that I was confusing the sarcastic/serious.[/quote]

I would say that if/when I take a shot at something, it will be very clear that I am doing so. Otherwise assume I’m messing around.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Fluffer for sure. [/quote]

Only if its 40 hours MAX a week.

lmao.

Anyone that says they make real money and only work 40 hours a week (or in some cases didn’t work more than that for years prior) is a liar.

You don’t make real money only working 2080 a year. You just don’t. [/quote]

I’m not sure what you mean by this. There are plenty of people who make high five figures or low six figures working 40 to 50 hours per week. Those are not incomes leading to riches, but I’d say they are solidly middle class.

Now, moving upward, I don’t know many people earning what we call BIG BUCKS working only 40 hours per week unless, as you say, they put up some serious amount of hours in years past.

I wouldn’t apply “cupcake generation” to this situation as there has always been people not cut out for certain things, which is fine so long as they don’t become a burden on others, I believe.

And far worse than this, there have been men in modern times who simply DON’T WANT TO WORK–literally feel they are owed money for no work done–and I have the pleasure of working alongside one (how inspiring for me). :slight_smile:

I can’t see it as unreasonable to want employment that only requires forty hours of work. Some people who desire that know full well they won’t be big earners but are going after something else in life, perhaps more leisure or family time or whatever, just like highly driven people are willing to put up with large work weeks and all sorts of bulls-t that most people can’t deal with in order to command a high salary.

[quote]BrickHead wrote:
I can’t see it as unreasonable to want employment that only requires forty hours of work. Some people who desire that know full well they won’t be big earners but are going after something else in life, perhaps more leisure or family time or whatever, just like highly driven people are willing to put up with large work weeks and all sorts of bulls-t that most people can’t deal with in order to command a high salary.
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finally someone articulated work/life balance better than i have been attempting.

I think the Occupiers have some good messages about some things that I don’t think are going well for us as a society, but are far off on some other issues.

One of the things the Occupiers don’t seem to understand is that NO serious political movement ever had ANY success by loitering in parks and standing around protesting and whining. Perhaps if they referred to Stalin, Chmelnicki, Lenin, Hitler, Mao, and the like, they’d realize it requires far more than that.

Killing everyone who opposes you isnt exactly a sound way either.

[quote]Aggv wrote:
Killing everyone who opposes you isnt exactly a sound way either. [/quote]

All these men had different aims but the take home message is that no solid movement gets anywhere with voting (at this point in time) and standing around shouting and waving flags or signs around.

[quote]BrickHead wrote:

[quote]Aggv wrote:
Killing everyone who opposes you isnt exactly a sound way either. [/quote]

All these men had different aims but the take home message is that no solid movement gets anywhere with voting (at this point in time) and standing around shouting and waving flags or signs around. [/quote]

One of the last things you want to do when trying to make a statement is make it easier for your opposition and dissenters to destroy your legitimacy.

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]BrickHead wrote:

[quote]Aggv wrote:
Killing everyone who opposes you isnt exactly a sound way either. [/quote]

All these men had different aims but the take home message is that no solid movement gets anywhere with voting (at this point in time) and standing around shouting and waving flags or signs around. [/quote]
One of the last things you want to do when trying to make a statement is make it easier for your opposition and dissenters to destroy your legitimacy.[/quote]

That’s one way to do it, and it’s exactly how Stalin did it.

But voting doesn’t do anything for UNMANAGEABLE problems though. That’s the way I personally see it. It’s not just about killing what I would call opposition. People can do away with people who are causing unmanageable problems if there is no foreseeing they will stop. We can use Chmelnicki from the list I made, who went to war with greedy landowners who were financially strangling and sucking the life out of poor peasants. Should he have ASKED them to stop? Does that work?

Look at the stooges we have in charge today. They were voted for and people think they’re going to get ethical, classy people in place just by voting yet again.

[quote]BrickHead wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Fluffer for sure. [/quote]

Only if its 40 hours MAX a week.

lmao.

Anyone that says they make real money and only work 40 hours a week (or in some cases didn’t work more than that for years prior) is a liar.

You don’t make real money only working 2080 a year. You just don’t. [/quote]

I’m not sure what you mean by this. There are plenty of people who make high five figures or low six figures working 40 to 50 hours per week. Those are not incomes leading to riches, but I’d say they are solidly middle class.

Now, moving upward, I don’t know many people earning what we call BIG BUCKS working only 40 hours per week unless, as you say, they put up some serious amount of hours in years past.

I wouldn’t apply “cupcake generation” to this situation as there has always been people not cut out for certain things, which is fine so long as they don’t become a burden on others, I believe.

And far worse than this, there have been men in modern times who simply DON’T WANT TO WORK–literally feel they are owed money for no work done–and I have the pleasure of working alongside one (how inspiring for me). :slight_smile:

I can’t see it as unreasonable to want employment that only requires forty hours of work. Some people who desire that know full well they won’t be big earners but are going after something else in life, perhaps more leisure or family time or whatever, just like highly driven people are willing to put up with large work weeks and all sorts of bulls-t that most people can’t deal with in order to command a high salary.
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I agree with Brick. In the past I’ve worked 37 hour weeks with very rare OT (which is x2) and been in the high 5 figures. It depends on your profession and the company you work for. It so happened that I could opt not to carry a pager and someone else got the extra pay happily for all sorts of OT.

Im in a different role and business unit so while I make more money, the hours have gone up too, but it goes in phases. It’s a bit slow now so I’m getting 35 hour weeks and time off on a lot of banked hours but when it picks up and I am on a bigger project my weeks will be much busier. Im planning another move that will give me more pay but won’t require a lot of extra hours because its in the strategic planning side of things without the timeline pressures but a lot more thinky.

OPs support and release always has to put in a lot of hours because the job demands contiguous chucks of people time. But they need to get time off in return if possible so they can have their wits for the next round. All of these jobs have ‘good’ pay.

Often times the folks putting in the long hours have problems with efficiency. A talented person can often get the same work done without the OT. And some just like to milk it or make heroes of themselves. But if you actually analyze the work done you can often see they are just not getting the work done in the time they should.

I would not want to work more than 45 hours averaged out. Fuck that I want to live. I’ll put in long hours sometimes when it’s called for but not everyday. I work hard but I’m smart and efficient. If you want quality work from your thinkers you need to limit the excessive hours and I strongly discourage it in my teams.