[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
I guess my problem is that I don’t want any censorship, and America has been more and more pro conservative censorship ever since Janet’s nipple showed up in the Super Bowl. We’re turning into a bunch of puritan pussies that can’t raise our own kids, TV and advertising does.
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I’m saying that society has allowed shit like this to be deemed OK and popular. Therefore we get it in droves. It’s pretty sad when you need to watch a bunch of losers for entertainment. It’s the dumbing down of our society I’m talking about.[/quote]
What about violent video games? MMA? Football?
What about when the Roman’s used to let Lions fucking eat slaves? Now that was wholesome family entertainment?
Dude this type of shit has been going on since the beginning of society. It is what sells.
The dirty, dark, and forbidden is what people want. It’s what they buy, whether that be with attention or dollars. People want to experiment, people are enthralled by the “wrong way”. We have been since the begging of time man. Why do you think we made Coke, Heroin, Meth, Acid, etc etc etc. I mean think about the first retard that ate a mushroom off a pile of shit and tripped balls. I mean really, who the fuck thinks: “Lets eat this fungus off a pile of shit, yum, yum, yum”?
People said this same shit about Elvis 60 years ago or so…
No one wants poop dick, but because it is forbidden, most dudes want to PIIHP.
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When the stupid, morally bankrupt shows are what people want today (SEX, SEX, narcissism and hedonism)… what do we ultimately expect out of our society and it’s next generation? Something different?[/quote]
I’m a fuck load different than my parents.
My son is different than I in certain ways too.
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My only option is NOT TV period if I even attempt to control it.
During regular daytime network TV we are assaulted by “My Dick is soft, make it hard” ED commercials… and Trojan Dildo commercials in the middle of the day.
I’m saying there needs to be less dysfunctional shows on TV to protect our kids. Maybe it is a type of censorship but the opposite is teaching us to be a morally bankrupt society otherwise.
Think about it.[/quote]
I am. I have.
Thing is, I don’t have a problem with condom commercials, I hope my kids use them, and the more education they have about them, and how to use them, the better. I want my kids to think that sex, and particularly protected sex is main stream and normal. I want my kids to have a healthy view of sex, not think of it as something forbidden that should be only discussed in the dark corners of the home. The age of “leave it to beaver” only fucked up our nation and our nations view of sex. Europe is light years ahead of America when it comes to the concept of sex, sexuality, and the fact it is OK to want to and have sex.
I don’t have a problem with sex being on TV. Because I’ve talked to my son about what sex is, what it means and what is does and can lead to. He knows that what happens in porn is not what typical sex and love are, he knows that TV is not real life.
Shows like Sex in the City, while I feel are fucking stupid, it is good they are on TV. Women should feel free to have a sexual identity, and if it so happens it is the type of identity that more akin with a traditionally masculine point of view, fine.
I think government control of TV is the very most WRONG thing to do, and very anti-American. Censorship, “for the kids” or not, makes me sick to my stomach. Now I don’t want hardcore anal porn on ABC at 7pm, but fuck if the government should decide the morals and guides of me and my family. Fuck that noise. I am free, and I want to keep it that way. I don’t want some corporation or government deciding what is or isn’t right for me or my child.
I choose to educate my child as much as I can, and try and teach him how to make good choices, and allow him to watch TV, watch the bad movies, and listen to the music with swears in it. I was never censored or protected from myself as a child, and did just fine. But I was also smart enough to make good judgments. Shit, being exposed to certain things truly helped shape who I was and choices I made.
That comment wasn’t aimed solely at you, nor was it an attack. But if you think today’s censorship and control of the airways is laughable, you are more conservative than you think, or at least hella more than myself. (Granted I’m pretty left about certain things, pretty right about others, but mostly “Government should leave me the fuck alone” about things.)
Dude, America is so fucking uptight about sex… You are getting upset by condom commercials, lol. I mean safe sex is something, as a society, we should be able to be open and frank about. Particularly on networks aimed at teens, and other groups who very typically act like fucking retards when it comes to sex.
Look, I get where you are coming from, and we agree that Tv, for the most part is redonk and shouldn’t be watched in general (notice my post count, lol). I just feel like the solution is with us, the parents, and let TV do its thing. And it seems like you feel like the solution is someone or something controlling programing, and let parents do there thing.
We aren’t even that far apart on this, just have different solutions I feel like.
I mean, okay, lets say you get just want you want and get to choose what programs air and when. (Aside from the parental controls you can already place on your cable box.) So, when Aunt Sally calls you up and says that Call of Duty is too violent, are you going to pull that game from the shelves? What about MMA? Can that play on air on Spike?
Once you start the censorship for the kids, where does it stop? And how do you determine the lines in the sand?[/quote]
I agree with alot of what you said, I disagree or feel differently, whichever you want in a couple of ways. One, my feeling and observation is the more you allow your children to watch supoervised tv/web the more they will watch unsupervised on their own, and the more extreme the contnt will be without supervision, because this is how it works. We learn what our parents say is okay and then take it farther when they are not watching. i also feel that we live in a world where most kids are watching tv/web all day with no supervision/guidance. I believ the real concern is when children can engage with their peers about this stuff outside of the supervision of adults. This is when ideas get exchanged, and habits and behaviors get formed. I was not allowed much of the pop culture BS growing up, and while it made it a little harder to involve myself on every level with y frineds, I feel to this day that the effects of not being allowed access to crap tv is what allowed me to develop the abilities to think and analyze the way I can today. I also do not see the sam e abilities with peers my age who were raised with an unhealthy dosed of cable.given me t Call me crazy, but if I walked past a playground and saw a bunch of kids acting like Snookie, Jwoww and the Situation I would be fucking depressed and willing to acknowledge the coming apocalypse.